Homewithshan #5 Her man's left the army, but is nowhere in sight. Still solo-parenting, god her life's sh..

[graceanatomy]

as if she chose to go to the other side of France on purpose. Either Ash had something there work related and she decided to join him for the weekend or she got some freebies. I'd be surprised if it was the latter as we would all know by now.

In her vlog I think she said something like they were just going to stay in a hotel nearby where they live but then they looked and the flight to France was only 30 quid or something so they thought why not. I think she thought it would sound ~glamorous~ or something just flying out to France for a night ... unfortunately for her she is anything but glamorous

 

[minalina]

i think this has been mentioned before but, there is no point not showing your kids faces when you exploit them in every other way. talking about development, long thumbs??? medical issues.

yes yes and yes!! It’s so obviously not her decision that she doesn’t show their faces, because if she cared one jot about their privacy then she wouldn’t be sharing their medical info and stuff about their toileting habits. It’s just so insincere.

 

[cosmicstar]

In her vlog I think she said something like they were just going to stay in a hotel nearby where they live but then they looked and the flight to France was only 30 quid or something so they thought why not. I think she thought it would sound ~glamorous~ or something just flying out to France for a night ... unfortunately for her she is anything but glamorous

Oh God. So she basically looked at where was the cheapest place they could possibly fly to, didn't plan a thing, and just had dinner there? I hope Shan didnt plan other peoples holidays when she was a PA because I feel truly sorry for them now!

If this is Shan's response to our multiple comments about how they never go away, its a pretty lame one!


Also, considering how much money she claims she makes and how well she budgets, why did the go to the cheapest possible place they could find? what an odd approach to holiday planning. Most people have a 'bucket list' of places they want to go to. Do her budgeting skills not stretch to budgeting a couple decent holidays a year?!
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In her vlog I think she said something like they were just going to stay in a hotel nearby where they live but then they looked and the flight to France was only 30 quid or something so they thought why not. I think she thought it would sound ~glamorous~ or something just flying out to France for a night ... unfortunately for her she is anything but glamorous

I bet you flying to Paris wasnt too much more expensive but she probably didnt want to pay for a hotel there

 

[VirgoGossip]

She really missed the boat on getting good content from her Paris trip. Lot's of people would click on a video that was called 'Spend x hours in Paris with me' or something along those lines, because they would be interested to see what you can get up to in such a short space of time and may want to do the same. But, as usual, Shan's lack of talent when it comes to being a content creator let her down. Considering she so very obviously wants to make the move and do this full time she is so clueless on what content would make her channel grow and the videos she does post are all flavourless, boring and not to mention she often comes across horrifically in them. She may delude herself into believing she is a 'real influencer' but she really has no idea what she's doing.

 

[ohsosweet]

Long thumbs.

If you’re looking for things that are issues, things become issues. There’s nothing wrong at all with H’s development. She’s perfectly within the usual parameters of what’s normal/standard. She even said so herself. Why is she dragging the poor girl back and forth to an osteopath still? That woman and her control issues are terrifying.

 

[cosmicstar]

She really missed the boat on getting good content from her Paris trip. Lot's of people would click on a video that was called 'Spend x hours in Paris with me' or something along those lines, because they would be interested to see what you can get up to in such a short space of time and may want to do the same. But, as usual, Shan's lack of talent when it comes to being a content creator let her down. Considering she so very obviously wants to make the move and do this full time she is so clueless on what content would make her channel grow and the videos she does post are all flavourless, boring and not to mention she often comes across horrifically in them. She may delude herself into believing she is a 'real influencer' but she really has no idea what she's doing.

She didnt go to Paris. She went to Toulouse. But its still a beautiful city with amazing architecture and museums. And the French food is yummy wherever you go in France. Toulouse has great local delicacies as well. She didnt have the kids to stop her from filming and could have turned it into a very glamourus trip. But alas....

 

[VirgoGossip]

She didnt go to Paris. She went to Toulouse. But its still a beautiful city with amazing architecture and museums. And the French food is yummy wherever you go in France. Toulouse has great local delicacies as well. She didnt have the kids to stop her from filming and could have turned it into a very glamourus trip. But alas....

Please know I'm not being sarcastic and I am being totally genuine when I say this comment has genuinely taught me more about Toulouse than Shan's 'content' did ♥

 

[Dramallama2]

After all the comments she had about rolling up the Muslin, she’s still doing it, in the middle of the night aswell and showing it to everyone on the internet, she really couldn’t possibly care less about her kids

 

[ohsosweet]

After all the comments she had about rolling up the Muslin, she’s still doing it, in the middle of the night aswell and showing it to everyone on the internet, she really couldn’t possibly care less about her kids

I think it’s totally irresponsible that she has taken that photo too. Anything at all can happen overnight when you’re tired. Why take silly photos like this and risk dozing off, ESPECIALLY when she’s clearly not giving H the bottle feed herself.

