Love Island 2021 #23

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Thinking back about the Jake and Lib situation, I felt awful for her when she said that she doesn't even feel like her boyfriend likes her some days. I think she has known something has been off or amiss but unsure what and the clips added a bit more info for her.

Shame that Jake getting found out was what most were waiting for and it got overshadowed!
 
Jelly Bean said:
I have a friend who is a mean drunk like Faye. Says all sorts of terrible things. Her tactic the next day is selective amnesia, and laughing at it all and a sort of 'didn't it all get a bit messy last night!!!' implying we were all as bad. If you remind her of her bad behaviour it makes you look incredibly petty and they minimise it anyway. A bit like Faye earlier when Teddy looked so upset - 'oh he knows all this. I told him all this' all the while head back shrieking with laughter.
I bet that is the tack she will take.

The new girl is a beauty. I hope she and Teddy like each other. And not Toby 😂
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I have a friend like this...I use the term 'friend ' loosely...took me years to break away and not be as attached to her as I used be..it was hard cause I'd known her over 20 years.

But she would be at home at night necking wine on her own and she'd be on the phone even to me roaring down the phone being insulting, abusive calling me names etc.
Following day as if butter wouldn't melt. Suppose I let her get away with it for so long which was why it was so hard to break away from her.
 
Doratheexplorer said:
Have you never spoke to anyone like a piece of tit in your lifetime? I know I have. My husband has spoken to me like that in the past too when things have gotten heated. I forgave him because I love him and I’ve done the same to him in the past too. Couples grow, I know ours have. I don’t know what people expect to happen to Faye. Should she never be loved or go to prison or what?
it was wrong what happened last night but again I think worse has happened on the show, during this season. She shouted and talked down to people but in the real world that happens all the time. Bosses do it, partners do it, pissed Shirley in bees knees on a Saturday night does it, Especially when drink is involved. It’s not right but it’s not the end of the world. It’s up to teddy to decide whether he still wants to tolerate that sort of treatment.
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I’ve never spoken to anyone like that, nor would I. I’ve also been married almost 16 years and if I spoke to my husband like that I’m fairly certain I’d be on the doorstep as would he were the situation reversed.
not sure where you’re coming from thinking it’s normal and everyone does it. They don’t.
 
Love this one! 🤣 I mean honestly at this point I’d be happy for them to win, and I didn’t think I’d be saying that just a couple of weeks ago!!
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Just watched last nights show and out of all that I have to give it to Matthew!
He stole the show sitting back in his chair with the bowl of popcorn watching all the drama unfold knowing he had nothing to worry about!
Absolute class!!
Literally doing what we all do when we see/hear/read drama we all say ‘getting the popcorn ready!’’
And there he was giggling away!!! 😂😂👍👍
 
Bluewolf said:
I’ve never spoken to anyone like that, nor would I. I’ve also been married almost 16 years and if I spoke to my husband like that I’m fairly certain I’d be on the doorstep as would he were the situation reversed.
not sure where you’re coming from thinking it’s normal and everyone does it. They don’t.
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Ahh maybe it’s my upbringing, it’s pretty common in my area/people in my life (well when I was younger). My mum used to scream at us growing up and I know a lot of people that do that now to their children / family / friends. Not justifying it, I just think some people will be a lot less sensitive to it because they’re used to seeing it.
 
Lalla said:
I totally agree. I'm pretty disappointed by a lot of views on here, I normally find I'm in step with most opinions on Tattle, but some of the comments about Faye over the last day are pure Mumsnet (that bastion of perfect female behaviour where someone once told me I should have my kids taken into care because I swore in front of them). Calling Faye a potty mouth (such an absolute cringe term), that she's common, thick, has no class etc - because she got upset and made a scene, didn't fit in with some idea of how women should behave - she wasn't dignified like Millie (who is a bloody doormat frankly). All those type of comments really make me uncomfortable.
It's exactly the same as Liam and Matt sitting there judging Faye, who the duck is Liam the duplicitous cheater to judge anyone?!

I'm a lot older than Faye. My dad brought me up never to take any tit from anyone. So I do argue, I shout and I certainly swear, I have since I was in my teens and I'm sure I will do it again. I will stand up for myself and my friends.

Raising your voice and telling someone to duck off or that they're a prick is not abuse. Speaking down to someone, talking over them, most people do that in the heat of an argument at least once. Arguments aren't like on TV where everyone gives the other person a chance to air their views, is respectful and considered!

Abuse to me is when someone is screaming in your face (sometimes for hours) that you're an ugly dirty worthless bleep, you're fat and disgusting, repulsive, grotesque etc, any manner of insults. Spitting on you because you're nothing. And yes, that's happened to me more than once so I think I know the difference between that and a heated exchange.
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Totally agree with everything you’ve said. I don’t think she was abusive either (apart from a few passive comments). I know I’ve lost my head in the past, been very unreasonable. When I was in my teens/early 20s my hormones would rage and I could fight myself. I don’t think it’s half as deep as what people are making out. Nobody is perfect, I know I’m not. Told my husband to duck off today cause we were arguing about how to do the panelling on the wall 😂 he told me to duck off back and we cracked on with our day 😂
 
Has anyone seen belle hassan's stories? Basically sticking up for Faye and it is interesting seeing it from the other side. I mean her behaviour was ridiculous and uncalled for and she def needs words with herself but she will get so much tit for it. And we don't know the full story either. Like she could have been given loads of wine or whatever, shown the worst bits about Teddy, rilled up for drama basically.
She's calling out people as well 😏 belle that is.
 
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