Her dynamic with her in-laws is WEIRD...Does she not seek advice from her MIL, surely it's something you'd do if you're living in the same house ,she's a new mum so it's still a learning curve for her ,they don't come across as a very close family that's for sure..
Her dynamic with her in-laws is WEIRD...
Can you blur out the names?Does anyone know if I'm allowed to link things from a public Facebook account?
I want to post something but don't want to break any rules.
Can you blur out the names?
I've seen lots of people do it but just block out the poster's nameYeah it's from one of Mel's accounts that are public, just wanted to add something that was a bit ironic but I don't want to break any rules / cause any issues!
A while ago on insta she was saying that poor new mothers get a lot of unsolicited advice and how annoying it is and that new mothers should pretty much tell everyone to F off. People were telling her that the most of that advice usually come from family members, especially MIL and your own mother so you can’t really tell them that. She never replied to those but kept commenting something like she wouldn’t listen to anyone. Which is expected, it’s Melanie and no one is allowed to say a word against hers or dare to know better than herDoes she not seek advice from her MIL, surely it's something you'd do if you're living in the same house ,she's a new mum so it's still a learning curve for her ,they don't come across as a very close family that's for sure..
She was back on her stories again awhile later saying how relieved she was that it was normal,people were leaving comments telling her babies can't over eat etc .They seem to keep pretty much to themselves in the house only venturing from the attic when his parents aren't about (although she wouldn't film if they were) I wonder who does their cooking /washing she never seems to leave her bed ,if Thomas is at work with his dad what does she do all day just sit alone in the attic? she'll have to open herself up to his family eventually if they're planning on staying there longterm once the child starts walking they'll hardly be able to keep him confined to an attic ,she'd be better off integrating herself now so there's no awkwardness in the future,even if it means taking advice from her MIL .I'm sure she's finding out for herself that the reality of raising a child is far different from the fiction she was reading about.A while ago on insta she was saying that poor new mothers get a lot of unsolicited advice and how annoying it is and that new mothers should pretty much tell everyone to F off. People were telling her that the most of that advice usually come from family members, especially MIL and your own mother so you can’t really tell them that. She never replied to those but kept commenting something like she wouldn’t listen to anyone. Which is expected, it’s Melanie and no one is allowed to say a word against hers or dare to know better than her
They seem to keep pretty much to themselves in the house only venturing from the attic when his parents aren't about (although she wouldn't film if they were) I wonder who does their cooking /washing she never seems to leave her bed ,if Thomas is at work with his dad what does she do all day just sit alone in the attic? she'll have to open herself up to his family eventually if they're planning on staying there longterm once the child starts walking they'll hardly be able to keep him confined to an attic ,she'd be better off integrating herself now so there's no awkwardness in the future,even if it means taking advice from her MIL .I'm sure she's finding out for herself that the reality of raising a child is far different from the fiction she was reading about.
It’s a classic Virginia Andrews: Flowers in the Attic (gothic horror)only Melanie's living itHonestly, this sounds like the plot of a horror movie and I got shivers.
Next time she'll be worried the baby is farting, burping, moving, breathing, smiling......She’s worried the baby’s over feeding https://tattle.life/threads/19920/
There’s no such thing as not producing enough milk actually. The milk supply refills on demand. So the more baby feeds the more milk you produce. That’s why sometimes they spent more time on the breast during growth spurts, to let your body know to produce more milk.She did ! babies do not overfeed they stop when they're full ,maybe she's not producing enough milk if he's feeding every hour she need to talk to her midwife/health visitor..