MAFSA Season 11 (E4 pace) #8 Tori not even part of the food chain, Wizard of Aus or is it Hoops again?

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I’m on the fence with Michael and Steven. Steven has been honest about his feelings of not having a spark of attraction for Michael. He is honest about being hopeful that it would grow. Is it any better what Jack is doing, hiding his lack of attraction from Tori?
It must really sting, to be told you aren’t attractive, and I think Steven could have explained it better e.g. ‘I can see Michael is a gorgeous man, he’s not my usual type and I’m having a bit of a hard time seeing past that at the moment; but I’m hopeful it will grow’. He just didn’t explain himself very eloquently, but I can’t criticise him too much for being honest and direct.
 
Rainbow Blossom said:
I’m on the fence with Michael and Steven. Steven has been honest about his feelings of not having a spark of attraction for Michael. He is honest about being hopeful that it would grow. Is it any better what Jack is doing, hiding his lack of attraction from Tori?
It must really sting, to be told you aren’t attractive, and I think Steven could have explained it better e.g. ‘I can see Michael is a gorgeous man, he’s not my usual type and I’m having a bit of a hard time seeing past that at the moment; but I’m hopeful it will grow’. He just didn’t explain himself very eloquently, but I can’t criticise him too much for being honest and direct.
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I don't think there was anything wrong with what he said at the CC. But the clip of him just sat in silence while Michael was trying to talk and banter with him was extremely uncomfortable to watch. He was rude.
 
takingthemickmick said:
I don't think there was anything wrong with what he said at the CC. But the clip of him just sat in silence while Michael was trying to talk and banter with him was extremely uncomfortable to watch. He was rude.
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yes! you don't have to be attracted to someone to have a basic conversation - he was so rude, I felt for Michael - and if he felt that bad he couldn't even talk to him then why write stay.
 
takingthemickmick said:
I don't think there was anything wrong with what he said at the CC. But the clip of him just sat in silence while Michael was trying to talk and banter with him was extremely uncomfortable to watch. He was rude.
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Agreed. However I didn't like that Michael seemed to not know any of this prior to the commitment ceremony. I think Michael thought there was some attraction there from Stephens point, they just werent completely there yet. I think he was a bit taken back, and he looked so upset at hearing it, which was the part I didn't like about the CC.

Basically what he said was fine, I just felt bad for Michael that it was his first time hearing it.
 
Spoiler about two people apparently dating now

Just seen on Facebook that apparently Andi and Tim are dating?!

I won’t post the article because it could have spoilers on it but it’s on the holy church of mafs Facebook page.

Someone commented they were cosying up at the dinner parties so they’re not surprised.

I wonder if it’s true!
 
orangehead said:
Spoiler about two people apparently dating now

Just seen on Facebook that apparently Andi and Tim are dating?!

I won’t post the article because it could have spoilers on it but it’s on the holy church of mafs Facebook page.

Someone commented they were cosying up at the dinner parties so they’re not surprised.

I wonder if it’s true!
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Whattttt!! Surely not!
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I feel sorry for Michael, I think stephen checked out as soon as he found out about the drop out groom. Deeece and jade are my fave. We hoped with his mental health background he would a deeeece person and I think we’re right. Eden and Jayden are just irrelevant. Andi needs rescuing from the sexpest. Tori and Jack deserve each other. Lauren is funny AF and got short changed with boring Jono imo.

I would say I can’t wait for tonight’s cos it looks mint but my chaaaaald is on the school hols and I’m barley getting a second to myself never mind an hour and half to watch MAFS 😩
 
Louanne said:
I didn't watch live, and caught up earlier today, and not only is Dirty Dickie a total sex pest, I don't like how aggressive he was when talking about Andie to the experts.
He's a complete cock.
If I were her, I'd be tempted to unplug his Darth Vader mask while he slept.
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I'm so sad Andi didn't feel in a safe enough space to actually say what happened, it speaks volumes about her future with droopy dicky now, there's no coming back from that
 
Ginnyjo said:
I'm so sad Andi didn't feel in a safe enough space to actually say what happened, it speaks volumes about her future with droopy dicky now, there's no coming back from that
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The experts were really pushing the 'but you still like him though, right?' angle when it was so obvious she had completely shut down. She was too nice, she should have put leave. He's so angry that she's not putting out, like it's his right, and not seeing for one minute that maybe she doesn't want to be mauled by a s3x pest who's happy to rate young girls in front of his wife :sick:
 
newaroundhere123 said:
The experts were really pushing the 'but you still like him though, right?' angle when it was so obvious she had completely shut down. She was too nice, she should have put leave. He's so angry that she's not putting out, like it's his right, and not seeing for one minute that maybe she doesn't want to be mauled by a s3x pest who's happy to rate young girls in front of his wife :sick:
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I thought the way the experts and the other couples were towards andi when she was upset was awful. I was so angry at mel when andi explained what he said and the way he said it upset her and it’s put her walls up and Mel was like well you know he’s a great guy though so just take your walls down. Well, he’s not a great guy is he!?
 
orangehead said:
I thought the way the experts and the other couples were towards andi when she was upset was awful. I was so angry at mel when andi explained what he said and the way he said it upset her and it’s put her walls up and Mel was like well you know he’s a great guy though so just take your walls down. Well, he’s not a great guy is he!?
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exactly! there's a difference between walls and boundaries and he's clearly crossed several boundaries and humiliated her on more than one occasion, he's just more smarmy than say, Jack, and able to appear nicer on a surface level
 
IKickLikeKatya said:
Confession time. I'm supposed to be cutting back on sugary stuff but M&S has their easter chocolates super cheap. Cupboard now stuffed with Whippy bar, bags of speckled eggs and Percy Pigs. Oops 😬 🤭
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I went to M&S as soon as they opened yesterday to bag some Easter bargains and they had duck all, other than some bruised hot cross buns that were half price. I’m devastated. What a day
 
malibu skies said:
I went to M&S as soon as they opened yesterday to bag some Easter bargains and they had duck all, other than some bruised hot cross buns that were half price. I’m devastated. What a day
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Oh nooo! There wasn't any big eggs left anymore but a bit of the other stuff. So I just scooped what I could carry in my hands.
 
newaroundhere123 said:
exactly! there's a difference between walls and boundaries and he's clearly crossed several boundaries and humiliated her on more than one occasion, he's just more smarmy than say, Jack, and able to appear nicer on a surface level
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I agree! Also even if he is a nice guy, the most lovely guy in the whole world who has ever existed, he has upset andi on this occasion and she isn’t obligated to take her walls down or move her boundaries to accommodate him and he isn’t entitled to her, her body, her time or sex from her just because he’s a nice guy. He could have said something that literally every other woman on the planet wouldn’t have been upset over but she is and she’s allowed to be, whether he’s a nice guy or not, whether it wouldn’t be a problem for every other woman or not, whether he’s sorry or not, she’s allowed to have feelings. Him not actually being a nice guy doesn’t even matter really, everyone just dismissed her, even her own friends! I felt like I was in the twilight zone!
 
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