Miss Trunchbull
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She’s clearly not a trained therapist…..they don’t say such things or flounce their hair or look as self absorbed as their clients….
Lydia Millen #184 Not a dolphin or a shark, let’s be real, she’s just a narc!
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Totally agree; particularly as they openly read this forum whilst staunchly remain wilfully ignorant...staggering (and worrying)!
I didn’t realize that she responded to negative YouTube comments too. I would block rexy if I were Lydia. How many times has she been rude to Lydia’s actual fans who were trying to offer constructive criticism. Or fans who don’t comment for fear of her bulldog tendencies.
And how is she going to react if Lydia does something she doesn’t like.
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toomuchstuff
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Half way through the waffle session with the life coach and already its annoying me -
Firstly its basically just an ego boost session with two girls agreeing with each other BUT there was one point where coach had to set Lydiot straight about labelling herself, Lydiot then agreed as though she would never label herself when that is exactly what she had done then continued to do throughout the session.
Secondly and I think the thing that I felt most strongly about is this - if you put yourself out there (influencer) to make money by just documenting your life to THE WORLD, you are going to get some nutters responding to you, you will also get constructive criticism and lots of other types of crap responses. Now if thats the worst thing you have to put up with and it sends you over the edge then clearly you shouldn't be an influencer. People who have real professions train for years to learn skills, facts, knowledge etc. this allows them to do their job, As far as I can see for Lydiot she just started documenting her life, she did no real training or years of study so tit happens Lydiot, your going to get haters, so suck it up princess and just be grateful you can make lots of money doing jack tit and helping NO ONE ever in life.
I will continue to plough through the drivel session and come back to rant again no doubt.
Firstly its basically just an ego boost session with two girls agreeing with each other BUT there was one point where coach had to set Lydiot straight about labelling herself, Lydiot then agreed as though she would never label herself when that is exactly what she had done then continued to do throughout the session.
Secondly and I think the thing that I felt most strongly about is this - if you put yourself out there (influencer) to make money by just documenting your life to THE WORLD, you are going to get some nutters responding to you, you will also get constructive criticism and lots of other types of crap responses. Now if thats the worst thing you have to put up with and it sends you over the edge then clearly you shouldn't be an influencer. People who have real professions train for years to learn skills, facts, knowledge etc. this allows them to do their job, As far as I can see for Lydiot she just started documenting her life, she did no real training or years of study so tit happens Lydiot, your going to get haters, so suck it up princess and just be grateful you can make lots of money doing jack tit and helping NO ONE ever in life.
I will continue to plough through the drivel session and come back to rant again no doubt.
ughplease
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I don’t watch or follow Lydia, you are just all so funny I like to read here. But every time I see how long her videos are I’m just shocked! Longer than a tv show episode most of the time! And for what?!
It just feels so disrespectful. Between work, chores, friends, and for some of us, kids, the idea of taking up an HOUR OR MORE of people’s time to watch you try on massive dresses and parade around your Hermès bag is straight up rude.
It just feels so disrespectful. Between work, chores, friends, and for some of us, kids, the idea of taking up an HOUR OR MORE of people’s time to watch you try on massive dresses and parade around your Hermès bag is straight up rude.
Oops...
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Good morning and welcome to today 
Call me Irving Berlin…but I sense we may need to face the music and dance! Why is that I hear you half-heartedly enquire? Weeerrrrlll, because there may be trouble ahead; that’s why!
It’s the chicken(s)!!
The arrival day grows ever closer as does a feeling of impending doom. I don’t think the fencing has been done twice yet and those who know have clearly stated the fencing isn’t right or protective enough.
I wonder if this is how the crowds who piled into the Collesium in Rome felt when they went to watch the inevitable happen to the defenceless? Are we all the reluctant but knowing first degree ‘second sighters’ who are taking a reluctant seat in a ‘Woe, woe and thrice woe! Cassandra-Esque Greek Tragedy?
When I felt a bit anxious as a child, my mother always used to tell me to ‘Think of something nice’. So recently, I find myself constantly thinking of Gary Barlow turning up at my place and inviting me to write a song called ‘Moonlight, Love and Romance‘ with him. I just can’t think of anything nicer…
Peace, Piece, Peas ✌
Call me Irving Berlin…but I sense we may need to face the music and dance! Why is that I hear you half-heartedly enquire? Weeerrrrlll, because there may be trouble ahead; that’s why!
It’s the chicken(s)!!
The arrival day grows ever closer as does a feeling of impending doom. I don’t think the fencing has been done twice yet and those who know have clearly stated the fencing isn’t right or protective enough.
