Popcornstein
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Even narcs can behave like normal people, so not everything he does or says is narcissistic or wrong, but what they are is manipulative and liars, so once you realise what they are you can't really trust any behaviour.
What he said there to Owen was classic. Owen rightly called him out about stealing the banana and he threw it right back at him making Owen wrongly feel bad and completely shutting him down. Narcs hate being called out and are the biggest protectionists out there.
I'm not trying to argue but I really just don't buy into this 'narc' bandwagon. You're not even speaking like he's a person - 'narcs can behave like normal people' - as though because someone had exhibited behaviour that could be considered narcissistic that it invalidates any other facet of their persona as false because they can only be considered as one thing? So even if they're nice, they're not really nice, or kind, it's not real kindness, or of they're sad, they're not really sad, or whatever? He seemed pretty well liked by everyone in the camp. I just don't think he was actually all that disagreeable in there.