I also think it's weird you only joined last night and put in information you wouldn't know unless you're Malin or Jared!!!
That statement you've said screams 'I'm desperate to get people to believe it's not sharpie's' to me.
Like I said if sharpie wasn't the dad the DNA would have been given to shut him up!!
I really hate that tattle gives u a time limit on your own post, meaning u are unable to edit or even delete it. I wanted to edit the above post. How do you delete your post?? So frustrating.
It so seems this way cos I agree of course she must want to proove herself to him to shut him up & us & everyone else as it is logical, humane & normal to do so, give both men & associated familys a dna even if she knows the truth herself. Even before being asked it should be provided in a case like this where u sleep with 2 men & both men causing drama for you. So we assume this. Because that is what we would do or the norm.
Unfortunately narcissists aren't a normal human they are unable to do these things they do not even see it how we do & simply don't/can't.
In this dna situation it is because. Narcs like to have control. They like to inflict pain. They like to keep a window of future communication open. Especially after a scenrio as such with Sharpie where her control was lost & huge self ego & grandiosity had been dented.
She is forever being dumped. Publicly. Her perfect self put out image she trys creating never prospers.
She over does the love bomb, publicly. And then suffers the shame when it fails every time, publicly. So has to blame and shame.
1 exteme to the opposite extreme.
Sadly its a narc thing a ego & control thing a smear campaign a power a revenge thing a witholding power even for something as serious as dna of a child. The narcissist puts self before ANYTHING.
Sharpie binned her off. Publicly. Gone against her publicly. Saw her mask fall off. Shared private texts here. Exposed her. (Sooooo wish he exposed more! He did sooooo well not to) Chose another woman. Chose another family. HUGE narc injury.
She is punishing him. Narcs love drama they love choas. They love power. They love love triangles. Hence always seems to be with a taken man. She feels powerful at the start by being sucessful in stealing a man. Then the powers taken when dumped. They love being in control & powerful to people who left them, so is witholding the dna purposely. She thinks shes winning it boosts her ego that was hurt.
I'm very experienced & knowledge based with Narcissim. It's so interesting. She would make great case study for education! The education she trys to teach & preach on the topic. Hilarious. How hasn't she been diagnosed by all these therapists she's used by now!!!! Im only self educated. I see it. How don't they. Mad.
A narcissistic injury like being dumped can cause a narcissist reaction like this. She is purposely still trying to punish & control Sharpie. And have a open door for future communication with him.
Same for Tom by taking him to court & sharing the photos of a bruise. Punishment. Control.
Same as outting J as a bad dad now & a narcissist.
Shes the most textbook case I've come across in my research & learning. What she has done with Tom Sharpie & now Jared is textbook narcissim abuse. She ticks EVERY box. With many examples. Every time.