Lauren Goodger #65

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Was going to say good of them to supply a healthy option, i can see 2 slices of cucumber but not sure if they're carrots or mini sausages now i've zoomed in and is that a yorkshire pudding?
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For narcissists, their children are simply extensions of their own grandiose ego. This is perfectly, graphically, displayed in this case with both of Lauren's babies names being so similar sounding to her own name, Lauren Rose; Larose and Lorena (Lauren-a) - this is not coincidence!!!

Secondly, the child of a narcissist mother is 'never enough' in her mother's eyes. It is not normal or ok, even in her social media obsessed and monetised world, to filter her perfect little daughter's face?!?! Imagine the messages that will be internalised as Larose grows up! Never being able to please or be good enough for her mother's warped standards.

All accumulating in this early concept of 'love' but far from it, passing on trauma, never feeling enough and the continual forming of unhealthy adult relationships.

Granny Crack > Lauren > LaRose....

The tragic death of Lorena could have been a cross roads for Lauren and if she was capable of any self reflection this could be her rock bottom to rise from, learn from and change for a meaningful, fulfilled life.
But I'd bet her weight in sweetcorn this doesn't happen.

I also feel bad for judging her 'grieving' process; it's easy from the position of a good job with benefits and 'time off' for personal, emotional leave.
She's basically 'self employed' with no regular income and reliant on freebies and paid pap walks. Expedient and requiring no deferred gratification the lass has little choice and as another scrunchie posted, I'd hate to see her bank statements.
All her own fault, admittedly, but she was dragged up and is simply repeating historical abuse of being raised by a selfish, narcissist mother herself.
No excuses, just the pattern is glaringly obvious.

People deal with sudden death very differently; I know of a couple where the father got up every morning, went to work, even the morning of their child's funeral and kept a stoic, 'life must go on', attitude - but his partner told me he drank spirits and sobbed every night indoors, away from 'public.
The mother was more obviously broken but still out her lippy on daily for their other kids school run; she called it 'painting on her smile' and said they had to keep some form of routine and normality for the kids and for all other school mams who asked how she was, she said they rarely wanted to know the honest, heartbreaking, truth and so she always simply answered, "taking one day at a time" which suited everyone.
I'm not saying this is what LG is doing, but just offering an alternative to those saying they wouldn't be able to get out of bed if it was them- None of us know until we are - hopefully never - on that situation.

Jeeeez sorry for the essay!?



bargainhunt99 said:
I've just realised. Lorena is almost an anagram of Lauren.
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lamaitresse said:
When other people post pictures of Lauren on social media, I wonder how it works. Do they have to be pre-approved and filtered by Lauren before she allows them to be shared, does the original poster Photoshop 'n' filter for her - how many post on the spur of the moment and publish unaltered shots whilst things are happening (which is how most "normal" people update Instagram, Twitter and the rest?).

A few must slip through the net. Does it give her the rage or does she not care?
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Slip through the net 😅 genuinely gave me a chuckle.

Could you imagine the incoming texts from Loz? Hearing your phone go off after posting to IG, looking down and seeing a message from Loz…

“ah duck, I’m in for it… I used the perfect365 filter instead of the youcam perfik filter… she’s gonna have a go…”
 
WallacesDog said:
For narcissists, their children are simply extensions of their own grandiose ego. This is perfectly, graphically, displayed in this case with both of Lauren's babies names being so similar sounding to her own name, Lauren Rose; Larose and Lorena (Lauren-a) - this is not coincidence!!!

Secondly, the child of a narcissist mother is 'never enough' in her mother's eyes. It is not normal or ok, even in her social media obsessed and monetised world, to filter her perfect little daughter's face?!?! Imagine the messages that will be internalised as Larose grows up! Never being able to please or be good enough for her mother's warped standards.

All accumulating in this early concept of 'love' but far from it, passing on trauma, never feeling enough and the continual forming of unhealthy adult relationships.

Granny Crack > Lauren > LaRose....

The tragic death of Lorena could have been a cross roads for Lauren and if she was capable of any self reflection this could be her rock bottom to rise from, learn from and change for a meaningful, fulfilled life.
But I'd bet her weight in sweetcorn this doesn't happen.

I also feel bad for judging her 'grieving' process; it's easy from the position of a good job with benefits and 'time off' for personal, emotional leave.
She's basically 'self employed' with no regular income and reliant on freebies and paid pap walks. Expedient and requiring no deferred gratification the lass has little choice and as another scrunchie posted, I'd hate to see her bank statements.
All her own fault, admittedly, but she was dragged up and is simply repeating historical abuse of being raised by a selfish, narcissist mother herself.
No excuses, just the pattern is glaringly obvious.

