Laura Laughlin #3

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influenzaaar said:
So, when we saw her get admitted, I had felt a little bit of relief in that she might get help.
This time around she is so much worse than before, except she’s not endangering her children which is a good thing, but for the fact there seems to now be no trigger to pull to get her assistance. And I suppose her family are probably entirely detached based upon her behaviour, which is a mix of bleep and unwellness.
Actually awful to watch play out.
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It’s quite concerning.
Something has to give soon, she can’t keep going like this.
 
Of course Ben is counting every $ and yes, you absolutely should be keeping track of what you spend, this is called commonsense. And how do you think you have access to a mobile network? Or Spotify? Car rego/insurance? It all costs money. You can't swan around in expensive rental apartments, eating organic raw food, buying crystal bonbons & new bed linen, and not be surprised when the money runs out in a day.
 

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Summer you can’t buy property before having the money. You buy it afterwards. You will not get any finance as you are not working and have no assets of any real value and have no fixed address. Plus an unroadworthy car which she will get fined for any day now. An absolute shitshow
 

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StateOfMind said:
Of course Ben is counting every $ and yes, you absolutely should be keeping track of what you spend, this is called commonsense. And how do you think you have access to a mobile network? Or Spotify? Car rego/insurance? It all costs money. You can't swan around in expensive rental apartments, eating organic raw food, buying crystal bonbons & new bed linen, and not be surprised when the money runs out in a day.
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That's her issue, she thinks she's entitled to all these things just because she is a woman/mother. She's a narcissist and I think a sociopath too. I can't see bipolar because she doesn't seem to have lows? But I suppose she wouldn't post that

Someone will report her to police soon. Either nudity in public, her driving or stalking. They will see her prevision admission and hopefully act again
 
Mania can be triggered by lots of things, and if it’s bipolar, the highs and lows can be long- up to 6 months or more!. It’s not as up and down as a lot of ppl think. It’s good to see Ben and her dad putting a trust account in place, protecting the cash now so when she inevitably crashes and gets help she isn’t completely destitute.
 
treasurecat22 said:
At this point her family is failing her. If that was my sister posting the tit she does on socials I would personally drag her ass to the Mental health ward. I wouldn’t care how much resentment she gave me. Because I know after treatment she would thank me.
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Well aren't you lucky that your sister is not having a mental health crisis because you clearly do not know the realities for a family in a situation like this.

This comment is SO triggering. Do you realise that you can't just fking drag someone into a ward and magic spell their mental health problems away? THERE IS NO CURE. GOVERNMENTS DO NOTHING.

Her family are likely doing everything they can for her while also preserving their own lives/health. She is probably a witch to them. There is likely no getting through to her. She has got her children taken away which is a HUGE feat on the family's behalf.

I don't know what bleeping disney movie made everyone think family can just 'step in' and solve a mental health breakdown, but they can't. Many people like Laura won't even take pills and are fully resistant to treatment. This to me is like saying family are failing a loved one who's received a terminal cancer diagnosis. THEY'RE NOT.
 
treasurecat22 said:
Laura/Summer you do in fact have a spending problem. Imagine spending hundreds of dollars on seafood then turning around & trying to blame your ex as to why you don’t have presents for your kids.
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She knows she's been posting all her receipts - EVERYone can see what she's blowing her money on?
Ben and her father are trying to make sure when she gets a settlement it's protected- for her AND the kids. God I hope she wakes up soon. This is getting harder and harder to see
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happygolucky1 said:
Well aren't you lucky that your sister is not having a mental health crisis because you clearly do not know the realities for a family in a situation like this.
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I totally get this. It's horrendously difficult to be a family member, try to help and maintain your boundaries too - all while being told you're wrong and go away. I'm so sorry for you and your family 🫶
 
happygolucky1 said:
Why doesn't this woman never show her eyes or face? Are drugs totally ruled out?

A sudden onset of this type of behaviour in a 36 year old woman seems bizarre but not impossible.
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Could account for her lack of funds, I know she’s spending exorbitant amounts of meat & seafood etc but you could be onto something.
It seems like she was having extreme views of things but something tipped her over the edge & I think it was parenting the 3 kids on her one for that 5 weeks.

Time will tell. Would they have done a drug screen when she was in the mental health centre or not something they would do?
 
notgifted said:
Could account for her lack of funds, I know she’s spending exorbitant amounts of meat & seafood etc but you could be onto something.
It seems like she was having extreme views of things but something tipped her over the edge & I think it was parenting the 3 kids on her one for that 5 weeks.

Time will tell. Would they have done a drug screen when she was in the mental health centre or not something they would do?
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The thing that seems telling to me is her obsession with money. Often addicts think that if only they had enough money they could afford to maintain their addiction which is of course never true. I am totally new to this thread and just speculating here.

