Lazarus
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Im hearing you on the MH, dear heart. I remember once being in a crisis and my partner forcing me to come out for a walk with the dog just to get away from the four walls that were closing in on me. About half way along our road, in the dark and heavy rain I could not walk any further and sat on the pavement, I felt in crisis, I didn’t know what to do or how to move on from those feelings. A police car passed and I just wanted it to stop and for them to help me in one way or another. Thankful that I was able to have some kind of recovery and grateful for the support of others.No words to fully respond, but when I was in Iceland (not the country as some people on another thread thought- they don’t know me yet ) the other day, the yellow stickered items were going free at the end of the day.
It is obviously being done to reduce food waste and assist those in most need. The bread could have been frozen and the fruit didn’t look as bad as some of the stuff I see being sold for full price in (one of the 3 ) Tesco expresses.
For Jack to think that she is in the same position as those who need to rely on the free yellow stickered food in Iceland is just horrific. Her house is filled with stuff that, if you tot it up is worth a fortune. If she has chosen spend her money on that and hats and spoons rather than food then that is entirely up to her. But she should not be sad fishing about it on the internet for money.
Finally, I just cannot put up with her trivialising mental health conditions anymore. When you are really struggling with any kind of MH condition, you do not make light of it. It is systematically ruining your life. It is making you reevaluate what you thought you would be capable of doing. It is making you think and behave differently . You cannot reduce these disorders to a simple cause as she so often does, you cannot make light of them and imply they can be alleviated by “fuel tank theory” and doing 5 out of 9 things each day.
She had no idea and continues to do more and more damage.
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This was meant to be a short post. I apologise. We have a slight smoke alarm issue similar to phoebs going on and I am stressed.
Are we to expect her in an hour?
ETA- sorry for the delayed thank you for the thread sidey B.
At no time during those dark periods did I ever contemplate making light of the situation for the fake sympathy of strangers on the internet. Nor have I chosen to revisit it (mining your own trauma as Jack called it for her Guardian piece that never happened) for any other reason.
It was a horrible time in my life and many others have experienced much, much worse than me.
She is shameless. There are many comparisons between her behaviour and some of the gaslighting I witnessed when watching the Savile doc on Netflix.
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