People deal with sudden death very differently; I know of a couple where the father got up every morning, went to work, even the morning of their child's funeral and kept a stoic, 'life must go on', attitude - but his partner told me he drank spirits and sobbed every night indoors, away from 'public.
The mother was more obviously broken but still out her lippy on daily for their other kids school run; she called it 'painting on her smile' and said they had to keep some form of routine and normality for the kids and for all other school mams who asked how she was, she said they rarely wanted to know the honest, heartbreaking, truth and so she always simply answered, "taking one day at a time" which suited everyone.
I'm not saying this is what LG is doing, but just offering an alternative to those saying they wouldn't be able to get out of bed if it was them- None of us know until we are - hopefully never - on that situation.

Jeeeez sorry for the essay!?
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Her mum was not involved for 8 years of her childhood
 
ohshutupayourface said:
I literally said ‘if’ multiple times. Only as two people very recently said on here they know her and she uses it, and I was shocked when I was in for 4 days after having a baby and two mums had drugs found in their system whilst giving birth, suggesting it’s more common than someone would think. Multiple partners had been linked to drugs and in some circles it’s more common than others that’s all. The speculation is purely as someone said do you have any theories. And someone linked to convicted drug dealers and having a couple of people saying they know her and she uses it made me think it could be a possibility and if so I hope something can be done to prevent that from happening again as it would have been a preventable death of a baby. Other theories- SIDS, unpicked up medical condition, a few years ago a lady dropped her newborn as she was so tired and out of it 😢. It could have been anything and like I said before we have no right to know. Was just saying IF it was something that could have been prevented I hope something is done to make sure it never happens to another little one.

re the party: last night dancing etc was just wrong, makes my whole body feel icky that they’re acting like they’re in a club when her poor little unworn clothes are likely still in that house. But I think taking her out on her birthday to the farm took a hell of a lot of balls. Full respect to BYG for still making a fuss of her and taking her somewhere she would love for her birthday when she must be broken inside.
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No idea why you have replied to me with all this? Maybe it's meant for someone else?

I have zero interest in speculation about lorena. I gave up after reading the first sentence so apologies if there was anything of relevance. Don't worry about replying.

Onwards buttercup.
 
ohshutupayourface said:
If I’m jumping on the smallest little thing it’s just because that’s the only thing imo that could have caused such an horrific outcome (ie don’t think big portions whilst pregnant is that bad which everyone a few weeks ago was horrified at)
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You're literally saying that the only reason for a baby to have died is because their mother took drugs?
So every single woman on here who has sadly lost their baby is a druggy?
Unbelievable.
Grossly offensive.
 
The woman has no style or class. That bleeping dress is horrendous. See moleman has brought his clients along for the the magazine shoot. I can see it now, grieving lauren gives baby larose an amazing first birthday party despite the loss of baby lorena,what the magazine won't mention is the parents after party , all sniffed off their nuts dancing about like duck all has happened, loving life. They are the lowest of the low. Even that slag marnie was there and posted a pic, bleeping grief thief. Moleman will be absolutely loving all this extra money his raking in from the death of that poor baby. I hope people see what a low life she is. It's obvious her kid isn't happy either, completely emotionless but who can blame her she will have spent most of her life watching her parents on a comedown. Let's see what she has to bring after this magazine shoot. If it's the woe is me narrative she can duck off. We will never know what happened but I think she has knew something was wrong for a while and had to continue the pregnancy, it's so strange that she had to point out how she was healthy and the baby when she announced her death, lack of scans, the late scan she had to have, all speculation tho, like I said we will never know as she is a liar, regardless her baby passed and she is bleeping partying with her so called mates and setting up magazine shoots, bleep
 
Crowbag said:
You're literally saying that the only reason for a baby to have died is because their mother took drugs?
So every single woman on here who has sadly lost their baby is a druggy?
Unbelievable.
Grossly offensive.
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I meant the only thing on here that could have suggested it. Like Lauren has never said she has any health issues etc and no one else has picked up on any factors that could be why a healthy baby could then pass. Are you okay? Is the heat getting to you? i never said anything like that at all? Do I think (having lost a baby myself) it’s because all mothers are druggies?! No? Did I say that no?! I am merely commenting on the only thing on here by people that know her irl that could obviously have caused risk to a baby. And I replied to you only because you replied to me? I don’t understand the argument, which is why I keep responding. Do you think it’s none of our business?: yes, so do I. Do you think she’s taken drugs whilst pregnant: I’m assuming no, I have absolutely no idea (genuinely don’t know and had never in my life heard of a .5 until the other day). Do I think that IF what others (not me) have said turns out to be true she should be held accountable? Yes as it could have prevented a tragedy. That’s the only point I’m making. You obviously don’t and that’s fine. Again it’s only my opinion and I have no idea at all if she has or hasn’t. But don’t make out like I’m saying all babies die because their mums are crackheads as that’s just not it at all. I’m not going to argue anymore. Sorry for having an opinion.
 
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