Weathergirl
Chatty Member
Sorry, another personal comparison from me. I can empathise with Roz. Before I was married I had 2 perfectly nice boyfriends, who treated me well. I slept with one of them, but when it came to the other I only dated him. I can therefore understand how it feels, to know that there is no future because I wanted to have children, and the thought of having a child with either of them turned my stomach. It's an overwhelming feeling that is very difficult to explain, as it isn't based on either looks or personality. It wasn't even their job or career. It's on an intuitive, instinctive level. When the right man came along who I wanted to marry and have children with, I literally "just knew".