Thank you XxCongratulations @Superman1
10000% she would struggle so much. I live 4 hours from both sets of grandparents and my OH works 5-5, I work part time and I love it and we manage but some days are so hard. I love visiting the parents and letting them deal with the baby so I can chill. I’m currently up feeding my one year old who slept about 2 hours last night, so we can leave in 30 mins to go to the childminder before I work 7 hours in a school, I look like death and feel like I’m about to collapse but just gotta get on with it, wish my partner was here to look after her whilst I went back to bed lolSo I’m not the biggest Molly Mae (nothing against her just very indifferent) but her new “the truth” YouTube vid popped up on my suggestions so thought I’d give it a watch.
the way she talks about motherhood is so much more natural than Imo, she still says how much she loves it and how it’s come naturally to her but also mentions how tough it’s been. She’s had a lot of time on her own as Tommys been away for work & said how much easier it’s been since he’s home again.
It just makes me laugh at how much Imo complains about parenthood and how hard everything is and she has 0 idea how lucky she is to have Spencer at home 24/7. My husband took a week off for annual leave over Xmas and the DIFFERENCE to have someone watch the baby so you actually have time to get ready / someone else around to help just do day to day tit is mad.
she also has her brother / dad / mum around a lot of time too.
Having 2/3 adults to help look after one child is extremely privileged.. I do honestly think if she had to do a month alone with Ren and the house work etc & Spencer was out all day she would 1000000000% not cope at all. I’d love to see her talk about what a “natural mother” she is then.
It’s easy to say you find motherhood natural / easy when your husband does the lions share of it!
Why is she wearing one of the bags that a sleeping bag packs away into. She’s such a mess
She can't get Rens clothes right! Remember this time last year when it was warmer and they were still carrying her around in a pram suit in the carrier and the kid was sweating! Now it's cold she's in a cardigan and little shoesHer obsession with her bump is weird. There’s barely anything there.
It is a coincidence that she wants to exercise now that she is eating more?
None of Ren’s clothes are winter clothes. Poor kid must be freezing!
I think she reckons she looks too young to be a mum because she feels like a teenager. She doesn’t have any actual responsibilities like other Mums do like caring for her children, working, cooking, cleaning etc. She might feel/act like a 16 year old but those wrinkly eyes tell a different storyShe is obsessed with dressing like a teenager. Like Imo you’re old enough to have worn those tit 00s clothes the first time round… .
No wonder the child's ill all the time !She can't get Rens clothes right! Remember this time last year when it was warmer and they were still carrying her around in a pram suit in the carrier and the kid was sweating! Now it's cold she's in a cardigan and little shoes
it was all so dramatic as well, ren was just putting balls into a hole in the play area as any toddler does and imo was there saying “you did it, you’re amazing, that’s why.” like wtfHer latest tiktok of Ren playing... Does she want to shout any louder in her face?! She makes out she's talking and saying 'i did it' when all I heard were baby noises.
I found it highly amusing the amount of times she used the word 'magical' in her latest vlog, makes me cringe every time I hear it.
it was all so dramatic as well, ren was just putting balls into a hole in the play area as any toddler does and imo was there saying “you did it, you’re amazing, that’s why.” like wtf
i get that you have to praise children but she’s too much! acting like ren is the most empathetic () toddler to ever exist, just let her be a toddler!! why does everything the kid does have to mean something?!
“omg angels, renalien looked at a tree today and then nodded at it, i think on some level she just knows how important nature is and then she started saying ‘i love sustainability but not as much as i love mummy’s milk’ and omg huns i just cried of course ”
Ren is literally mimicking the sounds of “I did it” that Imo is SCREAMING in her face she’s not saying anything lmao.Her latest tiktok of Ren playing... Does she want to shout any louder in her face?! She makes out she's talking and saying 'i did it' when all I heard were baby noises.
I found it highly amusing the amount of times she used the word 'magical' in her latest vlog, makes me cringe every time I hear it.
it was all so dramatic as well, ren was just putting balls into a hole in the play area as any toddler does and imo was there saying “you did it, you’re amazing, that’s why.” like wtf
i get that you have to praise children but she’s too much! acting like ren is the most empathetic () toddler to ever exist, just let her be a toddler!! why does everything the kid does have to mean something?!
“omg angels, renalien looked at a tree today and then nodded at it, i think on some level she just knows how important nature is and then she started saying ‘i love sustainability but not as much as i love mummy’s milk’ and omg huns i just cried of course ”
I was thinking the same! My 10 month old does this. I must be a bad Mum thought because I don’t shout in her face and constantly tell her she’s clever or amazing, I just let her get on with it and learnAlso goes to show Imogen knows nothing about child development as she's about crying over renalia putting the ball in the hole at soft play thats a skill of a much much younger baby ! And her reaction seems like she's never done it before ?? Or maybe Imogen's never given her the opportunity to ..
My daughter is nearly 2 now but I'm sure she was doing this around 9/10 months , I know it makes me feel the same I never ignore her if she looks up at me whilst she's playing etc but if she's obviously concentrating on something I'll leave her and praise her afterwards it is hard because everytime your baby does anything you're so proud but you can't give them a god complexI was thinking the same! My 10 month old does this. I must be a bad Mum thought because I don’t shout in her face and constantly tell her she’s clever or amazing, I just let her get on with it and learn