Keepingupwithkirstylea #15 Dairylea and one-pump flogging Goli. Anaemic sausages? What a wally

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Rosiejones100 said:
She has zero drive or ambition. There is a saying "do you walk the walk or talk the talk" I think we know which one applies to Kirsty. She honestly believes she is a young girl about town. I think that it's time for someone who loves her to have a proper chat to her. She spouts so much nonsense and believes her own bullshit it's actually really sad.
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Don’t you remember when her sister tried and she went mental
 
Rosiejones100 said:
Yes told her to apply for the post office didn't she. The sister seems the only normal one. It's like watching a car crash in slow motion. I wonder if she has a special need. If so there needs to be an intervention. Such a strange woman
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A few have speculated her being on the spectrum and it’s really quite common for women with autism to go undiagnosed especially into adulthood. I don’t want to say she definitely has it, as I’m not a doctor or an expert but socially, she seems to have abnormal behaviour that suggests maybe she does. Still, potentially being on the spectrum doesn’t give her a reason for being a lazy selfish human being and it’s an insult to those who are autistic and live their lives however it is possible she’s a terrible person who happens to have it.
 
Dreamz said:
Literally it!! That phrase makes me so annoyed whenever she uses it.
After catching up on here I genuinely can’t believe she went and worked for one day then left. Must have missed her crappy sofa post so went back to read it! It’s literally a joke.
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Yeah what’s with the sofa picture lol she literally lives in the bedroom anyway

Gobbylurker said:
The more I think about it the more it’s pissing me off. How entitled must you be to honestly think that you can pick and choose what you do. There are people working jobs that they absolutely hate for minimum wage because that’s what they need to do to keep a roof over their heads. But now she’s shacked up with Penners and his parents, she thinks she can pick and choose what she likes. As I said before, I can’t see how she would be entitled to benefits if she’s willingly given up a position? If that was my husband’s parents when we first got together, they would have been having strong words in his ear about whether I was the sort of person he should have been planning a life with. There’s only so many blueberry muffins you can make to keep people happy, muffins don’t pay the bills!
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But also when she lived with her parents (who are probably living their best life in the hot tub celebrating daily now she’s with Penners) she had it easy .. she never seemed to clean or make meals for the family.

thepantsqueen said:
A few have speculated her being on the spectrum and it’s really quite common for women with autism to go undiagnosed especially into adulthood. I don’t want to say she definitely has it, as I’m not a doctor or an expert but socially, she seems to have abnormal behaviour that suggests maybe she does. Still, potentially being on the spectrum doesn’t give her a reason for being a lazy selfish human being and it’s an insult to those who are autistic and live their lives however it is possible she’s a terrible person who happens to have it.
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I would be fascinated to know .. I always assumed she was a self entitled narcissist

Does anyone find it weird that we get no Dan vids anymore .. she’s gone so quiet .. I don’t mean I think they’ve split up but she used to film him cooking n stuff
 
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Chloe123456 said:
Yeah what’s with the sofa picture lol she literally lives in the bedroom anyway


But also when she lived with her parents (who are probably living their best life in the hot tub celebrating daily now she’s with Penners) she had it easy .. she never seemed to clean or make meals for the family.


I would be fascinated to know .. I always assumed she was a self entitled narcissist

Does anyone find it weird that we get no Dan vids anymore .. she’s gone so quiet .. I don’t mean I think they’ve split up but she used to film him cooking n stuff
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May be he has put his foot down as he must be getting ripped in his group chats.
No the world is returning to normality a bit more he may realise that her behaviour is not normal.
would love to see what’s being said in the mates girl friends group chat
 
Its_Me said:
Someone said further up that she had a job when she met him. I thought she didn’t but I may be wrong?
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No I don’t think she did, she was made redundant before covid and then was unemployed until that job she got at the end of last year? I can’t think when the correct timeline is for her getting that job but I’m sure she had no job when they met because we were all talking about who would be paying (him) 😂
 
Your right I forget she met him in the summer when she definitely didn’t have a job as we had the hot tub and garage workouts every day.
I think she started her new job in the September and moved in to Penners in October
 
BettyBeau said:
Your right I forget she met him in the summer when she definitely didn’t have a job as we had the hot tub and garage workouts every day.
I think she started her new job in the September and moved in to Penners in October
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Yeh that timeline seems about right coz she was there a couple of months, then she was off for Christmas, had the whole ‘I had covid’ story then was back there for about a week in the new year before she was let go.
 
