Lucy Mecklenburgh #6 Lies about her perfect life, oh so smug; fellas not interested, you look like a mug

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heeheefee said:
Is it just me or does lilah’s little birth mark seem to have grown and become more prominent? It looks as if it could bleed very easily if knocked at all.
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Strawberry birthmarks do that. They get bigger and redder in the first year or so then shrink and go away by the time they're 6-7. My daughter had one in almost the same place but she had more hair so it was less noticeable. I was worried about brushing her hair but they're not as delicate as they seem
 
majestic26 said:
Maybe I'm reading too far into it but her latest post speaks volumes.

First pic - her and Ryan stood miles apart, her holding Lilah.

Further along - pics of their hosts holding Lilah

Only pics of Roman with Ryan, never Lilah
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The first photo is utterly bizarre, the way they are behaving is start doubting if Lilah was his if she wasn’t his absolute double
 
Lilykins said:
He really doesn’t even try to look as if he gives a tit about his new baby. Totally feel like Ryan didn’t want another but Lucy was desperate for another baby.
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She did an ad for natural cycles not long before she conceived Lilah, if she was using it correctly (which she said in the ad she was because it was so wonderful and we all should buy it too) then she would have known exactly when she was fertile so one of them definitely planned the baby!
 
mangomumma said:
She did an ad for natural cycles not long before she conceived Lilah, if she was using it correctly (which she said in the ad she was because it was so wonderful and we all should buy it too) then she would have known exactly when she was fertile so one of them definitely planned the baby!
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The thing is. If he said he didn't want anymore, there's nothing wrong with not wanting more. I don't want more, I aren't ashamed to say that. But if she's purposely done it or she's like, changed his mind, that's a bit tit on him.

However he should still make more of an effort with the baby, regardless if whether he wanted more or not.
 
e.l.lofthouse said:
The thing is. If he said he didn't want anymore, there's nothing wrong with not wanting more. I don't want more, I aren't ashamed to say that. But if she's purposely done it or she's like, changed his mind, that's a bit tit on him.

However he should still make more of an effort with the baby, regardless if whether he wanted more or not.
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Absolutely to both points.
It must be hard if one partner wants more kids and the other doesn't, especially as King Roman has had a lot of health issues, I can see why Ryan may have been apprehensive. But he appears to be a very well behaved and chilled boy so I can't imagine they have much trouble with him especially as he sleeps and eats perfectly and that's made Lucy want more. But the babies don't ask to be born and they deserve as much love as the other children.
 
mangomumma said:
Absolutely to both points.
It must be hard if one partner wants more kids and the other doesn't, especially as King Roman has had a lot of health issues, I can see why Ryan may have been apprehensive. But he appears to be a very well behaved and chilled boy so I can't imagine they have much trouble with him especially as he sleeps and eats perfectly and that's made Lucy want more. But the babies don't ask to be born and they deserve as much love as the other children.
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EXACTLY. We didn't want anymore after our eldest but then I got pregnant. I have endometriosis and had the coil in then got pregnant on the coil. Had a miscarriage but we were so sad at that we now have our youngest but my partner was adamant he doesn't want anymore. I'd have liked another, but then had to think, that I have two kids who are healthy and perfect. Little crazy and absolute weirdos haha but perfect. So I don't need another, plus I've been through enough surgery on my womb haha.

My point is before waffling on haha, is that my partner and I both wanted different things regarding another baby, he didn't I did but we sorted it and I'm happy about that. However if we had a third, my partner would love them just as much. So why the duck isn't Ryan that arsed about Lilah?

Although. Maybe he is but we don't see much because he wants to prove to scarlet that he doesn't have a favourite daughter? Because I do think he didn't post about Lilahs birth at first because scarlet hadn't seen her etc. So I get that
 
I get the not wanting more. But if the male isn't going to use contraception he's signing up for the deal too isn't he. So he should definitely be spending more time with the baby.
e.l.lofthouse said:
EXACTLY. We didn't want anymore after our eldest but then I got pregnant. I have endometriosis and had the coil in then got pregnant on the coil. Had a miscarriage but we were so sad at that we now have our youngest but my partner was adamant he doesn't want anymore. I'd have liked another, but then had to think, that I have two kids who are healthy and perfect. Little crazy and absolute weirdos haha but perfect. So I don't need another, plus I've been through enough surgery on my womb haha.

My point is before waffling on haha, is that my partner and I both wanted different things regarding another baby, he didn't I did but we sorted it and I'm happy about that. However if we had a third, my partner would love them just as much. So why the duck isn't Ryan that arsed about Lilah?

Although. Maybe he is but we don't see much because he wants to prove to scarlet that he doesn't have a favourite daughter? Because I do think he didn't post about Lilahs birth at first because scarlet hadn't seen her etc. So I get that
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Bless you.I'm about to have the laproscopy for diagnosis after 19 years of asking for it, Grandma and Mum both have it, 3 baby losses later 🙄 we were the exact same. Said we didn't want anymore then lost two and then were determined to bring our rainbow into this world.
 
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