He explained a while ago that the room he often goes live in is a garden room (like a posh shed in the corner of the garden), she doesn’t/cant sleep in there so she has to be taken to bed in the house which I’m presuming is upstairs? I think that’s an issue, moving her and getting her up and down the stairs won’t be easy and probably not great for her having to be moved constantly. Slightly different but not really… when a relative of mine could no longer make it upstairs so they were able to stay at home for their end of life we had a bed downstairs and fully adapted the whole living room temporarily, wasn’t great and wasn’t ideal but you do it if you care about that persons needs! Instead he sits on live moaning expecting everyone to do it all for him or send him ££ for it.