My husband earns double what I do but I have paid half of our mortgage & household bills, granted he tends to pay for our holidays etc but I pay for most of the food shopping & try my hardest to pay for nights out etc as would hate to ever feel like I was sponging off him. I can’t believe she has no shame in moving in with his parents whilst being unemployed, it’s not as if she was homeless & had no other option
 
Rabbit!69 said:
My husband earns double what I do but I have paid half of our mortgage & household bills, granted he tends to pay for our holidays etc but I pay for most of the food shopping & try my hardest to pay for nights out etc as would hate to ever feel like I was sponging off him. I can’t believe she has no shame in moving in with his parents whilst being unemployed, it’s not as if she was homeless & had no other option
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We have a joint account and it's our money so even though sometimes one might be earning more and it's still just ours not mine or his and then we save the same amount in my saving account, his and joint. Buuuuut we're together a long time and married years.
 
Rabbit!69 said:
I’m a spender so don’t trust myself with his wages 🤣🤣 x
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Yeh there’s no way I would be allowed a joint account 😂 But I’m similar to you my partner earns way more but I still pay for some of our smaller bills and I get most of the food shopping unless we are together. He doesn’t like it but I won’t be a kept woman and I know if we ever split up I wouldn’t be on my arse and would have my own house to go to after getting the tenants out. She will probably end up on her feet with a baby and Penfold having to buy them a house etc but it’s just about having a bit of pride and personally I wouldn’t be comfortable with someone being able to say I wouldn’t have anything without them....particularly at her age, she’s not a young girl and she’s achieved pretty much nothing. It’s quite sad really but I don’t pity her because nothing has been holding her back and it’s all her own doing.
 
Its_Me said:
Yeh there’s no way I would be allowed a joint account 😂 But I’m similar to you my partner earns way more but I still pay for some of our smaller bills and I get most of the food shopping unless we are together. He doesn’t like it but I won’t be a kept woman and I know if we ever split up I wouldn’t be on my arse and would have my own house to go to after getting the tenants out. She will probably end up on her feet with a baby and Penfold having to buy them a house etc but it’s just about having a bit of pride and personally I wouldn’t be comfortable with someone being able to say I wouldn’t have anything without them....particularly at her age, she’s not a young girl and she’s achieved pretty much nothing. It’s quite sad really but I don’t pity her because nothing has been holding her back and it’s all her own doing.
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It’s like she lacks any self respect or drive.
I grew up in an industrial town & saw my Dad in & out of work due to the job he did (ship yards) but he always grafted his arse off when there was work to be done & worked well beyond his retirement age (think he liked working), he only stopped as he realised his body could no longer cope with the manual work involved. I will never forget the work ethics he drove into me & my brother & the fact that growing up we didn’t have a lot but we always had a roof over our heads, food on the table & clothes on our back. It’s made me want to work for everything I get & I love nothing more than taking my parents out & treating them to a few drinks or a nice meal as I know the sacrifices they made for us growing up.
 
It's the same with us, my husband earns considerably more than me, and now I've gone part time, the gap has got bigger lol but it's to save the pressure on grandparents and spending all our money on childcare! So it made sense for me to do it! I know in 3 years, they will all be at school and we will have the money we are spending on childcare to spend on holidays with the kids, days out with family! My mum had to give up work when my brother came along as he has severe learning difficulties and autism but she never stops, she is superwoman, always on the go doing stuff for everyone, even the days she doesn't have my oldest son, she comes down, changes my beds, takes my washing and brings it back washed and ironed 🙈 cleans my kitchen 😂 I've to hide washing incase she comes down because I say you don't have to she does it anyway 😂 lol she just wants to help everyone and she said it was the hardest decision to give up work but it was necessary! We didn't have a lot growing up but we had the best childhood full of love and fun, my mum was always there to play with us, get us from school, days out over the summer! That was 30 years ago and I couldn't afford to give up work and I love my job, so I think we have a balance that works for us! Everyone's situation is different!

