Itsdaniellesjourney #9 Thick thighs, dead behind the eyes, everything she sees she buys

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How can she possibly afford to spend so much money on clothes? I’ve had to buy a new wardrobe this year as I’ve lost a lot of weight (4 stone of baby weight and being a greedy fat pig in lockdown) and literally nothing fits me. I’ve bought things that I know I can rewear next year and over and over but it’s still cost a small fortune. I honestly don’t know how she affords it all?!
 
How can she possibly afford to spend so much money on clothes? I’ve had to buy a new wardrobe this year as I’ve lost a lot of weight (4 stone of baby weight and being a greedy fat pig in lockdown) and literally nothing fits me. I’ve bought things that I know I can rewear next year and over and over but it’s still cost a small fortune. I honestly don’t know how she affords it all?!

She has a well paid job and no kids, I dunno what chesney does but I’m assuming that well paid too. Plus affiliate links pay well apparently
 
How can she possibly afford to spend so much money on clothes? I’ve had to buy a new wardrobe this year as I’ve lost a lot of weight (4 stone of baby weight and being a greedy fat pig in lockdown) and literally nothing fits me. I’ve bought things that I know I can rewear next year and over and over but it’s still cost a small fortune. I honestly don’t know how she affords it all?!
I think they work for the same company as me and given she is a mortgage adviser and I think he’s a branch manager from what people have previously said I reckon they are on 75-80k a year between them, their mortgage will almost all (if not all) be on staff rate which is peanuts at the moment due to the BOE base rate and they have no children to pay for. I know that’s why I have so much disposable income anyway 🤣
 
She's blaming lockdown for her weight gain but if you go back to last year she was a hell of a lot smaller. Unless they were clever pics. She was still wearing crop tops. Something is deffo going on with her lately. She's comfort eating and shopping more than ever. I think she's ultra miserable in that new house and has mega buyers remorse but after the way she harped on, she couldn't tell the truth now because she'd look a right dick.
 
What makes you think she has buyer's remorse?

I do think she seems very unhappy. She's trying to fill the void with the shopping all the time, but she never seems to enjoy anything very much!
 
I asked about the amount of fast fashion she buys each week. She said she doesn't buy it each week and sometimes goes months without and then does it a few times in a week. I said I was confused as she posts ads DAILY and she said she only posts what she has bought or has bought in the past. Makes zero sense to me but okay 😐
 
What makes you think she has buyer's remorse?

I do think she seems very unhappy. She's trying to fill the void with the shopping all the time, but she never seems to enjoy anything very much!
All she's done is moan and snipe about the house. She couldn't wait to get in there but the joy seemed to evaporate rather quickly. Obvs It is hard to read someone with one facial expression and monotone voice, but that's my gut instinct. She won't be staying there long term
 
All she's done is moan and snipe about the house. She couldn't wait to get in there but the joy seemed to evaporate rather quickly. Obvs It is hard to read someone with one facial expression and monotone voice, but that's my gut instinct. She won't be staying there long term
I know exactly what you mean! I feel like it's all just a symptom of her deep unhappiness and not knowing who she is. She's constantly looking for things to make her happy - the house, the holidays, the shopping - but nothing ever does.
 
I know exactly what you mean! I feel like it's all just a symptom of her deep unhappiness and not knowing who she is. She's constantly looking for things to make her happy - the house, the holidays, the shopping - but nothing ever does.
It's all way too try-hard, none of it flows like it did a couple of years ago. If I was going in deep I'd say she's changed as a person (as we all do in time) but she's clinging on to this old life and it's not working. This is why she's moaning about instagram instead of realising SHE is the one who is different

She's still a spoilt ungrateful dick though 🤣🤫
 
She has a well paid job and no kids, I dunno what chesney does but I’m assuming that well paid too. Plus affiliate links pay well apparently
I am in the same position as her with a well paid job and no kids (my mortgage prob costs more as we’re not in the north) but I couldn’t afford to shop like she does so all those af ads are clearly working… it actually annoys me
 
I am in the same position as her with a well paid job and no kids (my mortgage prob costs more as we’re not in the north) but I couldn’t afford to shop like she does so all those af ads are clearly working… it actually annoys me

Some above has said that between them they probably earn 75-80k a year, so even without the adds she could still probably afford all her fast fashion
 
It comes across to me that apart from Chesney she doesn’t really have any “best” friends. I’m in a similar position to her - decent wage and decent amount of disposable income, absolutely no desire or want to have children. all of my friends do have kids and it can be hard when you can be spontaneous with both time and money (although I make better decisions with what I spend on than she does 😂), whereas the people you would normally go out/do things with now have so many other things to consider. So she seems cut off from her friends and family - not seeing them all that often. Although that could be her choice. And it seems like Danielle has no interests of her own outside of binge watching tv and spending money. I don’t think I’ve ever seen her do anything on her own (besides get her nails done). Her life revolves around what she will buy next. It’s both fascinating and sad to watch. She has 3 full days a week off work and does the same things, in the same order.
 
I've said it before and I'll say it again - I think she's desperately unhappy. She's buying and spending to fill a void. She must dislike her job as she counts down the hours until she finishes every shift, but doesn't really do anything very rewarding or constructive outside work hours. Her biggest hobby seems to be having a bath.!

I think she's more miserable than ever since she moved house, so she's throwing everything at in the hope it will bring some happiness. I wonder what Chesney thinks? He at least seems to have a bit more of a life outside, even if it's just football, mates and xbox.

Only my two penneth and I'm no psychologist but just my hunch and it's rather sad.
 
How can she possibly afford to spend so much money on clothes? I’ve had to buy a new wardrobe this year as I’ve lost a lot of weight (4 stone of baby weight and being a greedy fat pig in lockdown) and literally nothing fits me. I’ve bought things that I know I can rewear next year and over and over but it’s still cost a small fortune. I honestly don’t know how she affords it all?!
She affiliate links everything she buys, which will pay for the items!
 
I agree with her not seeming happy and that’s why she’s buying. And the friends situation. She doesn’t seem to have a group or one best friend she does stuff with and previously she’d go out with her work mates. It’s like she has removed herself from everything and everyone by moving to Wakefield. I know the distance between Barnsley and Wakefield isn’t far but it’s far enough for her to not pop out for a coffee without planning it (we all know she loves to do that!). It seems like the olny thing she has in her Insta and that’s obviously dwindling. Maybe the grass isn’t greener 🤔
 
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