Harry and Meghan #116 Meggy exercising her bunions while Haz mucks about with his carrots and onions

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Sea said:
I totally buy into him being traumatised by his mother's death. He did have to share his mourning and loss with the world, his mother wasn't just his to grieve. Since her death there have been conspiracy theories about the accident, publicised annual reports be it birth day or death anniversary, he can't truly escape her death.
Doesn't matter that William has apparently coped, everyone deals with emotions and trauma individually. I can understand that becoming a husband and father would resurface pain and fear that he may have put aside.

But I have issue with him using Diana's death as his USP. I'm not convinced he's triggered by London, he's happily lived there all his life - he might feel it's chaotic but triggering because of his mum? I feel that's just another reason for him to hate England. He's also happily visited Paris for rugby didn't the city where his mother died trigger him? The guy needs a therapist without any agenda except to help him.
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It's not London he is triggered by, it's being held to account for his churlsih behaviour. It's the same anxiety we might get if we badmouth a friend to another friend and they tattle on us and we have to face the friend. Nothing to do with London. Where ever he is when he has to face his Father or William he will have anxiety.
 
clueless said:
This ballbag winds me up something shocking. So US media always use these incorrect terms and that's ok?? Surely as a so-called 'Royal correspondent' it would be his job to correct/advise them and ensure he uses the correct terms? What 'Royal correspondent' worth their salt doesn't know and use the most basic of terms? It doesn't matter where in the world it is, US or anywhere, 'Duchess Kate' and 'Duchess Beg' are incorrect! 😡
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If he's happy to use incorrect titles now, just wait until Kate becomes Princess of Wales. I bet he'll start calling all the Sussexes "Prince" and "Princess" to keep Megsy happy.

Maybe the British press should start using "President Joe" and "Firstie Jill" and blame it on Scoobie :p
 
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Notworthy said:
It's not London he is triggered by, it's being held to account for his churlsih behaviour. It's the same anxiety we might get if we badmouth a friend to another friend and they tattle on us and we have to face the friend. Nothing to do with London. Where ever he is when he has to face his Father or William he will have anxiety.
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Many years ago my kids were bullied by the locals (older vindictive (sadly) kids.) but every weekend we could get out of town & go live a happier life staying at my parents, a place they couldn’t follow us to. I used to love the freedom of taking them to a place they felt safe & could completely enjoy. I always hated the return journey on Sunday night, the black cloud was always waiting. I’m sure Haz knows ALL about that (not).
his mum is buried at Althorp. When was his last visit to her grave? He isolated at Frogmore for Pp funeral & skipped country well over a year before that.
 
Satisfying Click said:
Anyone else think today will be the day to publish a baby photo given the Duchess of Cambridge's launch?
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No!

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that I think Megs knows the value of the first Lili photo, and I don't think she will "waste" it on this announcement. I could be wrong, but I think she will hold that photo to the very last moment.

Other than "hello daddy", its her most potent bullet right now
(and she really doesn't have very many bullets left to fire anymore. She has wasted most of the ones she had)
 
wisebutwild said:
It keeps cropping on here that the kids will automatically become Prince and Princess when Charles becomes King. I am sure I read that it is not automatic it has to be granted OR NOT by the incoming monarch. Also if PC intends to cut back on royalty I'm sure they will never be granted the titles in the first place.

Perhaps somebody who knows more about this than me can put us all straight about this matter once and for all. It's not good for some Tattlers to be having sleepless nights worrying about this!
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At the moment it is automatic as male line grandchildren of the monarch they legally become prince/ess. A new letters patent would have to be issued prior to Charles ascension to stop that otherwise it would take an act of Parliament. Louise and James are legally a Princess and a Prince
 
Flairey said:
This actually pisses me right off. It shouldn't but it does. I have major anxiety and the most horrible flash backs travelling in the car, following a serious car crash leaving me in a wheelchair.. Husband can't get petrol with me in the car because the smell is one of my strongest triggers and I'm a gibbering wreck. I've had all sorts of therapy to try and get over it but guess what, it doesn't ever go away. You have to live with it and get the duck on with your life. So if someone like little old me can deal with it this odious little goblin can deal with it. Besides, and I may be doing him a major injustice, if London was such a huge trigger for him, I'm sure granny could have found him somewhere out of the city that could have made things a little easier.
For example Mr Flairey has bought a motor bike and sidecar, I love it, no flashbacks and I can have a lovely day out. The fact I resemble Nora batty is irrelevant. You find ways to deal. I'm not saying it's easy to do, it isn't, far from it I find that pink Sparkly unicorns said over and over in my head makes car travel a little easier, doing crosswords or reading a book, anything to distract from the fact I'm in a car.
I have no doubt he is triggered by certain things the things he has gone through would suggest its very probable. However, I suspect, like the post says his wife has told him London triggers him. when they launched heads together, it would have been the perfect opportunity for him to speak out about it. He would have reached so many people because he was more relatable then. I also think William would have supported him with it and it would have been something the whole family would have got behind him in. Of this I am sure. I genuinely think he has PTSD, but I also know there is no way on earth I would have had a therapy session like he had on TV. No. Fukin. Way. It was an absolutely horrific experience, I wouldn't want my sheer terror out there for the world to see.
Maybe I'm wrong and I'm doing him a serious injustice, but I feel he's making a mockery of the whole PTSD issue, there are many many people who are completely debilitated by it, people not as lucky as me to have an incredible support network. People who are drinking to complete oblivion and self medicating with legal and illegal drugs (which he has admitted to doing) to get through their day, prefering to be out of their heads than live with the horrors they've experienced. Families utterly destroyed by it, because the sufferer has committed suicide because they cannot cope with what has happened. I know it is possible to have PTSD from hearing about things, I have a friend who fostered seriously abused children and the disclosures they gave to her have left her incredibly traumatised due to the fact the children went into the whole trauma and totally re lived it. So yes it's possible he has it from his mother's death, but I have this awful, and I hope I'm wrong, feeling that this particular trauma is manufactured by the wife for monetary gains. Shoot me if you like..
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I'm so sorry to hear everything you have been through, but at the same time I am so inspired by how you have handled all that trauma (y) :m(y) and kudos to Mr Flairey for thinking of the motorbike and sidecar (y)

I can totally understand why you would be majorly peed off with the Montecito duo and their word salads, and think your point about Prince William's support for Harry is spot on.

I hope life for you continues to get better and you are able to live the best version of it that you can ❤
 
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