Louise Pentland #17 #FreeDarcy

[HelloStereo]

i still cannot believe she postponed her daughter's third birthday by a whole week, with the justification that she wouldn't know, because they simply didn't tell Pearl itwas her birthday until her delayed "pretend" birthday a week later! i understand delaying the party - or celebrating earlier - because Louise wanted Darcy to be there, but i still can't believe she prioritised Darcy in terms of celebrating Pearl's birthday! she refused to even acknowledge the day her daughter was born, acting as though it was simply any other day - and presumably forcing Liam to do the same - simply because Darcy was with Matt and she didn't want Pearl's birthday to happen without Darcy there, because she would miss out! but as for Pearl missing out on her actual birthday, who cares! because Pearl simply isn't the priority - even on the day she was born.

my heart broke for Pearl, and the fact that she will grow up knowing that even her birth wasn't enough for Louise to want to celebrate without Darcy present - because it's not as though Louise celebrated six of Darcy's birthdays without Pearl - and ofc Louise plastered it all over SM, yet didn't even acknowledge Pearl's real birthday even in an IG post on the actual day, as though it wasn't the three year anniversary of her giving birth and meeting her little girl.

and sure, at the time, Pearl wouldn't have been aware, and obviously she still celebrated her birthday and received presents and cake and had a party - but as she grows up, she will be painfully aware that there was a year her birthday was postponed for no other reason than the fact that her older sister is always most important, and she is never good enough - even on her birthday. i mean, imagine having the audacity to be born on a day that darling Darcy is spending with Matt! such an inconvenience!

I don't know the arrangement they have in place or anything about co-parenting, but if she was so desperate for Darcy to be there couldn't she have swapped days Darcy was with Matt so she was there that day? If that's not possible, like you said, there was no need for her to postpone Pearl's entire birthday just so Darcy could be there. They could have celebrated on the day and then had a meal / a smaller celebration with just Darcy and Pearl afterwards if it means so much to Louise for Darcy to celebrate too.

 

[peanutm&ms]

I don't know the arrangement they have in place or anything about co-parenting, but if she was so desperate for Darcy to be there couldn't she have swapped days Darcy was with Matt so she was there that day? If that's not possible, like you said, there was no need for her to postpone Pearl's entire birthday just so Darcy could be there. They could have celebrated on the day and then had a meal / a smaller celebration with just Darcy and Pearl afterwards if it means so much to Louise for Darcy to celebrate too.

This would make so much sense, but since this didn’t happen I get the feeling the aren’t flexible like that with their co-parenting even though they could be, as Louise would never want to darcy to go to Matts unexpectedly on one of HER days with her

 

[Little Miss]

Just jumping in with the whole secondary school thing. I was quite young for my age (still am) and was still calling my parents mummy and daddy however when I got to secondary school I realised know one else did so I stopped and thankfully my parents didn’t make a big deal out of it.

I also decorated my locker with Disney things until a few people took the piss and I took them as I didn’t want to be bullied again.

I also still played with dolls till I was about 14/15 but didn’t tell anyone and used to hide them if I had anyone come over. My closest friends knew and never said anything. On the flip side I still loved makeup and emo music

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

Her Xmas content is so crass, she talks about being so extravagant when Christmas will be a struggle for lots of families this year.

sure, Christmas will likely be a struggle for the majority of her followers, due to financial concerns, but they can all take comfort in the fact that Louise will be spending thousands on tacky decorations, her daughters will be thoroughly spoilt with multiple expensive adveny calendars, and huge piles of gifts, plus Christmas eve boxes filled with treats, and stockings crammed with gifts, christmas pyjamas, trips to see santa, all manner of day trips to Christmas-themed activities and events, and a huge feast of fancy christmas foods. so sure, they may not be able to afford basic food or to heat their house, let alone have a spare £1 to buy their child an ad event calendar, and are worried about how they are going to afford presents for their children, not due to their lack of budgeting skills, but to their entire lack of money, in general. but Louise is happy, and Darcy and Pearl will have a magical Christmas - her followers and their families can simply find joy in watching Louise's happy and excessive family christmas, while they shiver under blankets and eat tins of cold baked beans. she is genuinely so insensitive, and refuses to acknowledge her extreme privilege - disgusting at the best of times, but in the current financial climate, her attitude is incredibly crude and thoughtless.

 

[Stringyone]

Haven’t posted on here before but seems that trapped wind ruined her whole day? Has she had weight loss surgery?

 

[Annyct]

Haven’t posted on here before but seems that trapped wind ruined her whole day? Has she had weight loss surgery?

Rare I’ll post in her defence but I’ve had this before, trapped wind so bad I threw up and passed out. It’s usually to do with ovulation weirdly but yeah it can happen

 

[GoldSilver]

She beggars belief. Showing off all the stuff she will do and buy for Christmas and we are still in September! She is obsessed with buying stuff. Despite having two wonderful kids, a fiancé and no money worries she doesn’t seem very content.

 

[fidgetjo]

God she’s filmed an entire video all about the queens death… how much can one person talk about something which doesn’t actually affect their lives in any way.

 

[TapToBoreMeRigid]

Whichever therapy she's had...it hasn't been effective. I say that as someone with cptsd. Get help, Louise.

