Why doesn’t she ask the ‘family member who helped pay for their holiday’ to lend her some money for her sons birthday? If they were willing to chuck money at someone else to have a holiday surely they’d help for her sons birthday, instead of trying to guilt trip her followers into paying for her kids birthday. She blew all that money on house stuff months ago, why didn’t she keep some back to cover his birthday? It’s not like you don’t know it’s coming.