Exactly! This is what winds me up, Luca, Jacques, Dami have all been vile to the girls in there. And when people call them out, others say 'be kind' and worry about their mental health. What about the mental health of the girls? The guys mentioned above are not 'being kind' but thats ok? So the guys can be as horrible as they want and no one can have an opinion/dislike them, incase it upsets them? (Im only using this as an example, I know girls can be just as bad to guys in a relationship and also I obviously dont agree with people going too far/the death threats).