She is just so immature.
Laura, hun, it is always duck yes. Then there's real life, that changes duck yes to living IN REAL LIFE.
REAL LIFE can change it to feck yes, eg my husband has had a car accident and I need to care for him or we can't conceive and we need ivf or our child has a diagnosed illness/SEN or our dog died or my partner is addicted to pain meds/gambling or my mother is unwell I need to move home to mind her.
duck yes becomes LIFE Laura. We've all had "duck yes" but we also live in the real world. Space cadet.