I think that’s the thing isn’t it, I’m quite a relaxed parent and if my daughter wants to do something and I’m not really sure about it I go through a list of questions like: is it going to hurt her? Is it going to hurt someone else? Is it inconsiderate to do that activity where she wants to do it? Is it going to irritate people? Is it going to feed into a bad habit? I feel like Joe and Dozie don’t seem to do this, it’s just breeding entitlement into the kids.
If we’re in a busy restaurant and she wants to get down the answer is absolutely not, if we’re in an empty restaurant and she wants to get down she can but within very strict parameters. Kids running about anywhere busy can be so dangerous - especially where people are serving hot drinks/food. You don’t want anyone to get hurt and on top of that, in busy restaurants people are going there to enjoy their time with the company they’re on the table with! Not your kid!
the fact that he’s let Marley pretty much stand on Leni shows he has no consideration for even the baby in his own family. He’s a bellend.