if she is refusing in helping the police and it is him that as been bailed again( and they are back together) his solicitor could have argued that as she is not afraid of him the no contact part should be dropped (my neighbour was always calling the police on her partner for DV and he was always allowed back after a week or so because she refused to co operate with the police in prosecuting him and said she was not afraid of him)as for going abroad i think they only take your passport if it is a high profile case and they think you might flee the country i doubt they would think you are going to skip the country and start a new life somewhere else because you had a fight with your girlfriend