I'm wondering at what point exactly she stopped planning her dream (rebound) wedding and started realizing that she doesn't like to think about that, is not ready, doesnt want that to happen at all...
After the engagement she mentioned the wedding planning a couple of times and then we never heard her mention it again.
Another thing is, at what point did Verity start suspecting Donkey was very bad news...? Because it wasn't immediate. Niomi's family did somehow make their way to Ireland for that engagement. If they had hated him then already they wouldn't have gone to his family house. I think that's when they start to see through him more and more.
We are still missing a coherent timeline of this disaster!
Honestly, there were predictions of how long they would even stay together, but I surely didn't think she was such a coward. And ungrateful grifter after feeding off of all the social media attention for years and years and not one honest word of explanation in months.