Kelly Life With My Rainbow #3 Hagrid and iggle piggle’s love child

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So she's taking him to the doctors for speech.

I know this has caused drama in the past. But the older he is getting the more the autistic traits are coming out. Most of the time he has a completley blank expression. I thought maybe he was a miserable kid but maybe he is on the spectrum.
 
Panda1990xo said:
So she's taking him to the doctors for speech.

I know this has caused drama in the past. But the older he is getting the more the autistic traits are coming out. Most of the time he has a completley blank expression. I thought maybe he was a miserable kid but maybe he is on the spectrum.
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Could be why he has issues with his food. She says about texture of food etc and there’s been a few meals he’s refused lately so she gives him toast and he’d rather that. Very beige eater
 
Kazzie20 said:
Honestly its just the way she raises him. hardly ever see her happy so how is he seeing much happiness? hes copying her
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He doesn’t mix with any other children either. Does she go to baby groups or have friends with children similar ages does she take him to soft play so he can listen to others no he’s either at home or stuck in the car or she walks him in the pram to feed ducks.
 
Kazzie20 said:
Honestly its just the way she raises him. hardly ever see her happy so how is he seeing much happiness? hes copying her
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i doubt it
if he is struggling with a delay or is autistic then nothing she has done to raise him has made him like this. my nearly 2 year old is suspected asd and i sometimes wonder if how i’ve raised her has caused it etc so it’s a really damaging opinion or view to have
 
laurynlouuuu said:
i doubt it
if he is struggling with a delay or is autistic then nothing she has done to raise him has made him like this. my nearly 2 year old is suspected asd and i sometimes wonder if how i’ve raised her has caused it etc so it’s a really damaging opinion or view to have
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My little boy is 18 months and still not talking yet. Since he was a young baby I’ve constantly gone to groups with him, we go to groups / mix with other toddlers on a near daily basis and he’s still not talking. I agree, when your child is looked to “be behind” you can think is it something I’m doing/ not doing etc. I’m doing the right thing or feel like I’m doing everything I’m supposed to be doing to help him along by getting him out, mixing with others, expanding his world as much as possible etc. I was thinking he’ll just get there in his own pace and time but from reading here I’m now feeling like there might be something more to it and get him checked idk.

This thread can often feel a bit like mumsnet with parenting opinions 🙈 Sometimes it’s not as simple as the black and white view.
 
Some children are delayed in speaking and it can be completley normal for them. The problem is Kelly shows us her whole life. She can't go to Sainsburys, or swimming without telling Tik Tok. She used to do her "come with us to baby sensory" till he graduated from it. She doesn't take him out the house, or there would be a tik tok about it. They currently can't even use their garden and she doesn't even seem to take him to the park anymore. He's getting no stimulation other than Miss Rachel.
 
All 3 of my siblings are autistic so obviously not degrading genuine children. but in olivers case i think its pretty clear to see hes not getting any proper stimulation. or mixing

also 18 months is a lil bit early to be raising alarm bells. my oldest did the same said basic words from 1 then went mute till she was 2… 3 nd a half she dosent shut up 🤣
 
Am I the only one who gets a little annoyed that everything is labelled as Autism these days? Funny with food? Autistic. Slower with speech? Autistic. Not saying this isn’t the case for some children but I feel people jump to this diagnosis so quickly and at such a young age! It’s so worrying for mums. She should probably wait till the 2 year review as I’m pretty sure there’s a questionnaire to fill out and they’ll refer him from there if needs be. All children are so different and we are so quick to compare. My little girl is 16 months and doesn’t point. But does everything else she should do at her age (and more) as has no other markers. However all I read about online is her being autistic because she doesn’t point!!!
 
My oldest wasn’t talking at all by 18m and I raised it with our health visitors. We got their diagnosis when they turned 4, so it’s absolutely possible. What I will say is his expressionless face doesn’t mean he’s on the spectrum, mine was the happiest, most expressive kid they just struggled with communication & social skills.

He’s probably delayed because she never interacts with him 😂
 
the thing is autism for some children is obvious even before the 2 year review.
my daughter has her asd assement before her two year review 😂
that’s due to a number of different reasons not just because a “few traits”
autism is so much more then what you read about online or see some mums on tiktok proclaim there children have
it does annoy me because it’s such a process a long drawn out one and why some people hope there child is autistic baffles me
 
My son is autistic and had a speech delay I knew he had one from he was little he literally didn’t speak I now have a 16 month old and I constantly worry about her having one unfortunately as much as Kelly does my tits in its nothing she has done has made him this way if he is autistic it’s just him.. also Harrison has good issues and anxiety which is very common so he could be also
 
I break most of my daughters food up quite small because she has barely any teeth (20 month old late bloomer 🤣) and her speech is amazing so I don’t think it could be that
 
yeah i don’t think it’s the eating either
honestly he could have some sensory issues going on and adversions
i also don’t think it needs to be documented on tiktok either ffs
 
laurynlouuuu said:
yeah i don’t think it’s the eating either
honestly he could have some sensory issues going on and adversions
i also don’t think it needs to be documented on tiktok either ffs
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It will be her new thing she will replace rainbow with asd, my son has asd and it is genuinely so hard to watch him struggle but he is the most amazing kid
 
Did not need to see Kelly in lingerie first thing in a morning. She really forgets that once something is put online it's there forever doesn't she? I'm sure your boys will be so proud their Mom is uploading stuff like this online. Harrison is at an age where some of his friends probably have tik tok. How embarrassing for him.
 
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