Soph if you read here then get rid of that bleep you are intending to marry, he mentally abuses your son, I feel so sorry for Freddie, I wish this little lad would just tell his mother (use that term loosely) that he wants to go live with his dad, my heart hurts for that little boy, it’s beyond a joke when people who don’t even know him can see how miserable he really is, it stays with you for life, my uncle used to mentally abuse me as a kid & physically too by ‘play fighting’ but it hurt sometimes, his excuse was he was setting me up to defend for myself, telling my mum was useless as she would say I needed to stop canting all the time & he doesn’t mean it.
You can see the sadness in his eyes it's heartbreaking. I hope Fred's dad side see these messages and take action.