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Pretty sure you don't get anything. It's essentially just a tipping service. You're not subscribing to anything.
I don’t know why anyone on Instagram would like to tip her when she has now limited a lot of their content. I actually found her very useful having teens and found myself reflecting on a lot of personal stuff but I do fee irritated that it’s now yet another subscription.
 
I don’t know why anyone on Instagram would like to tip her when she has now limited a lot of their content. I actually found her very useful having teens and found myself reflecting on a lot of personal stuff but I do fee irritated that it’s now yet another subscription.
I agree. I can't see how she can evolve in the current climate. She would have been a great agony aunt in something like More magazine back in the day (for those of a certain age!) but you can't keep posting the same stuff all the time. The answer is ALWAYS 'leave him' or 'move on'.
 
I agree. I can't see how she can evolve in the current climate. She would have been a great agony aunt in something like More magazine back in the day (for those of a certain age!) but you can't keep posting the same stuff all the time. The answer is ALWAYS 'leave him' or 'move on'.
I was gutted when they stopped producing More magazine! Do you remember “position of the week” 😂😂
 
She's so negative these days. Why can't other people enjoy things? Also, let's be honest, the guy isn't her type because he isn't a grey tracksuit wearing duck boy
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Doesn’t she really seem like someone who loves her son but hates being a mum? She definitely wishes she’d chosen to be child free.

Yes. It’s constantly about how hard it is, which it is obviously but she basically says if you’re a single mum your life is over. Which it isn’t and can be scaremongering almost. I’m sorry she had a hard time of it (maybe) but that isn’t the case for everyone.
 
I can see her point with that though. I think the stuff she's done in the past where she's said people need to stop thinking having a child is the goal of life and, from her work as a social worker, she's seen no end of people who just shouldn't have had kids or at least as many as they have.

I think her son has additional needs and little support from the Dad so that's one area where I actually think she makes sense.
 
I just think she talks about it as if she’s speaking to teenagers who haven’t thought the implications of having a baby through. Although I absolutely agree you can’t know what it’s like until you have one. And then it’s too late to change your mind 🤣 but the other day someone wrote to her saying she wanted to have a baby and lala said something like “you have to remember it won’t always be a baby. It’ll be a tantrum throwing toddler and then a moody hormonal teenager”. What?! No bleeping way??
 
I just think she talks about it as if she’s speaking to teenagers who haven’t thought the implications of having a baby through. Although I absolutely agree you can’t know what it’s like until you have one. And then it’s too late to change your mind 🤣 but the other day someone wrote to her saying she wanted to have a baby and lala said something like “you have to remember it won’t always be a baby. It’ll be a tantrum throwing toddler and then a moody hormonal teenager”. What?! No bleeping way??

Yeah they are pretty predictable... A better response would be that it is a lottery - your health can be damaged by pregnancy, the child can have additional needs/serious illness, your sources of support might go (partner leave/ill, grandparents die). A child is the biggest commitment going.
 
I think she’s said before that she’d have done things differently re kids if she’d known how it would turn out. I actually really appreciate her speaking about regrets as it’s a real taboo, but something that’s probably more common than we realise. I’m often made to feel abnormal by parents I know for choosing to be child-free so it’s really validating to hear about experiences where having a child wasn’t the right thing.
 
having had a v chaotic childhood and experienced social services in every way a person can really (as a child, in professionally adjacent roles, and as an adult trying to get support for myself and my family), I do think it’s helpful and healthy for us to have more open and honest discussions about the reasons why we are having children. Like it’s good to be intentional with all our choices, especially one that means bringing another actual human being into the world. But there’s a huge amount of privilege that comes with having the space and time to have these kind of conversations with ourselves - tbf with the experiences (both personal and professional) lalala has had, it would be a good way to use her platform if she could get over her own ingrained prejudices about families with too many kids etc.
 
Who is she? Did her mum out her?
I recall her mother commented on a BBC radio post, which led to her Facebook profile. It was a public account that included photos and videos of Laura, aka Lala. Once this information surfaced on Tattle, her mother's Facebook account was made private. Later, "Lala" contacted the police, reported Tattle, and attempted to have this thread removed.
 
queue her angry posts on instagram after me posting
I don’t follow so couldn’t give a tit

A lot of us were shocked because she really does try to present as a POC and there’s some definite black fishing. She also made out that she was a solid 10/10 and men would follow her every day. We were all pretty shocked to see a fairly average looking white woman.
 
A lot of us were shocked because she really does try to present as a POC and there’s some definite black fishing. She also made out that she was a solid 10/10 and men would follow her every day. We were all pretty shocked to see a fairly average looking white woman.

Yes this is something I was very surprised at, that she’s a middle aged white woman and not a 10/10 POC as that’s the impression I also got!!!
 
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