I wonder if this is how the crowds who piled into the Collesium in Rome felt when they went to watch the inevitable happen to the defenceless? Are we all the reluctant but knowing first degree ‘second sighters’ who are taking a reluctant seat in a ‘Woe, woe and thrice woe! Cassandra-Esque Greek Tragedy?
When I felt a bit anxious as a child, my mother always used to tell me to ‘Think of something nice’. So recently, I find myself constantly thinking of Gary Barlow turning up at my place and inviting me to write a song called ‘Moonlight, Love and Romance‘ with him. I just can’t think of anything nicer…
Peace, Piece, Peas ✌
IrishName
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I need to catch up properly but half way through her latest vlog and absolutely furious.
She talks about a friend of theirs who had problems with his family since the age of 10 which he can’t let go of. And how he should just talk to a life coach a deal with it.
What she is talking about there is childhood trauma.
As someone who experienced childhood trauma which resulted in me dealing with not only awful mental health issues (GAD, OCD, PTSD and much worse) but with long term chronic health conditions which my consultant in the pain clinic said where directly related to my childhood trauma. He said “it’s not that the pain of your chronic pain is in your head, it’s that the trauma as a child has caused your brain to read all and any stress as pain, agonising pain. Childhood trauma causes indelible changes to your DNA.”
That cannot be undone with seeing a life coach.
I see a therapist (NHS psychiatrist) twice a week and have done for many years.
He uses a very specific kind of therapy designed for people with childhood trauma, he is a qualified doctor and has gone on to study as a psychiatrist for 7 years plus multiple further years for this specific therapy.
Jez from Peep Show, he is not.
I feel a good deal better for undergoing the therapy but it isn’t just a place I go and chat and have platitudes and “what I always say is” handed back to me. I go in there and we do work.
It hurts, sometimes it hurts beyond measure but it helps. It tones down the pain by around 5-10%.
One small memory of my trauma and we are back to square one.
Lydia’s ramble about this poor chap with clear childhood trauma is enraging. To compare not being able to cope with online critical comments (and I’m sure 2% are bad but most are constructive) to the life long impact of childhood trauma is bleeping disgusting.
Apparently he should make peace with what happened to him as a child. Which apparently were “horrible things you cannot even put into words.” He is choosing to let it impact his life. He was a CHILD. A traumatised child. He didn’t get a choice in how that impacted him for the rest of his life.
She is a walking personality disorder.
Sorry for dumping all of that on you guys. I’m just absolutely furious at how deluded this woman is and how she is being propped up by an unlicensed life coach who will seemingly tell her what she wants to hear for money.
She talks about a friend of theirs who had problems with his family since the age of 10 which he can’t let go of. And how he should just talk to a life coach a deal with it.
What she is talking about there is childhood trauma.
As someone who experienced childhood trauma which resulted in me dealing with not only awful mental health issues (GAD, OCD, PTSD and much worse) but with long term chronic health conditions which my consultant in the pain clinic said where directly related to my childhood trauma. He said “it’s not that the pain of your chronic pain is in your head, it’s that the trauma as a child has caused your brain to read all and any stress as pain, agonising pain. Childhood trauma causes indelible changes to your DNA.”
That cannot be undone with seeing a life coach.
I see a therapist (NHS psychiatrist) twice a week and have done for many years.
He uses a very specific kind of therapy designed for people with childhood trauma, he is a qualified doctor and has gone on to study as a psychiatrist for 7 years plus multiple further years for this specific therapy.
Jez from Peep Show, he is not.
I feel a good deal better for undergoing the therapy but it isn’t just a place I go and chat and have platitudes and “what I always say is” handed back to me. I go in there and we do work.
It hurts, sometimes it hurts beyond measure but it helps. It tones down the pain by around 5-10%.
One small memory of my trauma and we are back to square one.
Lydia’s ramble about this poor chap with clear childhood trauma is enraging. To compare not being able to cope with online critical comments (and I’m sure 2% are bad but most are constructive) to the life long impact of childhood trauma is bleeping disgusting.
Apparently he should make peace with what happened to him as a child. Which apparently were “horrible things you cannot even put into words.” He is choosing to let it impact his life. He was a CHILD. A traumatised child. He didn’t get a choice in how that impacted him for the rest of his life.
She is a walking personality disorder.
Sorry for dumping all of that on you guys. I’m just absolutely furious at how deluded this woman is and how she is being propped up by an unlicensed life coach who will seemingly tell her what she wants to hear for money.
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Sofie
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Us Tattlers going through Lydiot threads
I love this, there s something about skipping that puts a smile on your face.
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Is it me or is her face melting? I feel like it s slip sliding away. We ll tune in soon one Monday/Thursday evening and it ll be in a melted pool on the floor of her dressing room.
