I dont think she knows anything - its just bravado, same as always. The one thing that I think she accepts is that she is going to lose the MM and she is letting go of it, which is why she is trying to shack up permanently with Carol (who doesnt seem keen) It seems pretty obvious to me that what Willow was told about assessments for B&J living with a family member was true, just not in the way it was assumed initially ... SS are involved and so is the family court, so, Kipper can move in with Carol BUT she is not allowed to change Bunnys school and she is also not allowed to arbitrarily decide where or who she can live with Mon-Fri to attend her old school without SS assessing the living arrangements, the custodians and agreeing to it - KH also has access to see Bunny at least so she will have to take her to the contact centre (or wherever agreed) and will have been told living a distance away is not an excuse - she wont like being told what to do and we have heard her say its SS stopping Jett seeing his dad, not her, spinning the narrative in her favour. We know she has been stopped from taking the children out of the country - she wont like that either. As for Jett, I think she has backed herself into a corner lying about his MH and cant just say 'he is ok, he can go to school' now, i suspect he is seeing a child therapist as part of the court process rather than treatment as such - i dont believe that its her choice, mainly because she will be bothered about what he is saying to the therapist about her and Carol. Anyway, I dont think any of this is bad for KH - the ropes are tightening around her, however it may appear sometimes, Kipper is not getting her own way and doing whatever she wants