bettycakes
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I think Jacques sounds like a twat.I think Jacques sounds like Karl Pilkington
I think Jacques sounds like a twat.I think Jacques sounds like Karl Pilkington
I’m always really confused when whoever is managing their Instagram account starts posting opinions online. Unless you’ve spoken to them you’ve only seen the same ‘edited’ (when it suits) programme as the rest of us so how do you know what they actually think about so and so
you don’t but if you know their character and it’s a close family member or friend I think it would be hard to stay diplomatic. It’s a heightened reality show where producers are always going for an angle. I can see why they’d want to defend them from being tarred withabusive, gaslighter etc etc
Honestly, I think if Jacques ADHD is so serious that it makes it really hard for him to deal with the consequences of his own decisions and actions, that the person running the account feels justified to use it as an excuse, he shouldn’t be on the show.
They have to go through loads of medical tests and this sort of thing does come up. He has made the decision to go on the show. And frankly I think using it as an excuse is grim. You can’t just blame everything else for your shitty behaviour.
One year I’d love it if the person running the account of whoever acts like this actually holds their hands up and says:
“you know what, we agree. This is really uncomfortable viewing and it isn’t how you should treat people. We are so sad that X has come across this way and it isn’t how we are used to seeing them.
We will make sure they have the help and support they need when they leave the villa, but in the mean time no one should put up with this behaviour in a relationship”
I’m so sick and tired of people not taking responsibility for their shitty behaviour (literally in Jacques case…).
I should clarify that my post is moreso directed at the social media handlers who might want to protect their friends/family from broader terms like gaslighter, potential abuser etc. the Jacques stuff is a bit of a head scratcher to me.
It does suck I suppose when it’s family and they aren’t seeing everything it’s easier to be in denial. No wonder he is how he is if they placate him like that.Yeah I know, I just wish one year they’d hold their hands up. It was the same with Faye last year. Her family were even on Aftersun saying they’d have done exactly the same…
I just think it sucks that people defend this behaviour.
Yeh, like when someone asks if Jacques actually likes Paige and the person running the account is like 'yes he definitely likes her alot'. How the f do you know unless they have that 'Demi telepathy' shite going onI’m always really confused when whoever is managing their Instagram account starts posting opinions online. Unless you’ve spoken to them you’ve only seen the same ‘edited’ (when it suits) programme as the rest of us so how do you know what they actually think about so and so
Can someone explain what Jax did was so different from what Davide, Andrew and everyone else did to Paige? ( no im not defending him just curious i missed sth)Honestly, I think if Jacques ADHD is so serious that it makes it really hard for him to deal with the consequences of his own decisions and actions, that the person running the account feels justified to use it as an excuse, he shouldn’t be on the show.
They have to go through loads of medical tests and this sort of thing does come up. He has made the decision to go on the show. And frankly I think using it as an excuse is grim. You can’t just blame everything else for your shitty behaviour.
One year I’d love it if the person running the account of whoever acts like this actually holds their hands up and says:
“you know what, we agree. This is really uncomfortable viewing and it isn’t how you should treat people. We are so sad that X has come across this way and it isn’t how we are used to seeing them.
We will make sure they have the help and support they need when they leave the villa, but in the mean time no one should put up with this behaviour in a relationship”
I’m so sick and tired of people not taking responsibility for their shitty behaviour (literally in Jacques case…).
Nothing different. He didn’t lick a tit or whatever. He did the same as Dami and davide but Dami slides thru the net and davide can do no wrong in a lot of ppls eyesCan someone explain what Jax did was so different from what Davide, Andrew and everyone else did to Paige? ( no im not defending him just curious i missed sth)
Nothing different. He didn’t lick a tit or whatever. He did the same as Dami and davide but Dami slides thru the net and davide can do no wrong in a lot of ppls eyes
4 will leave. It'll be the couple with the fewest votes plus islanders chose another(or boy/girl from each = yawn) or 3 couples with fewest votes, one boy and one girl saved.So I hope they take the public vote tonight not twist it round and make the islanders chose
I have no idea if this will work, but I saw this on TikTok earlier and cried for about ten minutes
not fans of any of the boys tbh since casa but i didn't hear either of them calling any of the girls especially not the ones they supposedly have feelings for "pathetic" when concerns were being addressed regardless of how silly. he manipulates paige and it is obvious. i am not a fan of paige either but it is blatant how she is being mistreated. i agree with what someone said above, if he has ADHD and his family knew that it affects how he interacts with others and reacts in conflict, he should not have been allowed on the show point blank.Can someone explain what Jax did was so different from what Davide, Andrew and everyone else did to Paige? ( no im not defending him just curious i missed sth)
I think they’re all toxic.
But Jacques didn’t apologise to Paige, blamed her, threatened to leave because she was upset with him. On multiple occasions in Casa Amore he said he didn’t give a shit about Paige’s feelings. He said he knew what he was doing wasn’t right but he didn’t care. He essentially used two girls because the balance of power was such that he was able to bring people back to the villa.
He is incredibly manipulative.
Does anyone else think that Jay is not feeling it in the villa? He said it himself in the context of not fancying Chyna but I think that in general he doesn't quite fit in.
right like ok leave then ? he's just fishing for sympathy it is so manipulative. i think jax and andrew should both leave now. or all of jax paige and andrew. i don't see tasha taking back andrew and idk who else he will get on with in the villa. and i'm so over seeing jax/paige. another reason i have a vote for 25+ LI. i know toxic relationships are also in this age range but it's more common to be more comfortable in your skin and looking for an actual serious relationship in your late 20s/early 30s. honestly 8 seasons in and i'm kind of tired of watching young relationships that we know most of them don't end up lasting outside of the villa.I completely agree. The minute he went to "I'll just leave, I should just leave now, it's over guys" blah blah oh come on. Be more dramatic. When you're not even the one who got hurt. And then in addition he wouldn't even apologize saying that " too late, she'll never forgive me" which is just a cop out because he doesn't even want to have to muster up what it takes to pull one out of himself.
I do also think that Dami should be called out but I feel like that's never going to happen.
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