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Mustard said:
And yet she says she turns the heating off when the children aren’t there. I presume her husband’s salary pays for the school fees. It’s also likely heebsubsidises her rent. If you were really financially constrained you would not have your children at private schools. But she’s still whinging about how she wished she had stayed in the United States.
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I don't take issue with her husband paying school fees if that is what they want for their children. I moved to London when my eldest two children were babies and both my husband and me are from another European country where private education is really not the daily norm at all but London is very different so I can understand why they may have made this decision. However complaining about being poor against this context is kind of shameful. Also I don't live near her but London is full of buses so you definitely don't need a car to go one mile to school.
 
There are loads of good state primaries near where she lives. We use one quite happily! And there is no bus route that takes her from her house to the schools, this is true. But her walk/cycle is through a lovely bit of London. It used to be through a park.

I do refer back to my first post on this thread that it’s just ludicrous that I know all that.
 
Affiliatemebaby said:
There are loads of good state primaries near where she lives. We use one quite happily! And there is no bus route that takes her from her house to the schools, this is true. But her walk/cycle is through a lovely bit of London. It used to be through a park.

I do refer back to my first post on this thread that it’s just ludicrous that I know all that.
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I personally don’t know the exact schools her children go to but I can guess. She referenced one closer to her house that she’d like her son to attend but said it wasn’t up to her. I do know which one that is. I think that means that Hungerdada pays the school fees.
 
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Someone else here who lives near HM and was able to identify her daughter in the school playground based on Instagram posts. I also messaged her with support and had no response...

The discussion of her maybe having had an affair with a school dad jogged my memory of this blog post: https://hungermama.com/chatter-metoo/
Cover for an affair or a genuine assault that upset the balance of her marriage maybe?
 
Tootymcfroot said:
Someone else here who lives near HM and was able to identify her daughter in the school playground based on Instagram posts. I also messaged her with support and had no response...

The discussion of her maybe having had an affair with a school dad jogged my memory of this blog post: https://hungermama.com/chatter-metoo/
Cover for an affair or a genuine assault that upset the balance of her marriage maybe?
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That post related to two different instances. I welcome her wanting to call out men who do things like this, but I think, in retrospect that she should have gone to the police about the first one. I wouldn't be able to live with the feelings she described of being worried about running into the one who assaulted her. It's still not too late. I wonder why she stopped her husband from saying anything. Regarding the later incident, I would have found other people and called attention to what he had done. There are always going to be pricks like that around, unfortunately.

If you read the post about her justification for posting her kids online, at least she removed one of her daughter sitting on a potty in a park, BUT, it should never have been there in the first place! She can still meet other people via Instagram, but she doesn’t need to be posting her children’s faces in order to do so.
 
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Had to pop in with some info.

Bethie does not care about being accessible. I sent her a nice message asking if she could caption her stories as they’re not accessible and you can’t engage in them if you’re hard of hearing.

She said she couldn’t because she talks too much and it would take a long time so I suggested she use Clipomatic app. She hasn’t done it, despite saying she wants to be accessible and it only taking two seconds. I messaged her to ask if she actually does want to be accessible and she said she does but she’s been too busy. Too busy to not be an ableist apparently 🤦🏻‍♀️

If I get blocked on insta now then we’ll know she reads here 😂
 
fred1998 said:
Had to pop in with some info.

Bethie does not care about being accessible. I sent her a nice message asking if she could caption her stories as they’re not accessible and you can’t engage in them if you’re hard of hearing.

She said she couldn’t because she talks too much and it would take a long time so I suggested she use Clipomatic app. She hasn’t done it, despite saying she wants to be accessible and it only taking two seconds. I messaged her to ask if she actually does want to be accessible and she said she does but she’s been too busy. Too busy to not be an ableist apparently 🤦🏻‍♀️

If I get blocked on insta now then we’ll know she reads here 😂
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fred1998 said:
Had to pop in with some info.

Bethie does not care about being accessible. I sent her a nice message asking if she could caption her stories as they’re not accessible and you can’t engage in them if you’re hard of hearing.