She may have well been drug tested but she is not going to go on X and start talking about anything like that, and neither is her family. These things happen behind closed doors. She's awake all night tweeting, listening to music, saying she's obsessed with health, being an ego maniac and having her kids removed... IDK

On the other side of the coin, maybe she's OCD about all her organic food and just freaking out about things she deems as necessities being cut off. Like an OCD panic thought about her safe food/products no longer being available to her and therefore the whole conceptual framework she's structuring her life around collapses
 
notgifted said:
Could account for her lack of funds, I know she’s spending exorbitant amounts of meat & seafood etc but you could be onto something.
It seems like she was having extreme views of things but something tipped her over the edge & I think it was parenting the 3 kids on her one for that 5 weeks.

Time will tell. Would they have done a drug screen when she was in the mental health centre or not something they would do?
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Mania is like this though.
Drugs and alcohol aren’t required - it is terrifying to watch a loved one go through it. I feel for her parents and Ben. This leather skinned, ‘box’ out freakshow is not the person they raised or loved.

She’s also a massively awful person deep down, but the mania is making this a billion times worse
 
massively awful people tend to be more susceptible to losing their minds because the reason they're massively awful in the first place is because of maladaptive tendencies in the brain. she probably has ploughed through friendships and relationships totally oblivious to her effect on others.

also, mania is usually a symptom if I'm correct? Do you think she's bipolar? If so, has she had depressive episodes? It seems like one long streak of mania which is what makes me think its drugs. Or else just bipolar alongside OCD, narcissism etc.
 
happygolucky1 said:
Well aren't you lucky that your sister is not having a mental health crisis because you clearly do not know the realities for a family in a situation like this.

This comment is SO triggering. Do you realise that you can't just fking drag someone into a ward and magic spell their mental health problems away? THERE IS NO CURE. GOVERNMENTS DO NOTHING.

Her family are likely doing everything they can for her while also preserving their own lives/health. She is probably a witch to them. There is likely no getting through to her. She has got her children taken away which is a HUGE feat on the family's behalf.

I don't know what bleeping disney movie made everyone think family can just 'step in' and solve a mental health breakdown, but they can't. Many people like Laura won't even take pills and are fully resistant to treatment. This to me is like saying family are failing a loved one who's received a terminal cancer diagnosis. THEY'RE NOT.
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Bloody tell me about it. I've been down this path too and the sense of failure from not being able to help is overwhelming. I'd bet every dollar I have that her family are terrified, exhausted, and at their wit's end (as well as angry, hurt, concerned; trying their best to save her while equally grieving because there's every chance the Laura they knew will never return).

It's bleeping hard, and irreversibly eye-opening as to how fucked the system is.
 
She never showed care about people's concern when she'd post them totally naked, and in fact messaged me last year that I was silly for being scared for them.
I reckon she's always been a loop but something has escalated. Hormones, who knows?
And she said something bad happened when they moved to Eumundi. Who knows?
 
happygolucky1 said:
Well aren't you lucky that your sister is not having a mental health crisis because you clearly do not know the realities for a family in a situation like this.

This comment is SO triggering. Do you realise that you can't just fking drag someone into a ward and magic spell their mental health problems away? THERE IS NO CURE. GOVERNMENTS DO NOTHING.

Her family are likely doing everything they can for her while also preserving their own lives/health. She is probably a witch to them. There is likely no getting through to her. She has got her children taken away which is a HUGE feat on the family's behalf.

I don't know what bleeping disney movie made everyone think family can just 'step in' and solve a mental health breakdown, but they can't. Many people like Laura won't even take pills and are fully resistant to treatment. This to me is like saying family are failing a loved one who's received a terminal cancer diagnosis. THEY'RE NOT.
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It’s funny you think I have no idea about having a family member with a mental health problem. There IS HELP IF YOU PUSH FOR IT! From first hand experience!! Don’t sit here & spray your tit at me & try & belittle me.
 
The posts about thinking someone is in her phone are concerning. Paranoia seems to be increasing.
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treasurecat22 said:
It’s funny you think I have no idea about having a family member with a mental health problem. There IS HELP IF YOU PUSH FOR IT! From first hand experience!! Don’t sit here & spray your tit at me & try & belittle me.
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Don’t stress. They’re a newbie here and don’t even know who Laura is lol.
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happygolucky1 said:
did she ever show maternal instinct before?? or is this detachment from losing her kids new?
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Bro go read back on the threads. Don’t come in all triggered and then ask questions. There’s 3 threads to catch up on ✌🏼
 
So not using toilet paper? I'm hoping this is just referring number one's (which is still gross imo) Seems odd for her to say as I recall one of the few things Summer took when she visited the kids was a roll of tp, so she must be using it for other, erm...business. Annnnndddd that's about all the thought I'm going to put into it...moving on 😬
 

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