Married at First Sight Uk #12 We’re just here for the snacks!

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On the MAFS insta page someone asked why Ella is so shiny and got a reply from Ella 🤣🤣🤣

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VanterreDuPont said:
Wait, naturally slender women don't factor as 'real women'? Do you have to be genetically predisposed to having a larger body type to be counted as a woman now?

Some of you are going too far the other way with this gatekeeping and it genuinely screams insecurity. You are absolutely right that mainstream beauty standards are problematic and a form of social engineering - for example you rarely see (in Europe, you do elsewhere) more fuller sized women with upper class, 'famous' or elite men - however to say that slim women are not representative of real women is silly. There are entire nations where genetics lead to the majority of the population being slimmer and taller for example.
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No, but it'd be nice if role models were natural. Be it, slim, heavy, wee boobs or big balloons
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Just caught up on last night's, and it was a hard watch! The mass bullying of Jordan was not nice. Even the experts being c*nts about him! Nah, not acceptable
 
Speaking as a fat bird, I can imagine that it must be annoying when people talk about ‘real’ women having curves. My curves aren’t the right ones so get it! But I think the issue with many designers, which is longstanding, is the lack of interest for designing clothes for the female shape - hips (even ones with very little padding) in particular seem to bother them. Even slim woman will often have a small amount of fat on their stomach as we’re designing to have that - a rounded stomach. A thin man is a different shape to a thin woman.
 
VanterreDuPont said:
Wait, naturally slender women don't factor as 'real women'? Do you have to be genetically predisposed to having a larger body type to be counted as a woman now?

Some of you are going too far the other way with this gatekeeping and it genuinely screams insecurity. You are absolutely right that mainstream beauty standards are problematic and a form of social engineering - for example you rarely see (in Europe, you do elsewhere) more fuller sized women with upper class, 'famous' or elite men - however to say that slim women are not representative of real women is silly. There are entire nations where genetics lead to the majority of the population being slimmer and taller for example.
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Of course slender women are real women.

But the reality of the situation is that no matter how slender a woman you are, you will never achieve the figure of the equivalent slender man (or his tentacles 🤣) because a woman's skeleton and fat distribution are different from a man's. Your pelvis will be wider and you'll have layers of fat (on your hips, back and thighs) that a man won't have.

There are women with beautiful figures large and small but it's dangerous to suggest that a woman/girl could achieve the figure of Ella or Dylan whatsisface because it's physically impossible.
 
When Ella says she’s 29, perhaps she means that’s how many years since she became her authentic self*

Completely agree with what has been written about the female body, no matter how many times they go under the knife or how many bottles of Oestrogen they smother themselves in, they can never achieve the reality of being a woman.

*about as authentic as a doll in those dodgy shops on the A
 
Candyfloss1974! said:
Ella has an MUA when her job is caring for her Nan?
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She might mean whenever she goes out and dresses up she uses one?? I can’t imagine one coming to her house every day to put her slap on, even lady gaga won’t have that 😂

Luke is a little witch. Why is he insinuating everyone else upset his wife (namely Jordan) when they just repeated his words.
 
potatopotato2988 said:
She might mean whenever she goes out and dresses up she uses one?? I can’t imagine one coming to her house every day to put her slap on, even lady gaga won’t have that 😂

Luke is a little witch. Why is he insinuating everyone else upset his wife (namely Jordan) when they just repeated his words.
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Wasnt Ella's friend from home (Charlotte?) her stylist or MUA?
 
I can't believe I actually thought Ella and JJ handled themselves quite well with Jordan. He's fine to have an opinion and he's right about some stuff - like Luke for example - but he needs to say it and then stop. Erica is just vile, trying to bait Ella at the table like that, she handed herself well there - if she puts her shiny funbags away I could actually find her bearable in small doses.

I felt for Jay but best she finds out what Luke is like now before she moves halfway down the country for him.

I can't believe I'm saying it but Mark has grown on me and so has Georges - I hope Georges writes leave this week because Peggy keeping on digging at him is painful to watch tbh. Would I like my partner to squat on camera, no, but he's done it, he's said he won't do it again if he's with her, move on or move out! As for looking thick but being somewhat intelligent to be able to do her job. You can be book smart but not life smart - I think she's good at one thing but everything else has been done by her parents and she's clueless. Her need to be validated and have everyone like her and her choices is SO immature.
 
newaroundhere123 said:
I can't believe I actually thought Ella and JJ handled themselves quite well with Jordan. He's fine to have an opinion and he's right about some stuff - like Luke for example - but he needs to say it and then stop. Erica is just vile, trying to bait Ella at the table like that, she handed herself well there - if she puts her shiny funbags away I could actually find her bearable in small doses.

I felt for Jay but best she finds out what Luke is like now before she moves halfway down the country for him.

I can't believe I'm saying it but Mark has grown on me and so has Georges - I hope Georges writes leave this week because Peggy keeping on digging at him is painful to watch tbh. Would I like my partner to squat on camera, no, but he's done it, he's said he won't do it again if he's with her, move on or move out! As for looking thick but being somewhat intelligent to be able to do her job. You can be book smart but not life smart - I think she's good at one thing but everything else has been done by her parents and she's clueless. Her need to be validated and have everyone like her and her choices is SO immature.
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I generally agree. Jordan doesn't know when to shut up and won't let anything go which is why the others dislike him. Georges made a similar point but didn't go on and on about it. It does point to Jordan being either socially unaware or rather immature.

Also the JJ and Ella thing. I can see why Erica wasn't impressed about them returning but what's the point of the rest of them pitching in about it as it's not up to them who's on the show. Ella is a nasty witch though.
 
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