Lucy Jessica Carter #3 mum of twin girls and 2 boys...rinse & repeat.

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Thatbbaskin said:
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Wow! Look how pretty she is here! Yeah shes younger but the fillers shes had has definitely ruined her face
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What has she done to herself? I would say it's all the makeup she wears that makes her look older but in the pics with none she looks aged.

Same with her sister elle she looks about 35 due to all these face fillers.

When she advertises stuff it actually puts me of buying it.
 
I was watching a Stacey Dooley documentary the other day about parents who practice child led learning. They don’t send the kids to school and instead keep them home where they let the kids do whatever they want because they think they will learn from the freedom and making mistakes. The kids are allowed to go to bed whenever they want, don’t have to get changed if they don’t want to and don’t have to learn about anything they don’t want to. They pretty much run wild and feral in the house. I honestly think this is something Lucy and Jordan are maybe doing and believe in. I just don’t understand how she’s not interested in teaching them the basics like speaking and potty training and doesn’t encourage them to go to school
 
Rvg said:
I was watching a Stacey Dooley documentary the other day about parents who practice child led learning. They don’t send the kids to school and instead keep them home where they let the kids do whatever they want because they think they will learn from the freedom and making mistakes. The kids are allowed to go to bed whenever they want, don’t have to get changed if they don’t want to and don’t have to learn about anything they don’t want to. They pretty much run wild and feral in the house. I honestly think this is something Lucy and Jordan are maybe doing and believe in. I just don’t understand how she’s not interested in teaching them the basics like speaking and potty training and doesn’t encourage them to go to school
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I don't think that's what their doing. I don't think any conscious decisions have ever been made about those boys in regards to learning and school, they are just lazy sods the two of them. Her more so. Most dad's will follow the mums lead in the home life IMO, but she isn't into it. It's boring to her and she justifies it by saying they are getting more from an xbox or iPad than from school. That's her excuse.

On her stories today the two boys flying around on the motorbikes. Imagine had there been an elderly man or woman walking or a baby in a buggy and they flying around corners in the park with Lucy not even seeing what's ahead of them, her just filming it. She's a lazy cow.
 
They don't know how to meet the needs of a screaming toddler. I say that as in as a parent it bloody hard to face a tantrum! Stay strong and see it through while maintaining your rules and expectations when they are having an utter meltdown. So the easiest thing to do is give them what they want and when they want it. Avoid the tears, anger, screaming.... not have to dig deep for patience and understanding and calm.

Problem is your then not teaching your children rules and boundaries nor teaching them how to regulate their emotions or communicate themselves when feeling their worst. Everything goes out the window and in the long run makes for great difficulties!
 
Fairypop said:
I’m not sure if she’s addressed it, if she has then I certainly haven’t seen anything about it. I would’ve thought if Good Boy Jesse was potty trained then she would’ve made a big deal out of it but don’t quote me on it 🤔
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Ah yes because was she pregnant with Jesse when she started? or was he a small baby? I know I've seen travel vlogs where he's only a toddler and still wearing a nappy. I too would have thought her being an over sharer, she would have documented it.
 
ChubClubThug said:
Ah yes because was she pregnant with Jesse when she started? or was he a small baby? I know I've seen travel vlogs where he's only a toddler and still wearing a nappy. I too would have thought her being an over sharer, she would have documented it.
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Well I've seen a couple of videos he was having a 💩 on the toilet with the ipad still in his hand, so he must be toilet trained ( but maybe not fully)?
 
Poopynanna said:
I don't think that's what their doing. I don't think any conscious decisions have ever been made about those boys in regards to learning and school, they are just lazy sods the two of them. Her more so. Most dad's will follow the mums lead in the home life IMO, but she isn't into it. It's boring to her and she justifies it by saying they are getting more from an xbox or iPad than from school. That's her excuse.

On her stories today the two boys flying around on the motorbikes. Imagine had there been an elderly man or woman walking or a baby in a buggy and they flying around corners in the park with Lucy not even seeing what's ahead of them, her just filming it. She's a lazy cow.
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She's too lazy and self involved and he is too thick for them to make any informed decision on education/lifestyle/discipline.
It's whatever is more Insta friendly and looks good
 
