I’ve got a friend who’s had numerous losses and failed rounds of IVF - £40k upwards has been spent and she’s now at the stage where she’s resigning herself to being too old and I felt horrendous when I was pregnant I was so worried about telling her and down played every single thing about it in her company, from the complaints to the excitement because I thought it’s just not fair that it’s all come fairly easily to me and I’m lucky enough to have a healthy pretty easy pregnancy (even with GD!!). I saved any moans for other friends that I knew wouldn’t be triggered by it. It’s not about not owning your truth or whatever shite she will say it is but about having some respect for other people, including one of her so called best friends who’s probably having to grit her teeth and sit on her hands not to punch her in her ungrateful gob. Oh and I reckon the baby’s cuter looking with a dummy because it hides the nose which is the image of Kate’s. She’s bound to go bald too so I’m sure will spend all summer in turbans and sun hats to keep up the aesthetic. I hope she chokes on her gifted roasties today!