She said she couldn’t because she talks too much and it would take a long time so I suggested she use Clipomatic app. She hasn’t done it, despite saying she wants to be accessible and it only taking two seconds. I messaged her to ask if she actually does want to be accessible and she said she does but she’s been too busy. Too busy to not be an ableist apparently 🤦🏻‍♀️

If I get blocked on insta now then we’ll know she reads here 😂
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Sorry to hear that. It doesn’t surprise me, sadly.

I noticed that one of the friends she is meeting with Estherbabyccino, Kimbaarda, another Dutch woman who used to live in London, has several complaints addressed to her, on her Insta account, about not receiving clothing that they had paid for. She had a blog at one time about a house she had renovated in Peckham. The link to it is in her account. @kimbaarda

Mustard said:
Sorry to hear that. It doesn’t surprise me, sadly. At least she recognises that she talks to much, but she obviously doesn’t care.

I noticed that one of the friends she is meeting with Estherbabyccino, Kimbaarda, another Dutch woman who used to live in London, has several complaints addressed to her, on her Insta account, about not receiving clothing that they had paid for. She had a blog at one time about a house she had renovated in Peckham. The link to it is in her account. @kimbaarda
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I feel guilty because I've been making negative assumptions about the husband, in part due to one of her posts describing similarities to her mom escaping an abusive early marriage. I figured her husband was either a) alcoholic, b) abusive, and/or c) cheating on her. It sounds from what you all are saying that SHE was the one who cheated. That kind of makes sense in hindsight - if he was the one who was abusive or transgressed, then you would think that she could make a good case about taking the kids back to the States, but if she's the one at fault, then she doesn't really have a leg to stand on. I do wish the best for all involved, especially the kids. And what's this about a broken leg and a bike accident???? Didn't hear about this.
 
Peckhamparasite said:
Apparently none of the other mums like her. Now I wonder why that could be!
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Which other mums? I can imagine her wanting to be the centre of attention in most situations, which could be extremely irritating.

Quick, everyone rush to the Babyccino shop-up as they are selling tshirts that say London Mama on them. It’s on tomorrow and Monday. As advertised by @estherbabyccino.
 
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Clazza said:
God this woman loves the sounds of her own voice!

I unfollowed HM a long time ago as I found her self-absorbed and pretentious. Having read this thread my previous suspicions have been confirmed - she's a drama loving, egotistical, fame-hungry wannabe. She properly grinds my gears!!
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I followed her after MODgate. I lasted about three days before I had to unfollow.
 
I also sent her a DM back in the day when she had 18k followers and was crying about missing home- no reply.

Her daughter's school is identifiable because she's also posted pictures in her school uniform. (The dad also took a selfie outside the front entrance).

It was sad to read she has been sexually assaulted and no woman deserves that.
 
rainbowlemon said:
I also sent her a DM back in the day when she had 18k followers and was crying about missing home- no reply.

Her daughter's school is identifiable because she's also posted pictures in her school uniform. (The dad also took a selfie outside the front entrance).

It was sad to read she has been sexually assaulted and no woman deserves that.
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At least her husband set his Instagram account to private but he only did that this year. And, he’s a lawyer!

I noticed HM’s friend Kimbaarda, had sons at Dulwich Prep London when they lived here and posted many, many pictures of her sons. She too appears to be separated from her husband, as is Nina Weinreich, another of HM’s friends.

I’m not familiar with the fee paying school uniforms as I could never afford to pay to send my children to one.
 
Hungermama is obsessed with wooden clogs, as per stories from the Babyccino pop up. I do not understand the love for them. Why would you want to walk in blocks of wood? I had some as a teenager and liked them then, but having tried some on again in the last year or two, I just cannot get on with them.
 
I don't understand the clogs obsession either and I am DUTCH :)
She has been very candid about her fight with her husband in stories today and paints quite a bad picture.
 
mamaCP123 said:
I don't understand the clogs obsession either and I am DUTCH :)
She has been very candid about her fight with her husband in stories today and paints quite a bad picture.
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I watched the stories too, and felt like she was over sharing again. Way too much info. It seemed as if she was trying to portray herself as the bigger person at the end. That was a conversation that should have been had with a close friend, or her mother. I’m still wondering why she moved out, and not him.
 
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