I'm very lucky that I'm over the first, very difficult, hurdle of having an offer accepted on a flat - hooray!
However I'm a FTB, buying on my own and I'm finding the whole process now with the solicitors very overwhelming as I've got no one to really share the load with.. The amount of money involved (I'm not pushing my affordability, it's just the thought of being is so much debt for so many years, and worrying about what would I do if XYZ happens...), then the detail that is in all these attachments that keep getting sent over to me, the things that have been highlighted in the survey and searches. The ground rent is unfair, so I'm going to try and negotiate on that, plus I've been advised to organise various things to get serviced to check they're in working order.
I'm trying to keep a cool head, and not get too stressed, and just get things ticked off the list... but the pressure from the EA (who I can't stand but as I liked the flat obviously had no choice) plus trying to figure out who I'm going to get to do all these things that need to be done, I'm just finding quite tricky.
I don't want to sound insensitive to people who are on this thread that are struggling to find somewhere, or even get on the ladder in the first place, but is anyone else in a similar position - buying on your own and trying to muddle your way through it?