 

[Sophs2095]

I think it’s totally irresponsible that she has taken that photo too. Anything at all can happen overnight when you’re tired. Why take silly photos like this and risk dozing off, ESPECIALLY when she’s clearly not giving H the bottle feed herself.

And surely she’s at more risk of falling asleep by just laying next to Hallie rather than sitting up to feed her properly

 

[cosmicstar]

And the Laziest Mum award goes to.... (drumroll).....

 

[ohsosweet]

To be clear, I’m not against co sleeping - I do it myself with my second child but the safe sleep 7 are nowhere to be seen in this photo.

 

[Puffin_island]

Which poor person is going to listen to the podcast she's featured in a share the crap she talks about?!
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And the Laziest Mum award goes to.... (drumroll).....

There's times when I feel like I'm being a lazy mum (like today when we're both getting over a cold and Jojo and Gran have done a lot of babysitting while I prep the next few days meals) but then I just think of Shan and immediately feel better

 

[cosmicstar]

Which poor person is going to listen to the podcast she's featured in a share the crap she talks about?!
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There's times when I feel like I'm being a lazy mum (like today when we're both getting over a cold and Jojo and Gran have done a lot of babysitting while I prep the next few days meals) but then I just think of Shan and immediately feel better

I thought the exact same thing about the podcast. Great minds....

Getting help from family sometime when poorly isn't being lazy! Ignoring your children for the sake of social media content and using unsafe methods for feeding that might save you some time on the other hand is

 

[ohsosweet]

I thought the exact same thing about the podcast. Great minds....

Getting help from family sometime when poorly isn't being lazy! Ignoring your children for the sake of social media content and using unsafe methods for feeding that might save you some time on the other hand is

What gets me is that whether we like it or not, she’s is in a position of influence because of the size of her following. Her actions are seen by many (possibly newly pregnant women or new mums) who are learning themselves and people could look at this and think it’s normal without researching for themselves. If she wants to make it as an influencer, I personally think that it’s her responsibility to act in an acceptable (and safe!) way to show others.

 

[cosmicstar]

What gets me is that whether we like it or not, she’s is in a position of influence because of the size of her following. Her actions are seen by many (possibly newly pregnant women or new mums) who are learning themselves and people could look at this and think it’s normal without researching for themselves. If she wants to make it as an influencer, I personally think that it’s her responsibility to act in an acceptable (and safe!) way to show others.

In an ideal world, it would be her responsibility.

Unfortunately Shan is Shan and she isn't going to research her topics before giving anyone advice to her followers anymore than she is going to stop saying "relatable" and "I'm not gonna lie guys..." (when we all know, she IS)

 

[ohsosweet]

In an ideal world, it would be her responsibility.

Unfortunately Shan is Shan and she isn't going to research her topics before giving anyone advice to her followers anymore than she is going to stop saying "relatable" and "I'm not gonna lie guys..." (when we all know, she IS)

No, you’re completely right. She literally researches nothing! I’m just giving her too much credit I think.

 

[Littleoldmemischief]

I don't understand why you'd ever think to take a pic like that in the middle of the night.. when my baby woke, I'd change her, feed her and put her back in her crib to sleep. Never crossed my mind to stop and take a pic of myself pretending to be asleep and my baby with a rolled up muslin on them . She's just odd and the shittiest parent

 

[graceanatomy]

She goes on and on and on about Hello fresh EVERY SODDING DAY. I can't stand it.
And hello fresh is the worst out of all the meals-in-boxes services. Sorry to anyone who uses it but it's the shittest one. Gousto is far better if you're going to subscribe to one.

 

[cosmicstar]

She goes on and on and on about Hello fresh EVERY SODDING DAY. I can't stand it.
And hello fresh is the worst out of all the meals-in-boxes services. Sorry to anyone who uses it but it's the shittest one. Gousto is far better if you're going to subscribe to one.

I liked Mindful Chef as it has less low nutrient foods like pasta/bread/rice than HelloFresh. With the latter you got a lot of fillers and less substance of food. I still find cooking at home cheaper to be honest.


Shan does it because it keeps the flow of either steady income or free meals, which means he has to spend less in food. Its literally the very bottom of the influencer chain she has reached.