Fairypop said:
I’m not sure if she’s addressed it, if she has then I certainly haven’t seen anything about it. I would’ve thought if Good Boy Jesse was potty trained then she would’ve made a big deal out of it but don’t quote me on it 🤔
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She ‘tried’ a few months ago and he went to the toilet all over the rug/carpet and her and Jordan put on insta about it and asked for cleaning tips because the smell was lingering and couldn’t clean it properly and she gave up for a bit because he wasn’t ready. Arguable LJC. When a child who usually goes in a nappy is then learning to not use a nappy my guess would be that you watch them like a hawk, so if he’s had the ability to go to the toilet across the rug or carpet enough that it has left a lingering smell that suggests it wasn’t a quick accident that you rushed him on a potty from. She obviously wasn’t watching him so just stopped and said he wasn’t ready. It was her who wasn’t ready to dedicate her time to teaching him. Since then she’s said in passing a few times that it’s ‘sorted now.’ Or that he’s ‘got it now’ but I don’t believe it. She’s never actually mentioned it properly and the first time she was documenting it all on her stories. She’s an oversharer, she would have shown us all him on the loo so we could all cheer ffs
 
Teatime12 said:
She ‘tried’ a few months ago and he went to the toilet all over the rug/carpet and her and Jordan put on insta about it and asked for cleaning tips because the smell was lingering and couldn’t clean it properly and she gave up for a bit because he wasn’t ready. Arguable LJC. When a child who usually goes in a nappy is then learning to not use a nappy my guess would be that you watch them like a hawk, so if he’s had the ability to go to the toilet across the rug or carpet enough that it has left a lingering smell that suggests it wasn’t a quick accident that you rushed him on a potty from. She obviously wasn’t watching him so just stopped and said he wasn’t ready. It was her who wasn’t ready to dedicate her time to teaching him. Since then she’s said in passing a few times that it’s ‘sorted now.’ Or that he’s ‘got it now’ but I don’t believe it. She’s never actually mentioned it properly and the first time she was documenting it all on her stories. She’s an oversharer, she would have shown us all him on the loo so we could all cheer ffs
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I suspected the same, she has a tendency to get defensive over some things and if she’s not really responded to people about him being potty/toilet trained then it makes me wonder.

I’ve said it before that I don’t like comparing children, I don’t think anyone could blame Jesse but she just seems lazy when it comes to actually teaching then anything.

Typical LJC would be at least 3 videos of “mum of 4 potty training morning routine”, “mum of 4 potty training afternoon routine” and “mum of 4 potty training evening routine” surely? 🤣
 
Fairypop said:
I suspected the same, she has a tendency to get defensive over some things and if she’s not really responded to people about him being potty/toilet trained then it makes me wonder.

I’ve said it before that I don’t like comparing children, I don’t think anyone could blame Jesse but she just seems lazy when it comes to actually teaching then anything.

Typical LJC would be at least 3 videos of “mum of 4 potty training morning routine”, “mum of 4 potty training afternoon routine” and “mum of 4 potty training evening routine” surely? 🤣
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definitely, she wouldn’t let the opportunity for videos or a ad with huggies pull ups pass her by! The first time she did a whole thing on her stories each day sharing it all, day 1- how many accidents and how it’s going etc.Then it was comments about how he’s had an accident and they can’t get the smell out and clean it properly and he’s not ready so they’re stopping. She ended up getting a new rug after that. she seems to love being a parent when it’s just living with WITH her kids but not the actual parenting part. It’s sad. You can tell Jenson is a bright boy but he’s not star of the show so is left to his own devices a lot and Jesse is allowed to cause havoc constantly but that’s okay because they’re ‘laid back parents’ I wonder What the twins will be like
 
MrsP90 said:
Ok longer time lurker here... but what the fluff was good boy Jesse saying in that video? I am also mum to 4 2 boys 2 girls my daughter born a week before the twins and she was six weeks early but I don’t go on about it half as much as she does! Those poor babies have no stimulation whatsoever other than a YouTube video and that piss poor boring playmat. Oh and the expensive *gifted* bouncers they are always plonked in. They don’t seem to have any toys or any real life stimulation other than Jesse good boy sticking his grubby little hands in their faces
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I hope you start every sentence with ‘I’m a mum of 4’ 🤣🤣
 
Teatime12 said:
definitely, she wouldn’t let the opportunity for videos or a ad with huggies pull ups pass her by! The first time she did a whole thing on her stories each day sharing it all, day 1- how many accidents and how it’s going etc.Then it was comments about how he’s had an accident and they can’t get the smell out and clean it properly and he’s not ready so they’re stopping. She ended up getting a new rug after that. she seems to love being a parent when it’s just living with WITH her kids but not the actual parenting part. It’s sad. You can tell Jenson is a bright boy but he’s not star of the show so is left to his own devices a lot and Jesse is allowed to cause havoc constantly but that’s okay because they’re ‘laid back parents’ I wonder What the twins will be like
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This 👌 well if he is almost 4 and not potty trained then there is definitely some sort of issue there I wouldn't be surprised
 
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