 

[wifiisoff]

My personal favourite 'niche autumn thing' is keeping the heating off for as long as possible to save on the bill, but that's just me Louise babes xx

 

[And_that's_okay!]

God she’s filmed an entire video all about the queens death… how much can one person talk about something which doesn’t actually affect their lives in any way.

I'm not defending her (I can't stand the women) but from the insight I do have around this I can tell you:

* People held the Queen in high-esteem and felt inspired by her

* The Queen often reminds people of a certain loved one i.e. a mother, aunt or grandmother. This can prove particularly painful for those who have lost a person close to them as it serves as a reminder (if they've also lost this person)

* Those who haven't had a person like this in their lives may have seen the Queen as fulfilling this role

* The Queen has been a 'constant' for lots of people. When people have had instability and struggled with change, the Queen has always been there. This loss can be difficult to adjust to

* Some people will have developed an attachment to the Queen

* Death and loss (of any form) can trigger painful memories and remind people of their own trauma

* Seeing a coffin, funeral can be hard for those who have lost people

I can't list anymore, I'll use an entire page

Again, I'm not defending her, just trying to offer some insight into why people are reacting the way they are.

Most aren't making videos, stories or trying to make money out of it, however.

 

[199666]

It's still crazy to me lol Lizzie wouldnt have given a tit if Louise died I mean people die everyday, people who we actually know in person and unless they're family or friends we just think thats sad but then move on???

 

[And_that's_okay!]

I mean people die everyday, people who we actually know in person and unless they're family or friends we just think thats sad but then move on???

Unfortunately, it really doesn't work like that for lots of people.

 

[pineapplesandcheese]

It's still crazy to me lol Lizzie wouldnt have given a tit if Louise died I mean people die everyday, people who we actually know in person and unless they're family or friends we just think thats sad but then move on???

I don't judge Louise for being so sad about the Queen's death, I don't get it personally but her feelings are her own; what I do judge her for is the amount of cringe posts and stories she's made about 'respecting the public mood' and 'its been a hard week for us all' etc etc when the vast majority of us are just getting on with life

 

[And_that's_okay!]

I don't judge Louise for being so sad about the Queen's death, I don't get it personally but her feelings are her own; what I do judge her for is the amount of cringe posts and stories she's made about 'respecting the public mood' and 'its been a hard week for us all' etc etc when the vast majority of us are just getting on with life

And in the next breath listing the foods she's eating on Christmas day, course by course, when some people will go hungry.

She's a bleeping cretin.

 

[199666]

Louise be like

 

[Outtheforest]

I'm not defending her (I can't stand the women) but from the insight I do have around this I can tell you:

* People held the Queen in high-esteem and felt inspired by her

* The Queen often reminds people of a certain loved one i.e. a mother, aunt or grandmother. This can prove particularly painful for those who have lost a person close to them as it serves as a reminder (if they've also lost this person)

* Those who haven't had a person like this in their lives may have seen the Queen as fulfilling this role

* The Queen has been a 'constant' for lots of people. When people have had instability and struggled with change, the Queen has always been there. This loss can be difficult to adjust to

* Some people will have developed an attachment to the Queen

* Death and loss (of any form) can trigger painful memories and remind people of their own trauma

* Seeing a coffin, funeral can be hard for those who have lost people

I can't list anymore, I'll use an entire page

Again, I'm not defending her, just trying to offer some insight into why people are reacting the way they are.

Most aren't making videos, stories or trying to make money out of it, however.

I agree with all of this, I am not a big queen fan but her death upset me because every year my grandma would make us all sit quietly at christmas to watch the queens speech, my gran died last year and we still all sat and watched the queens speech in memory of her but now that will change.
Louises endless posts and videos are however completely over the top, I am thinking its all very much for engagement

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

Louise is so over the top, talking about "unprecented times" and continuing to milk the death of the Queen for content. i totally appreciate that different people have been affected to totally different degrees by her death, for a multitude of reasons and i totally respect that, but equally Louise just seems to be using it for engagement and content - which is totally hypocritical and contradictory when she also talks about her desperation to be respectful etc.

and does it annoy anyone else the way she refers to the Queen as "Queenie", as though they were friends and knew each other on a personal level, to the point where the Queen was comfortable being referred to be Louise's childish nicknames? i'm not a royalist whatsoever, but even to me it just seems weird and again, quite disrespectful, to refer to a lady of such historical significance by a nickname that implies you were chums.

 

[fidgetjo]

The way she kept saying ‘unprecedented’ in her stories makes it sound like she’s just learned what the word means and has been told to use it in a sentence...

Also the queen dying wasn’t an ‘unprecedented’ time as we’ve had monarchs die before in this country and the family / country were well prepared and knew what the process was going to be.

 

[Yupyupyup]

The way she kept saying ‘unprecedented’ in her stories makes it sound like she’s just learned what the word means and has been told to use it in a sentence...

Also the queen dying wasn’t an ‘unprecedented’ time as we’ve had monarchs die before in this country and the family / country were well prepared and knew what the process was going to be.

It reminded me of early covid days when everyone was saying it . It’s probably where she picked it up from and is now using it in the complete wrong context.