I think if luca and Gemma are planning double dates with tasha and andrew and stuff then we don't really know what's been said fully .at the end of the day we only see a hour of the day .luca and dami was awful but at the end of the day the only person that can say if it was bullying or not .is tasha herself ? No one else but the person the comments was aimed at .everyone always seems so much closer in the unseen bits than they do the main show the main show just shows all the drama and arguments .so personally I think we wait until tasha comes out and has her own say ?
No. Thatās like saying only victims of domestic violence get to say if itās DV.
The reality is that victims of bullying, abuse, manipulation and DV donāt understand the predicament they are in, are confused by the manipulation and gaslighting and are in a vulnerable, emotional place, often meaning that they donāt see the situation clearly.
When I was still with him, someone told me my relationship with my ex was toxic, and I got defensive and annoyed. Looking back, itās because I wasnāt ready to admit to myself the type of situation I was in. But no mistake, it was definitely toxic.
bullying and abuse is a wider social issue, it doesnāt just impact the victim. Thatās why people are so incensed by seeing it playing out in TV. Even if Tasha doesnāt see it herself as bullying (and we donāt know if she does or not) itāsā¦ kinda irrelevant. The rest of us see this behaviour as bullying behaviour and the viewing public have judged him for it.
and anyway, Tasha has said she was upset by their comments and she found it got too personal. Is that not enough? Her family have called it bullying. Sheās in a pressured environment and has to live with these people, might that contribute to why sheād prefer to keep the peace instead of publicly calling it bullying?
I donāt like Tasha but she was pretty gracious when she was constantly being pied. There was zero need for Luca to hone in on her like that. It got to a point where they could see sheād been repeatedly pied and couldāve just laid off a little. But like true bullies they just honed in on it and felt embolded by the other bully, making them worse. Like true cowards. Tasha hasnāt done anything to Luca. Sheās been a dick, sheās been a dick to Andrewā¦ but there wasnāt any real reason for Luca to get so annoyed at her. He just sees her as an easy target because he knows sheās unpopular.
also said Ekin was the one to take her aside when she was upset and ask if she'd been hurt by a previous relationship
She asks Adam but he seems to have no interest..so basically the bombshells have bombed
Can't see them making an impact, tho.