Kirsty just expects everything to be handed to her, she has landed on her feet if handsome is willing to put up with her! His wage will only get them so far but I know I would get sick of someone being a sponge very quickly! It's not like she can't get work, she wasted a job, someone else could have really needed that and she did it for a day?! Makes me so cross! She needs a good talking to, though who would she listen to!
 
BabyYoda said:
It's the same with us, my husband earns considerably more than me, and now I've gone part time, the gap has got bigger lol but it's to save the pressure on grandparents and spending all our money on childcare! So it made sense for me to do it! I know in 3 years, they will all be at school and we will have the money we are spending on childcare to spend on holidays with the kids, days out with family! My mum had to give up work when my brother came along as he has severe learning difficulties and autism but she never stops, she is superwoman, always on the go doing stuff for everyone, even the days she doesn't have my oldest son, she comes down, changes my beds, takes my washing and brings it back washed and ironed 🙈 cleans my kitchen 😂 I've to hide washing incase she comes down because I say you don't have to she does it anyway 😂 lol she just wants to help everyone and she said it was the hardest decision to give up work but it was necessary! We didn't have a lot growing up but we had the best childhood full of love and fun, my mum was always there to play with us, get us from school, days out over the summer! That was 30 years ago and I couldn't afford to give up work and I love my job, so I think we have a balance that works for us! Everyone's situation is different!

Kirsty just expects everything to be handed to her, she has landed on her feet if handsome is willing to put up with her! His wage will only get them so far but I know I would get sick of someone being a sponge very quickly! It's not like she can't get work, she wasted a job, someone else could have really needed that and she did it for a day?! Makes me so cross! She needs a good talking to, though who would she listen to!
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Penners seems to like the nice things nice holidays and eating out and at first probably enjoyed treating her but after time you start to resent those things especially if no effort is being put in to find a job.
She’s well and truely trapped him.
 
thepantsqueen said:
A few have speculated her being on the spectrum and it’s really quite common for women with autism to go undiagnosed especially into adulthood. I don’t want to say she definitely has it, as I’m not a doctor or an expert but socially, she seems to have abnormal behaviour that suggests maybe she does. Still, potentially being on the spectrum doesn’t give her a reason for being a lazy selfish human being and it’s an insult to those who are autistic and live their lives however it is possible she’s a terrible person who happens to have it.
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Agreed. Autism doesn't make people unpleasant or bone idle. It's the lack of self awareness that I don't understand. She literally has no shame does she.
 
BettyBeau said:
Penners seems to like the nice things nice holidays and eating out and at first probably enjoyed treating her but after time you start to resent those things especially if no effort is being put in to find a job.
She’s well and truely trapped him.
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That's it, it was a novelty treating her first few dates and we've pretty much been locked down for most of their relationship! Will be very interesting once everything starts reopening and days out/holidays/dinners out can happen again! Meeting his friends, another thing that will hopefully be a wake up call to him!
 
BabyYoda said:
That's it, it was a novelty treating her first few dates and we've pretty much been locked down for most of their relationship! Will be very interesting once everything starts reopening and days out/holidays/dinners out can happen again! Meeting his friends, another thing that will hopefully be a wake up call to him!
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Yeah if in “real life” she is anything like what she portrays to us on Instagram then I can’t see her being a favourite amongst his friends. She’s so obnoxious I would dread going to places where I knew she would be 😂 The fact she deletes his friends comments on her posts when they are just bantering already suggests she won’t do well amongst then in person when the time comes, but I could be wrong! We will find out at the first summer bbq I’m sure 😂
 
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