I'm a Celebrity get Me out of Here 2023 #5

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I know this isn't the what I want to rant about thread but my husband is in bed so I can't talk to him :D
okay so the school mums have all arranged a curry and piss up night and I don't really see them as friends per sa they mostly ignore me the odd grunt hello so do I go and risk no one talking to me and getting into a downward slump that no one likes me and being in that mindset for a few days or should I bail while I still can to stop myself feeling like this?
 
Reality_tv_lover said:
I know this isn't the what I want to rant about thread but my husband is in bed so I can't talk to him :D
okay so the school mums have all arranged a curry and piss up night and I don't really see them as friends per sa they mostly ignore me the odd grunt hello so do I go and risk no one talking to me and getting into a downward slump that no one likes me and being in that mindset for a few days or should I bail while I still can to stop myself feeling like this?
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I say go for it. Go with the mindset of ‘you always regret the things you don’t do rather than the things you do do’. They must like you and appreciate your company to extend an invite to you, so I’m seeing that as a positive! Is there a group chat?
 
Going back to Fred and his Brexit chat. I've always thought how hard it is to gauge how well/badly brexit actually went because we had a huge global pandemic messing up the economy globally not long after!

It might have been even worse but it might have gone better and we will just never know really. Whether you voted leave/remain at least Nigel was passionate about his stance which is more than can be said for David Cameron who ran at the first sign of trouble 😂
 
Furrytriangle said:
I say go for it. Go with the mindset of ‘you always regret the things you don’t do rather than the things you do do’. They must like you and appreciate your company to extend an invite to you, so I’m seeing that as a positive! Is there a group chat?
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yes its all a group chat so it was everyone invited. At the kids parties they never talk to me and everytime i go i feel tit about myself that no one spoke to me and i feel I am just putting myself through unnecesary grief. the downward slump i feel after this lasts for days and its just a few days of feeling absolutely crap about myself and realising how lonely I truly am and I just don't want to do it to myself
 
Reality_tv_lover said:
yes its all a group chat so it was everyone invited. At the kids parties they never talk to me and everytime i go i feel tit about myself that no one spoke to me and i feel I am just putting myself through unnecesary grief. the downward slump i feel after this lasts for days and its just a few days of feeling absolutely crap about myself and realising how lonely I truly am and I just don't want to do it to myself
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Is there anybody in the group who is particularly kind? I’m just trying to see if there’s anyway I can think of making the situation better. They may all be absolute bellends, or maybe they just think ‘oh that reality_tv_lover is very quiet and keeps to herself’.
 
Furrytriangle said:
Is there anybody in the group who is particularly kind? I’m just trying to see if there’s anyway I can think of making the situation better. They may all be absolute bellends, or maybe they just think ‘oh that reality_tv_lover is very quiet and keeps to herself’.
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noo it's the opposite I called the homework bollocks and you could hear a penny drop honestly. I am far from quiet am very openly express my opinion on the homework which for year 1 is absolutely bollocks
 
Youonlyliveonce said:
Going back to Fred and his Brexit chat. I've always thought how hard it is to gauge how well/badly brexit actually went because we had a huge global pandemic messing up the economy globally not long after!

It might have been even worse but it might have gone better and we will just never know really. Whether you voted leave/remain at least Nigel was passionate about his stance which is more than can be said for David Cameron who ran at the first sign of trouble 😂
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See, those are interesting points and could make for great questioning. Unfortunately I don’t think anyone in there is going to actually ask questions, they just like making sweeping statements - I thought Grace might initially, and I thought they could have had a semi-productive chat about it, but now when I hear someone try to rile up Farage I get bored.
 
Reality_tv_lover said:
yes its all a group chat so it was everyone invited. At the kids parties they never talk to me and everytime i go i feel tit about myself that no one spoke to me and i feel I am just putting myself through unnecesary grief. the downward slump i feel after this lasts for days and its just a few days of feeling absolutely crap about myself and realising how lonely I truly am and I just don't want to do it to myself
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I wouldn’t bother. Don’t waste your time spending it with people who don’t make you happy x
 
Furrytriangle said:
Is there anybody in the group who is particularly kind? I’m just trying to see if there’s anyway I can think of making the situation better. They may all be absolute bellends, or maybe they just think ‘oh that reality_tv_lover is very quiet and keeps to herself’.
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I wouldn't bother.

I have been there, and found it utterly boring.
I was a working mum and so never hung around the school gates, so was never in with the clichés... with the SAHMs.

I suggest you stay at home and watch I'm a Celeb with a big bag of skittles and a glass of wine or whatever floats your boat 🤔

PS. Nothing against SAHMs, I was one too at one stage...
 
Reality_tv_lover said:
yes its all a group chat so it was everyone invited. At the kids parties they never talk to me and everytime i go i feel tit about myself that no one spoke to me and i feel I am just putting myself through unnecesary grief. the downward slump i feel after this lasts for days and its just a few days of feeling absolutely crap about myself and realising how lonely I truly am and I just don't want to do it to myself
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My advice …don’t go!!!
I say this in hindsight my children are older I tried/ went to evenings etc out with a group of Mum’s I never really fitted in and now realise they never really liked me tbh it was a relief the day I realised this xx
 
Flowergirl14 said:
I wouldn't bother.

I have been there, and found it utterly boring.
I was a working mum and so never hung around the school gates, so was never in with the clicks (sp?)... with the SAHMs.

I suggest you stay at home and watch I'm a Celeb with a big bag of skittles and a glass of wine or whatever 🤔

PS. Nothing against SAHMs, I was one too at one stage...
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I don't drink unfortunately 😂
 
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