Love Island 2021 #23

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That was a really uncomfortable watch. I hope the producers are happy with themselves. It's one thing to have arguments but Teddy looked like he was struggling with the barrage of abuse.

Faye should have been sent off to sleep in the hideaway for the night to calm down.
 
calmyourritas said:
Was Faye kind to Teddy?
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Being kind sometimes means telling someone they’re wrong, that the way they’re behaving is not acceptable and that they need to seek help. Everyone placating her (while I COMPLETELY understand why nobody would want to get involved) does not help her. The kindest thing would be someone telling her to leave and seek counselling/MH support.
 
judgejohndeed said:
You can complain to Ofcom, it’s an online form, I just did it. They have a duty of care not only to Teddy but to everyone else there who had to watch it, it was obvious nobody wanted to get involved and be dragged into it. I bet we’ve only seen the half of it as well. When she started pointing at him etc it made me nervous as someone who grew up with a physically abusive parent, I honestly cannot believe they didn’t remove her
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Totally agree and without playing devils advocate, they have a duty of care to Faye too. She is acting in a way that is completely destroying her reputation and should be provided with some mental health interventions. We all know what happened to previous Love Island contestants after the show 😓
 
Saint_clemmie said:
I bad at this too. But for me, she was being very antagonistic “i dont want to talk to you” yet was shouting abuse and giving him the finger for a reaction and then shutting him down when he tried to calmly speak. She was trying to get him to lose his temper, he bit a couple of times by calling her an idiot and a twit by kept walking away. This is to make him seem as bad as her, deflecting. She was parading around the villa shouting at everyone, she was given plenty of opportunities to talk rationally but she carried on.

Then later when she gave him the opportunity to chat, she was responding rudely. I don't know how he tolerated it for as long as he did.

She had better apologise to every single person in that villa and be genuinely sorry for how she made everyone feel.
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So agree. Apologise to everyone - creating an atmosphere even we could feel. Awful stuff. Poor her, though - imagine reacting like this to any testing times? What a horrible way to live. Everyone is running from her now - even Kaz will now.
 
Giftinghell said:
Meh we’ve all had our hearts broken, most of us probably been treated like tit. Yes it takes time to heal but hopefully not all of us have been complete witches to people who care about us
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I agree.. almost everyone has been hurt by someone at some point.. I was with my ex for 3 years and then one day he just ghosted me and he never spoke to me again .. took me ages to come to terms with it but Iv never behaved the way Faye has tonight.. at some point you have to take responsibility for how you react to things
 
curiousxx said:
Remember to be kind, everyone.. Yes Faye’s behaviour was unacceptable, but that doesn’t mean she deserves hate or suffering.

At the end of the day, she is a human being who is clearly struggling to navigate her emotions. We’ve all been there.

Let’s have some compassion for both her and teddy in this difficult time, and send them some love so that they can separately heal from this very hurtful situation

choose kindness ..... xx
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But that's why we're here discussing it, not in her dms or comments.
 
Serious uncomfortable viewing. She's so full of anger and her behaviour is disgustingly vile. Giving the middle finger and telling him to duck Off. Shes unhinged and she has huge issues. She's petrified because she knows he's a class guy and I think she's petrified because she cannot handle decency. I admired Dale for trying to reign her in.
 
Gamu said:
I disagree with people saying Faye should be removed. LI is meant to reflect real people and relationships, but within a contained environment, and in real life you get horrible people like Faye who shout and swear because they dont know how else they should get their point across
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Yes but in real life you would be able to walk away from the situation but they can't in there. Someone should have stepped in to calm her down.
Big Brother used to step in and defuse it when it got out of hand.
None of the islanders could defuse as either a,Faye wouldnt listen or b, they were too scared to talk to her. For her to go on and on like that producers should have stepped in.

Gamu said:
I disagree with people saying Faye should be removed. LI is meant to reflect real people and relationships, but within a contained environment, and in real life you get horrible people like Faye who shout and swear because they dont know how else they should get their point across
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Yes but in real life you would be able to walk away from the situation but they can't in there. Someone should have stepped in to calm her down.
Big Brother used to step in and defuse it when it got out of hand.
None of the islanders could defuse as either a,Faye wouldnt listen or b, they were too scared to talk to her. For her to go on and on like that producers should have stepped in.
 
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