MAFS Australia season 10 (E4 pace) #13 Bronte's DONE!!

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Thank(space)you said:
As much as I hate to say it, I don't think her unavailability is unreasonable as a single mum. Like for early days dating that's a fair amount, plus depending on child's age he could come over in the evening when child is in bed.
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I agree, in a real world context. I think from Duncan's perspective, they've lived together and got to know each other on a much more intimate level than casual dating so it's not unreasonable to expect a bit more time together. Plus of you've started like this and lose that momentum, the relationship will fizzle quickly. See Dom and Jack from last season.
 
Thank(space)you said:
As much as I hate to say it, I don't think her unavailability is unreasonable as a single mum. Like for early days dating that's a fair amount, plus depending on child's age he could come over in the evening when child is in bed.
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I sort of agree but it's her rigid thinking that's off-putting. If you really want to be with someone you'll find a way to be flexible.
Also she sounds as if she's determined to keep him away from her child.
 
malibu skies said:
Can someone please motivate me to go and wash my hair at 9? I’m starting to look like Cam
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Is this a good enough hint? 😁
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Thank(space)you said:
As much as I hate to say it, I don't think her unavailability is unreasonable as a single mum. Like for early days dating that's a fair amount, plus depending on child's age he could come over in the evening when child is in bed.
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Then why sign up for an ixperiment to marry a stranger in hopes that you are still 'married' on the outside? Surely she's done things the wrong way around then, maybe be available every other weekend and build up, she went on for fame, nothing else.
 
docmum said:
he will be feeling guilt because this is how she’s played it all along. She had to make it in to a big deal for them just to be ‘intimate’. Gaslighting catch 22, he can see her games but he’s equally a decent bloke who has been made to feel like he has to be grateful for her. When she’s given any type of affection in return it’s taken to mean so much more than it usually would be in a healthy relationship. My ex was the male Alyssa in terms of gaslighting (I had my own child but he was a sole parent of 3 and did all of this with me, on his terms etc) combined with Harrison’s narcissism (stuff he says to control/manipulate/twist scenarios). Needless to say I’ll be single forever after that, still working through it but see so much of it. I can’t stand Brontë, but even very recently I have been justifying my ex relationship with ‘when it was good it was really good, when it was bad it was horrible’ like she said last night which was another wake up call for me 💔
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Sounds like you made a good choice to leave, I've seen some of that before too in people. Narcs leave you powerless ☹️
 
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