MAFS Australia season 10 (E4 pace) #14 Alyssa has a Chaaald, Cam prefers kissin' fish in the wild

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NoTeaHere said:
I wonder if Alyssa will see what we see when she watches this. I wonder if she sees herself as innocent and hard done by and that we’ll all buy it. But she’ll be faced with some nasty expressions on her face which make it ugly and aimed at Duncan who everyone is siding with.
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Sort of yes and no.
Narcissistic brains are hardwired different to everyone else.
She will watch it, see what a fool she's made of herself but her Narc brain won't understand why. She'll blame him, the other couples, the ixperts, the edit. Anything other than see it as her fault.
 
MooBelle said:
She's waiting for Duncan to blame her and he hasn't. She needs him to be the bad guy so she can explode and storm off.
He doesn't know he's doing it but he is 'Grey Rocking' her. Grey Rock is a therapy definition of a way of handling a narcissistic partner.
(I do know a bit about this, sadly from experience. I hope I'm not bringing the mood down on the thread by talking about narcissistic behaviour all the time x)
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What you’re saying is related and relatable. Needs calling out. I’ve been in one toxic relationship in my time. Possibly it’s put me off ever dating again even though the others were lovely it just didn’t work out with them. ❤️
 
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