It's such a strange sentiment. Yes, babies can be hard work, pregnancies can be hard, and life in general is really hard especially right now for A LOT of people who aren't anywhere near as privileged as these two are. BUT hard things shared with your person and approached with love can still have joyful moments, lightness, laughter, kindness and connection. These things are sometimes made even more poignant because of the struggle, light moments in darkness shine all the brighter. Think of all the other people sharing an anniversary today. Couples who maybe can't make ends meet, those who might be feeding themselves and their children from food banks, working every hour they can get in jobs that don't pay enough and worrying about their future. I'd bet most of those couples could muster up more love, connection and genuine affection in their real strife than these two can in their privileged struggles created by their own hands. They don't know the meaning of stress or of love by the looks of it. They're both as distasteful as ever.