Even the fact she vlogs and posts online screams the needs for external validation. Nothing she does really feels truly authentic. The way she talks about new interest and hobbies (the chickens, the greenhouse and garden) she may have ADHD, she seems to love a new fad it becomes her whole personality but then she gets bored and moves on. She can never really articulate why she likes certain things, it comes across as empty or even maybe shallow. I just think she has a personality disorder (and narcissism!) it’s as though everything is a facade. It would explain the amount of wine she consumes too!