Jessontheplussize #43 Boring content, what a life. Brother/sister or husband/wife?

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Diddikins said:
Do you think people in her life tiptoe around it? Like “don’t mention weight in front of Jess”. Because if we can see how much she’s gained, the people close to her will be able to see it too.
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But everyone around her (well her immediate family) is + size so it's like it's just the norm for her so I don't think anyone says a word! Remember a few years back Milli made a real.effort he was cycling a lot & she just belittled him 😡
 
traceymrsd said:
But everyone around her (well her immediate family) is + size so it's like it's just the norm for her so I don't think anyone says a word! Remember a few years back Milli made a real.effort he was cycling a lot & she just belittled him 😡
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Yeah I remember that. He was doing really well. I bet she’s a mean girl on the sly and wouldn’t compliment her friend if they’d lost a lot of weight, knowing full well they’d been trying to.
 
traceymrsd said:
But everyone around her (well her immediate family) is + size so it's like it's just the norm for her so I don't think anyone says a word! Remember a few years back Milli made a real.effort he was cycling a lot & she just belittled him 😡
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Oh I must have followed her then. To be fair even just a few months ago I thought he’d lost quite a bit of weight but he’s piled it on since cutting his hours at work.
 
Tiny-T said:
Lass is a walking contradiction. I can guarantee if she ever does lose weight it’ll be constantly mentioned on her stories.
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I think she's dug herself into a hole and is only digging deeper as she continues getting bigger to stay plus size. She's got no purpose or routine to her day and she'll find it incredibly hard getting back into the workplace if things go tits up with "me klloekshun" and the big money earners. A woman cannot survive on gifted giant cheesecake, can she?!
 
She has so much to say without saying anything at all, doesn't she? Three of four 2 minute stories talking about weight and I still don't get her issue or point?

Some people prefer not to hear the positives or the negatives when they lose or gain and that's up to them but you can't expect others not to comment or wellwish when you so often flaunt your body/size/shape and the way you dress it! She's an influencer at the end of the day and a unique shape so people will inevitably comment. She needs a harsh dose of reality as she is grotesquely obese and over the years, we've watched her become so unhealthy that it's worrying she is blind to it!
 
Silentwhisper13 said:
She has so much to say without saying anything at all, doesn't she? Three of four 2 minute stories talking about weight and I still don't get her issue or point?

Some people prefer not to hear the positives or the negatives when they lose or gain and that's up to them but you can't expect others not to comment or wellwish when you so often flaunt your body/size/shape and the way you dress it! She's an influencer at the end of the day and a unique shape so people will inevitably comment. She needs a harsh dose of reality as she is grotesquely obese and over the years, we've watched her become so unhealthy that it's worrying she is blind to it!
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What made me laugh was the comment along the lines of weight shouldn’t be mentioned full stop but her handle and what makes her money is Jess on the plus size.
 
Tiny-T said:
What made me laugh was the comment along the lines of weight shouldn’t be mentioned full stop but her handle and what makes her money is Jess on the plus size.
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100%. She has made a damn good living from her size/weight. Does anyone really think she’d have the following she has if she was in straight sizes? I think everyone on here originally followed her because she was plus sized and showcasing some nice outfits for people of a similar size to her.
 
Jess's mum used to be alot bigger than Jess, now Jess is alot bigger than her mum. I think Jess hates been the biggest person in her family and I bet she snaps at anyone who ever mentions weight issues because she has a serious issue with her weight. Because Jess is small in height the more weight she is gaining the more round she is looking! 😳

The irony of it all is she could use her platform to get help i e a trainer, more fitness things, possibly gifted gym membership and probably free weight loss surgery. I think the reason she doesn't and won't even discuss weight is because she won't or hasn't sorted out the issue in her head that causes her to have an overeating disorder in the forest place.
 
Liam from ITS has done a post about his weight loss journey and guess who’s commented?
Thing is can she herself say she’s genuinely happy and healthy? She might be happy some of the time (mainly when she’s eating) but you definitely can’t say she’s healthy.
 

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PrincessJeanie said:
Liam from ITS has done a post about his weight loss journey and guess who’s commented?
Thing is can she herself say she’s genuinely happy and healthy? She might be happy some of the time (mainly when she’s eating) but you definitely can’t say she’s healthy.
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I don’t think she’s happy. If she was, those comments wouldn’t have affected her as much as they clearly did. And as for healthy, well. For someone who gained attention from being fitter at a size 22 than her slimmer friends, she can’t say that anymore. She gets out of breath putting her shoes on. Jess’ world had become so small and she’s just going to get bigger and bigger if she refuses to address her weight. As I said a few days back, she’ll look up and ask advice on all these symptoms and illnesses but never addresses the thing that is causing her the most issues.

On another note - is the getting out of breath trying on clothes the reason she does her try ons with the music, stupid faces and mouthing the words? So people don’t hear her gasping for breath putting a t shirt on?
 
Diddikins said:
I don’t think she’s happy. If she was, those comments wouldn’t have affected her as much as they clearly did. And as for healthy, well. For someone who gained attention from being fitter at a size 22 than her slimmer friends, she can’t say that anymore. She gets out of breath putting her shoes on. Jess’ world had become so small and she’s just going to get bigger and bigger if she refuses to address her weight. As I said a few days back, she’ll look up and ask advice on all these symptoms and illnesses but never addresses the thing that is causing her the most issues.

On another note - is the getting out of breath trying on clothes the reason she does her try ons with the music, stupid faces and mouthing the words? So people don’t hear her gasping for breath putting a t shirt on?
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Agree completely with everything you've said 💯

I never thought about that as the reason why she has the sound off but you could be spot on! I see lux doing the same too - it looks so stupid & the exaggerated "cinching" or "it's got pockets" etc annoy the duck out of me - I know that may sound irrational to some but if you are trying to tell me how amazing a piece of clothing is tell me about the material, the fit etc
 
Imagine being so deluded that you think people who have lost weight only look better because they're more confident and its nothing to do with the actual weight loss.
Even though with weight loss comes exercise, more endorphins, usually a good diet which can bring better skin, hair and general health. Then the actual loss of fat which absolutely makes people look better (if they were previously overweight or obese). But nah its just their energy 😂😂.
That's what happens when you live in an echo chamber of body positivity and free cake.
 
Is her mum smaller than her? I thought the mum looked pretty huge too. Millie initially did lose some weight but appears to have piled it all plus more back on lately.
 
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