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TBH I think most of use just skip through the drivel. Her Travesty stretches out the nontent for the money she makes from the adverts.
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ilikenailpolish
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Thank you for sharing this. This is so important because the realm of mental health is so huge and varied and vast, even with people with the same “diagnosis”. I feel like people need to know where to turn to for real help if they need, and not be misled by these new-fangled routes of pseudo-therapy!
Childhood trauma is complex, and can really change the colour of our lives. I can never understand what it means for you but just want to say I’m inspired to hear of someone going back to therapy to keep working on it in spite of how tiring it can all seem sometimes. We will never get over it, but we can work with it and through it
wishing you love, joy, hope, and light in your journey.
Namima
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Lydiot eating her one meal a day
Oh man, I've watched that about 10 times and laughed every time !!!
Greentrees
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Yes, her new PR are on a mission to rebrand/redeem her flailing 'career'. They are flogging a dead horse, her reputation has already taken a major nose dive into the abyss never to rise again. They, 'Belle PR', will need a miracle and then some to resurrect a scrap of whatever the hell they are trying to resurrect. And her prancing around in a million different white shirt dresses, attending luncheons, with her hair tied back like Mrs Doubtfire ain't going to cut it.
Namima
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Reading your post, my heart hurts for you. But you are doing the hard work to heal yourself and that is so wonderful. I wish I could muster up the words to say more. Sending you the tightest of hugs and lots of love. ♥
I agree, she has always been unnaturally thin looking to me. Going wayyyy back , Ibiza there is NO way she is eating normally.
I don’t want to insinuate a eating disorder, but …..watching her pattern of not eating much during the day and then stuffing her face at night, it just looks like she has a pattern of bingeing , perhaps from restricting calories so much in her life and being obsessed with fitness as well , who knows. I don’t remember her ever discussing her relationship with food or any struggles with it. BUT if she was purging she would be comfortable with throwing up , wouldn’t have a fear of it and would be able to sallow a damn pill….
I made a very crass joke a while back that if Lydia can’t handle sallowing a pill Ali has probably never had a single BJ in this relationship. Sorry! But it’s true haha So based on that I don’t think she does. Maybe when she is very very drunk?
Anyway that’s my two cents, hope I don’t offend anyone!
Btw I am kinda concerned about Carrie, she used to be so put together and low key. With her hiking and baking etc, healthy lifestyle but I really think she’s falling apart right now and the sinking ship she has become more and more delusional and unprofessional. She used to be very down to earth. It’s like Stockholm syndrome…..maybe all Lydia’s drinking has worn off on her? I feel like her hair is a representation of how messed up and far away from who she is right now. It’s bizarre.
Milking Keynes
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I agree with you wholeheartedly.
It really was too hard to listen to - I had to switch off. Two buffoons making money from bandying around the same old tired, cliché driven, self-help diatribe , cut and pasted from books and magazines we have all heard a thousand times before. It appears the attraction for Elsie is that JH’s clients are footballers, WAGs, D listers, etc who might be impressed by Jacqueline’s vintage Chanel jacket, bare feet and Hermès cushions.Elsie’s habit of telling stories that are not hers to tell about Ali’s friend I believe - was so Ill advised but not surprising. Her complete lack of empathy or respect for others privacy is long documented here. She had no right to discuss him and film herself doing so - especially with a completely unqualified twit - and breaches all social norms. There are some things in life you just don’t do.
Those who put in the work continually and persistently to stay well are heroes in my opinion. It’s tough and ongoing but so necessary. It’s an insult to the process to have to witness these two delusional idiots going thank you, no, thank you, no - you ... did you ever witness such self-congratulatory behaviour? No wonder, Elsie left on cloud nine. The self aggrandizing between the two was nauseating.
Catcher_In_The_Lie
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“advantage Estee Lauder”Congratulations to @mmmmmmk for the spot on thread title with 77 votes.
(Excuse me while I set up two cameras and nonchalantly stroll into the garden in my dressing gown with my mug of coffee, frantically trying to memorise some long words and work out how to insert them in the recap. Any smelling mistakes are intensional!)
* Yes, some idiot has told narcissist Lidl that people are either dolphins or sharks, so she has decided she’s the former. Wrong answer! A quick Google reveals that dolphins are curious, sociable, open and a blend of extrovert and agreeable….the complete opposite of Lidl!
* The woman who has made Ali’s tummy bug all about how it affects her declared she has “levels of empathy that most people don’t have”. I think you mean “apathy”, Lidl.
* But seriously, it's a great way of FEELING bad for someone but not actually doing anything to help them #emetophobia
* She's counting how many times Ali's been ill in the last 11 years (5). It's not a competition, youwitchsilly empath!
