Thebluebean
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She is in for such a wake up call when this baby comes ......she's pregnant you know!! Reminds me a little bit of when I was pregnant albeit not as bad. I was buying everything I thought I needed(although not until after my anomaly scan at 20 weeks) and not half as much as she has. I know now you only need a car seat, nappies and a few baby grows and vests. Shes not actually preparing to give birth.....like I didn't. And its going to hit her like a bus. The baby doesn't just fall out with a sneeze. God love her but she's in for such a wake up call......I can see her struggling so bad as she focusing too much on the apparent picture perfect insta mums and that's not how it rolls for most
Nobody ever prepares you for the first few days+ after birth do they? I tore in two places and lost so much blood, then I was walking like John Wayne for the next six weeks, all that on top of actually trying to look after a human when you don’t know what you’re doing was not easy at all.