Jim Chapman #6 Tan's a cheat, Sarah came after, now please tell us what happened to Martha

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God I’m only halfway through that house tour video and had to take a break, his narcissism and self absorption is actually astonishing. Painting almost the entire house green when your soon to be wife and mother of your child hates green? Shoving a portrait of her and your child behind a bookshelf because you find it cringe that she gave you a picture of yourself (and your child, idiot) for Christmas? And insisting on painting every room in your house some garish colour to spite Tanya for painting all the rooms in your old house white 😭. Tanya really lives in his mind rent free it’s incredible.

Honestly I don’t think much of Tanya at all but escaping Jim is the single greatest thing that could’ve ever happened to her. If anything he’s getting worse over time. The way he has to constantly put down his partner to make himself feel bigger, smarter, more interesting etc. Sarah is too young and too insecure to see through it now but she’ll have her wake up call eventually. Being in a relationship with someone like Jim would be like death by a thousand cuts. Just constant low level passive aggresive ‘jokey’ insults that wear you down overtime.
 
rosieposie87 said:
Shoving a portrait of her and your child behind a bookshelf because you find it cringe that she gave you a picture of yourself (and your child, idiot) for Christmas? And insisting on painting every room in your house some garish colour to spite Tanya for painting all the rooms in your old house white 😭. T
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Yeah but having a drawing of yourself on the office wall is ok. Prick.
 
The house tour video - so much was 'my house.... I did this....I'm doing this... I chose this room...'. As my mother would say 'his I's are too close together'.
It just comes so naturally to him to talk about himself.
It 100% is HIS home. He obviously makes all the decisions.
Can't Sarah see how utterly self obsessed he is? And then making out that SHE is with the photo?
 
the latest Q&A, he apparently uses "my kid" just to annoy people online... yeh I am sure that is true, he has been using it forever.I don't care what he calls their child, I feel badfor Sarah tbh. Especially his assertion that he doesn't want Margot to be an only child, if I was Sarah after such a difficult pregnancy I don't know if I would be so excited to do it again, which he doesn't seem to address at all
 
emm said:
the latest Q&A, he apparently uses "my kid" just to annoy people online...
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Does he not realise that ‘people online’ pay his bills. He doesn’t have a platform, a job, a house, anything at all but for ‘people online’. I honestly think these two need to retire from the socials because they are so bitter and feeling victimised and have such overblown self importance. It’s really unhealthy
 
littlepup said:
Does he not realise that ‘people online’ pay his bills. He doesn’t have a platform, a job, a house, anything at all but for ‘people online’. I honestly think these two need to retire from the socials because they are so bitter and feeling victimised and have such overblown self importance. It’s really unhealthy
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exactly, having a channel (both him and sarah) which is just showing their lives... you cannot have a channel just showing your lives, no other theme, not like they have a cooking channel (for example) and then complain when people think they can ask or know about their lives. You have made a living doing nothing but showing it!!
 
Jelly Bean said:
Can't Sarah see how utterly self obsessed he is? And then making out that SHE is with the photo?
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This is projection at its finest.

“Projection is a defense mechanism commonly used by abusers, including people with narcissistic or borderline personality disorder and addicts. Basically, they're saying, “It’s not me, it’s you!” When we project, we are defending ourselves against unconscious impulses or traits, either positive or negative, that we’ve denied in ourselves. Instead, we attribute them to others.”
 
Jelly Bean said:
The house tour video - so much was 'my house.... I did this....I'm doing this... I chose this room...'. As my mother would say 'his I's are too close together'.
It just comes so naturally to him to talk about himself.
It 100% is HIS home. He obviously makes all the decisions.
Can't Sarah see how utterly self obsessed he is? And then making out that SHE is with the photo?
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Is this on his YouTube? The only house tour/Reno video I can see on his channel is 3 months old, it’s his office renovation and tour??
 
emm said:
the latest Q&A, he apparently uses "my kid" just to annoy people online... yeh I am sure that is true, he has been using it forever.I don't care what he calls their child, I feel badfor Sarah tbh. Especially his assertion that he doesn't want Margot to be an only child, if I was Sarah after such a difficult pregnancy I don't know if I would be so excited to do it again, which he doesn't seem to address at all
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He uses it because he's a narcissist. 🤢
 
Bloomie3 said:
I just watched that Lick video. Wow. Jim Chapman is an archetypal mansplainer who loves the sound of his own voice. He did a whole explanation on how they chose Margot’s bedroom and it was so mundane and unnecessary I can’t believe they included it in the final cut.
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I watched it yesterday, my goodness he’s so self absorbed isn’t he, everything is me, me, me. ‘I bought this house’ ‘ I chose these colours’ ‘I decided this’ there’s no mention of Sarah whatsoever, she’s just a third wheel in Jim’s ‘relationship’ with Margot, why on earth you’d insist on painting your house in different shades of a colour your partner hates us beyond me, and putting her through the stress of a big Reno whilst pregnant was unbelievably selfish. He seriously pissed me off when he was making passive aggressive comments about the beautiful photo of her and Margot that Sarah gifted him for Xmas, saying it was weird to gift someone a photo of yourself, how about shutting the duck up and just saying thank you to your partner? Literally everything about him just makes me cringe, he’s just an entitled, narcissistic hole. I hope Margot friends stay the hell away from him when she’s older. He’s a grade A creep
 
Is Jim...planning a film about Martha? :unsure::ROFLMAO:
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FraggleRock said:
I watched it yesterday, my goodness he’s so self absorbed isn’t he, everything is me, me, me. ‘I bought this house’ ‘ I chose these colours’ ‘I decided this’ there’s no mention of Sarah whatsoever, she’s just a third wheel in Jim’s ‘relationship’ with Margot, why on earth you’d insist on painting your house in different shades of a colour your partner hates us beyond me, and putting her through the stress of a big Reno whilst pregnant was unbelievably selfish. He seriously pissed me off when he was making passive aggressive comments about the beautiful photo of her and Margot that Sarah gifted him for Xmas, saying it was weird to gift someone a photo of yourself, how about shutting the duck up and just saying thank you to your partner? Literally everything about him just makes me cringe, he’s just an entitled, narcissistic hole. I hope Margot friends stay the hell away from him when she’s older. He’s a grade A creep
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I bet he once gifted a photo of himself to Tanya and she didn't appreciate it as much as he expected and now he does the same to Sarah.
 
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