Helen Briggs & Chet Sket #7 Bleus up the duff, no sesh for Chet, his dreams of boozing in Ibiza won’t be met.

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JoeExotic said:
Just scrolled through chets insta to see their first gender reveal, you’re so right! Also didn’t even hug each other, just stood their looking gutted 😂
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If I remember right, cba going on chets insta, helen went back for a second look at the cake and looked even more disappointed then the first time she saw it. So sad :( I always said I wanted a boy and that’s what I had, but if it would have been a girl I would have been equally as ecstatic! Poor baby :( she’s gonna get pushed to the side quicker than those bleeping elastic workout bands Helen used for 5 seconds
 
JoeExotic said:
Just scrolled through chets insta to see their first gender reveal, you’re so right! Also didn’t even hug each other, just stood their looking gutted 😂
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Oh no, I just had a look as well, they actually just stare at each other like wtf as if that was not the outcome we had planned. I find sometimes girls in relationships with toxic guys feel like if they give them the 'heir to the throne' it'll make them more loyal or less likely to leave. Not saying that's Helen's thinking but anyone watching those two videos can see it's like night and day.
 
geeforthetea said:
Oh no, I just had a look as well, they actually just stare at each other like wtf as if that was not the outcome we had planned. I find sometimes girls in relationships with toxic guys feel like if they give them the 'heir to the throne' it'll make them more loyal or less likely to leave. Not saying that's Helen's thinking but anyone watching those two videos can see it's like night and day.
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That was after they pulled the cannons and Chet didn’t even move not like he did this time they wanted a boy way more then there little girl poor baby will be left out and unwanted see how much attention ocean will get now
 

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First time I had a kid I didn’t care what came out and then second time I was desperate for the opposite gender so was ridiculously happy when I got it. But those videos are sad to watch, I hope it’s just the excitement of having one for each and not because they were so desperate for a boy 😢
 
It’s so sad to see. Some people would love a child regardless and these two duck ups just care about having a boy. Makes me sick. Poor ocean. Chets defo the type to have been constantly saying to Helen about a mini me etc so she probably knew he would be disappointed when it was a girl at oceans reveal.
 
Jesus, gender disappointment is a real thing, I really wanted a boy and I had a girl and I found it hard to come to terms to having a girl but she’s the best thing ever now. But if I got pregnant again yes I would want a boy and I would be over the moon to have one of each but if I ended up with another girl I would be happy still. People need to get off their high horses, I’ve gone back and watched oceans reveal and I do believe it’s because they have one of each now why they were so happy. Least the first reveal got more effort put into it
 
Cthxo said:
Jesus, gender disappointment is a real thing, I really wanted a boy and I had a girl and I found it hard to come to terms to having a girl but she’s the best thing ever now. But if I got pregnant again yes I would want a boy and I would be over the moon to have one of each but if I ended up with another girl I would be happy still. People need to get off their high horses, I’ve gone back and watched oceans reveal and I do believe it’s because they have one of each now why they were so happy. Least the first reveal got more effort put into it
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She rabbited on for months that she was desperate for a boy, all she wanted was a boy etc. As I’ve said previously, yes, wanting a specific gender and not ‘getting’ that is tough to come to terms with. But Helen and Chet were desperate for a boy and I don’t believe that excitement is down to the fact that they now have one of each, I think it’s down to the fact that the confetti was blue and not pink.
 
Cthxo said:
Jesus, gender disappointment is a real thing, I really wanted a boy and I had a girl and I found it hard to come to terms to having a girl but she’s the best thing ever now. But if I got pregnant again yes I would want a boy and I would be over the moon to have one of each but if I ended up with another girl I would be happy still. People need to get off their high horses, I’ve gone back and watched oceans reveal and I do believe it’s because they have one of each now why they were so happy. Least the first reveal got more effort put into it
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I had gender disapointement too. But I would never act the way they have. My kids would never be able to look back on videos and see such a significant difference in excitement about them! If I had a daughter next (what I originally imagined) I wouldn’t feel anymore excited or anymore love than I do for my son. gender disappointment isn’t an excuse to act like one was more wanted than the other imo 🤷🏽‍♀️
 
Idkwhyimhere said:
I mentioned this on the last thread and I was told ‘it’s cause they’ve got one of each they were so excited’
Glad others have gone back and seen the reaction and how they kind of just stood looking at each other for oceans 🙈
It is an extreme difference in reaction
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Exactly! I don’t think anyone can pin it on that they’re happy now cos they have one of each. The difference in reactions with the gender reveals is quite apparent.
 
I think the thing is their whole lives are on social media. Of course some people will get disappointed if they have their heart set on a boy or a girl, no one is perfect, deep down most people probably have a preference, but it's not out there for everyone to see. For all I know my mum wanted a boy and got me but I'll never really know, whereas Ocean will be able to see her mum going on about wanting a boy and the obvious difference in reaction between hers and her brothers gender reveal. I get what some people are saying maybe it's cause she has one of each but their reaction is very ott, it's as if they are they first couple to every have a boy the way they're going on. You can actually see the relief on Helen's face. Very odd.
 
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