Jessontheplussize #43 Boring content, what a life. Brother/sister or husband/wife?

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I hate the whole “lose weight” thing for every single ailment but she is now morbidly obese that she has to address. I’m overweight and have 2 complex long term health problems so I’m well versed in the “lose weight” thing from drs but she really needs to address the elephant in the room (literally) I have no idea whether her not having children has any impact on perimenopause and I’m not gonna pretend like I know loads about it, cos I don’t - maybe someone more knowledgable can tell me- but there’s a number of factors at play that are causing this “anxiety/content”
 
Purplebananas said:
I hate the whole “lose weight” thing for every single ailment but she is now morbidly obese that she has to address. I’m overweight and have 2 complex long term health problems so I’m well versed in the “lose weight” thing from drs but she really needs to address the elephant in the room (literally) I have no idea whether her not having children has any impact on perimenopause and I’m not gonna pretend like I know loads about it, cos I don’t - maybe someone more knowledgable can tell me- but there’s a number of factors at play that are causing this “anxiety/content”
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Whilst I know you most likely mean well, the shady rhetoric around childless women is as prevalent as the 'lose weight for every ailment' you mention. It's an easy out, it doesn't get mentioned to childless men, and it's nobody else's business. I'm not her biggest fan, but I draw the line at her making a choice to not have kids be the reason she has a bad perimenopause and/or anxiety.
 
I’m balls deep in perimenopause and have learnt lots about it and haven’t once come across anything that links never having given birth to a worse/ better experience.

Has she any other symptoms at all apart from sitting in her car not able to move because of bone-idleness anxiety? I’d give it a bit more time before running off to the GP (who will probably tell her to duck off for at least another ten years)
 
Diddikins said:
This is just another whim for her. She hears a term, looks it up on the internet, does a couple of stories (maybe an aff link depending on what it is) and then it never gets mentioned again. like those weird blood test things she was shilling a while back.
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Absolutely - she’s jumping on the peri meno bandwagon now for content because she knows it’s a hot topic and has never been as talked about as it is now so any question boxes/polls will be heavily responded to and therefore more engagement for her. She’s so transparent!
 
The whole peri/menopause thing with infleuncers just pisses me off. Whilst I am tha full it's being talked about more in the last few years, as I am the exact age this affects, every woman over 30 seems to reckon she's in peri. There's a list of something like 80 symptoms to do with menopause and most of them are really vague. There's going to be a lot of conditions missed because they are so desperate to jump on the menopause bandwagon.

It's good it's not a taboo subject and leading to women feeling worthless and past it, but it seems now to be trendy and everyone wants in. It's not a cool hobby that you can join in with, it can be a really difficult part of life.
 
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It’s a bit of a double-edged sword, isn’t it? On the one hand, it’s absolutely great that more people are talking about menopause. Information is definitely power here. But on the other hand, you’ve got influencers pushing all sorts of supplements and dickheads like Jess jumping on the peri bandwagon at the drop of a hat.
 
Loobloo said:
Whilst I know you most likely mean well, the shady rhetoric around childless women is as prevalent as the 'lose weight for every ailment' you mention. It's an easy out, it doesn't get mentioned to childless men, and it's nobody else's business. I'm not her biggest fan, but I draw the line at her making a choice to not have kids be the reason she has a bad perimenopause and/or anxiety.
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You’ve absolutely taken what I meant out of context- I have no idea whether the impact of birthing children affects periods/hormones and all the rest of it, just like I have PCOS and have no idea whether this impacts it either- hence me saying someone more knowledgeable may be able to enlighten me 😬
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What is with all the milkmaid outfits? You know she’s sending all of these back.
 

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Purplebananas said:
You’ve absolutely taken what I meant out of context- I have no idea whether the impact of birthing children affects periods/hormones and all the rest of it, just like I have PCOS and have no idea whether this impacts it either- hence me saying someone more knowledgeable may be able to enlighten me 😬
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What is with all the milkmaid outfits? You know she’s sending all of these back.
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I don't think it was taken out of context, I think it was poorly written on your behalf.
 
Purplebananas said:
You’ve absolutely taken what I meant out of context- I have no idea whether the impact of birthing children affects periods/hormones and all the rest of it, just like I have PCOS and have no idea whether this impacts it either- hence me saying someone more knowledgeable may be able to enlighten me 😬
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What is with all the milkmaid outfits? You know she’s sending all of these back.
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Do we think she looks for the worst / most hideous dresses for these try on hauls 🫣 as she clearly has no intention of keeping any of them - what with her anxiety about leaving the house 😉
 
Purplebananas said:
I live in the north east, yes it’s a nice sunny day- it’s 18 degrees. I’ve just cleaned my whole house and didn’t sweat like she is dicking around in her OOTD. Coach sandals and Marc Jacobs bag……ITS is clearly paying off! Unless she’s been on Hacoo……..
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Nah she gets them as freebies from AllSole and MyBag.

I hate those denim skirts on most people but they look even worse on her.
 
Purplebananas said:
I live in the north east, yes it’s a nice sunny day- it’s 18 degrees. I’ve just cleaned my whole house and didn’t sweat like she is dicking around in her OOTD. Coach sandals and Marc Jacobs bag……ITS is clearly paying off! Unless she’s been on Hacoo……..
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I was just about to say I’ve had shorts on the last couple of days, today I’ve put trousers on as I think it’s actually cooler. She won’t admit because of her size she’s sweating just getting ready. That skirt does absolutely nothing for it! Looks like it’s cutting her in two.
 
Get ready for an aff link when she finds her face sweat cream 🙄 I don’t always see her stories but has she mentioned ITS at all lately? I know they’ve massively cut down on all their collab collections but it’s been over 2 months since her last one launched (swimwear) and the fact she is their only plus size collab seems a bit strange.
 
Tiny-T said:
I was just about to say I’ve had shorts on the last couple of days, today I’ve put trousers on as I think it’s actually cooler. She won’t admit because of her size she’s sweating just getting ready. That skirt does absolutely nothing for it! Looks like it’s cutting her in two.
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Yep agree & as much as I don't mind the top - all I can see is her bra 🫣 it looks awful
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PrincessJeanie said:
Get ready for an aff link when she finds her face sweat cream 🙄 I don’t always see her stories but has she mentioned ITS at all lately? I know they’ve massively cut down on all their collab collections but it’s been over 2 months since her last one launched (swimwear) and the fact she is their only plus size collab seems a bit strange.
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Nope no mention of ITS at all lately
 
PrincessJeanie said:
Get ready for an aff link when she finds her face sweat cream 🙄 I don’t always see her stories but has she mentioned ITS at all lately? I know they’ve massively cut down on all their collab collections but it’s been over 2 months since her last one launched (swimwear) and the fact she is their only plus size collab seems a bit strange.
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You were spot on about the afflink - doesn't she moan about the fluctuating price of that face sweat cream every once in a while???
 
mee43 said:
There was almost one a week at one point!! A massive fall off in output.
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The last actual shoot she did was in Greece so end of May/start of June. That’s a long time for her especially. They’ve definitely cut back on all the collections. Saying that Jac Jossa has still had 3 out since Jess’s last one so something is definitely amiss.
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traceymrsd said:
You were spot on about the afflink - doesn't she moan about the fluctuating price of that face sweat cream every once in a while???
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She’s so predictable with all her content. Everything she mentions you know it’s just an excuse for her to do an aff link for it later in the day 🤦🏻‍♀️
 
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