* She states she's an empath because she doesn’t like bullying. Doesn't apply when you're the one doing the bullying, does it Lidl? So…selective empathy then?
* Lidl complained she didn’t get to Wimbledon this year because Ali was sick. So it's Mr MG's invite and you’re his plus one Lidl? No brand invite as usual Lidl? Advantage Estee Lauder!
Remember your pregnant hairdresser Lidl and your friend Vic? Who's laughing now?
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* She continues to respond to comments in a passive aggressive manner. When challenged that her vlogs are about “me, me, me” she threatens to write about “Betty down the road”. Where do we sign up Lidl?
* In a "Q&A" she posed “therapy speak” questions to herself and revealed that she’s special, she’s different. You mean you have an inflated superiority and self importance! Well, nine out of ten people think they are special and the rest are in therapy!
* Talking of therapy, we were treated to half an hour on the couch with Lidl. Except thatfriendtherapistlife coach Jacqueline Hurst was also on the couch, barefoot, blowing smoke up Lidl's a*se.
* Therapy is Lidl's biggest investment. It's not working. Get your money back. On the other hand it's paying for Jacqueline's Hermès cushions!
* Some comments were brutal but Tattle got the blame! Thanks @rexysmum! We thought we'd shown you the door? Don't let it hit you on the way out!
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* The hen house has been fenced. We are still waiting for the hen......and the fox!
* Lidl is getting "rescue" chickens....OK, will they be the ones with no feathers, who've never seen daylight? Or the pretty ones with fluffy feet?
* The kitchen garden / garden kitchen is now finished, after a long wait for a #gifted worksurface. #caesarstone_uk obliged. The MGs are planning on inviting guests round for pizza and garlic bread. Hurry before the whole thing rots and the critters move in!
* The two guest bedrooms and the utility are getting a makeover. She's aware she keeps promising these things but it's hard when you are busywaiting for someone to do it for free.
* One of the two bedrooms is now known as the ‘Wisteria Room’ despite there being no wisteria in sight. Having two guest rooms in a three bed property is so confusing isn’t it Lidl?
* She’s putting an antique writing desk in the bedroom where she can "write". This is in addition to the eight other places! Quit the pretense! We know all the writing is done by Cawwie in the basement.
* Maybe Lidl will practice her calligraphy in the Wisteria Room? Better learn to spell first.
* The bedroom looks directly onto the “the courtyard”. That’s the tarmac drive to The Bunga in normal speak.
* Lidl describes her style as modern-traditional, feminine and timeless. She lectures us on not buying into trends…while buying linen, sage green, white broderie anglais shirt dresses, Hermes bags and belts, Valentino Rockstuds……yawn….
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* Lily and Bean, who should know better, sent her monogrammed bags, tags and luggage. With the initials LMG we’re confident they will never be seen again and she can’t sell them!
* Meanwhile she pimped her £12 wicker basket with twillys, straps and padlocks. Just buy a Hermès Lidl. What, you can’t afford it?
* She modelled a revealing white swimsuit but came over all coy when showing the back, saying it's too "bummy". Funny that you routinely modelled Intimissimee lingerie with everything hanging out and didn’t bat an eyelid! Not to mention Ibiza.....
* She’s working on creating a lip balm that brings "intrigue and a pop of colour". I hope you are not going to model it with your tattooed lips Lidl #lipbalmgate
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* Lidl and Cawwie attended the Bastille Day annual Summer Garden Party celebrations at Le Manoir aux Quat' Saisons, courtesy of @belmondlemanoir , and “enjoyed” themselves a bit too much. Might be something to do with the predrinks they had before they left.
* She criticises “static” videos yet spends 30 minutes standing in her dressing room, talking to camera.
* Lidl and Ali went to the @thewildrabbitkingham (owned by Daylesford) supper club in the Cotswolds. She wore the old Erdem sleeveless green and white dress she always wears.
* Where's Betty down the road? Bring on Betty!
In other news:
* Teeny tiny Ali and Dennis Cebulec enjoyed a “golden rooftop moment” while they were in Milan. They made a lovely couple. Shame he’s already taken by Francesca Lesch @franelle.
* Dennis’ trousers were so short and his unbuttoned shirt so low they almost met in the middle.
* Teefers revealed a secret – she owns Strawtop 2, the rental cottage adjoining Strawtop 1. Er...we've known for nearly a year. Tell us news, not history!
* The Barbie movie UK premiere took place attended by loads of influencers. Too pink for you, Lidl, or no invite?
* Jade Holland Cooper is praising "our favourite girl" Vic on instagram!
Thanks to @Allexie01 @Peppypoopar @K18 for the screenshots.
…once again @Miscanthus you hit it out of the 
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