Lily pebbles #19 Peloton despair, crispy hair, what not to wear, she still can't share

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This may sound mean but I kinda hope that she doesn't get pregnant this year (next year is fine) to show her that getting pregnant and having a baby isn't as easy as she thinks it is.
But if that does happen we'll get her stupid 'noone told me' and 'noone talks about it' despite literally thousands of women including women on YT instagram TV magazines etc talking about how sometimes its just not that easy to get pregnant over the last 10+ years!!
 
In the video, she talks about her kidS and house reorganization as if they are a done deal. The kids part is especially annoying, the whole time she is reffering to multiple children.
I think that really explains why her attitude (and often mood) is so bad - she's looking too far into the future imagining the "perfect" life/kitchen/house/whatever. And when that thing comes, it'll inevitably be a disappointment, couse she's spent too much time idealising it in her head. And in the meantime, she'll constantly whine and find fault with the current state of her life.
 
This actually reminds me of Lily.

How many times can you talks about renovation?

I remember she said she is going to repaint the kitchen because it looks very blue on picture

Teddy lol! The reason why she pick Teddy is because she can moan about it when someone mistaken Teddy (girl) as Grey.
She doesn’t know what goes with Grey, what about Beige? But is that reserved for Anna’s already.

ps-if we think Lily made the worst fashion purchase, you should look at Anna’s video today.
 
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In her video she says she doesn't like really out there names. Then she replies this. The shade! I would be so pissed off if I were her sister!
Omg why is she so RUDE? Shading the names of her cousins, what a bleep! Your daughter’s name is GREY loser!!! I can’t stand her honestly...
And this video made me realise even more how much she talks about her second child, future kids, etc. etc. I’ve never heard anyone talk about it so much, she would absolutely lose it if she doesn’t get pregnant soon
 
In the video, she talks about her kidS and house reorganization as if they are a done deal. The kids part is especially annoying, the whole time she is reffering to multiple children.
I think that really explains why her attitude (and often mood) is so bad - she's looking too far into the future imagining the "perfect" life/kitchen/house/whatever. And when that thing comes, it'll inevitably be a disappointment, couse she's spent too much time idealising it in her head. And in the meantime, she'll constantly whine and find fault with the current state of her life.
I was listening to their latest podcast episode today and I can't remember the exact question but in her answer, Lily mentioned something along the lines of "we as humans can never be happy for what we have, it's always that what if situation". No, Lily, it's not "us humans", it's you. Most people I know are perfectly happy with what they have and do not live in that "as soon as" mindset that Lily seems to have. And the sad thing is that she doesn't seem to see anything wrong with her attitude, she thinks it's completely normal.

And by the way, Lily, you will not be happier when you have three kids with the ideal two-year age gap, the London house with the loft extension and the perfect #gifted garden. Just like you did not start liking exercise with the expensive Peloton and you did not feel any more fulfilled or content after becoming a mum. You have to start appreciating what you have to be truly happy and stop basing your happiness on status symbols like being married, having kids or having a perfect home for Instagram.
 
But if that does happen we'll get her stupid 'noone told me' and 'noone talks about it' despite literally thousands of women including women on YT instagram TV magazines etc talking about how sometimes its just not that easy to get pregnant over the last 10+ years!!
Her good friend Ruth Crilly did a series on her fertility struggles and going in to have IVF done as they couldn't get pregnant for years (they did get pregnant right before IVF appointment in the end). Lily should know this from her friend, but 'no one told me' is too good of an excuse... :cautious:
 
I don't think Teddy is an unusual name, although I would say it's far more common in the UK as a boys name rather than a girls name. Same with Grey. I don't think Grey suits a girls name - it works better as a boys name.

She mentioned she likes 'Rae' as a name for a girl. Luna Rae would have worked better as a name for Grey. Or even Luna Grey. Grey Luna just doesn't work for me. Hey, at least she didn't go with Grey Rae.
 
Video summary
1. They want to do the garden but not yet. She wants raised beds because #keepingupwiththenewtons
2. Loft extension coming this year (office/spare room)
3. 5 year plan - keep doing this and maybe start a business when kids at school (I think lily knows this industry won’t last)
4. How difficult it is to find a name that goes with grey
5. They’re going to repaint the kitchen and get a bigger fridge
6. She mentions the peloton usage and says that even if she doesn’t use it that much it’s more exercise than she has done
7. Discusses finding it hard to know what her “niche” is and gives examples of other people

I dunno, overall it was a bit of a snooze fest. Nothing new or different that she hasn’t put on Instagram or the podcast.

Basically everything that we have talked about on here for the past few months 🙄. We’ve mentioned every single one of the above points before. It’s like she made this video just for us.
 
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