Hannah & Becky - CheethamsWithDreams

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People, I am going to come in and answer your questions about Hannah cp and the way they treat and behave around her. As I can understand why they do it from my cp and experience's of growing up with it. But before I continue, we don't know what mental or cognitive function issues Hannah has which are associated with her cp. As the family have probably been like me, told it's part of the cp and get on with it. As things with children disabilities 20 - 30 years old were different. Not like nowadays, with children with disabilities getting diagnoses for everything, when it's mental/cognitive function.

Firstly I understand, why they don't tell her about the activity as soon as they know, as Hannah cannot control her emotional side, she gets overwhelmed and excited. But her is the problem, when they do that she may be fine for the activity. But when it comes to the day of the activity, she might not be able to do it, due to her cp, aka tiredness, pain levels being high, or weather conditions aka hot or cold weather. Which can and will lead to a big downer for her. Because she doesn't want her disability to let people down. It's horrible.

Hannah is capable of making her own decisions, but I do think quite often she has to say yes, just to please Becky. But I do think that has come the norm to her. With her family too scared to interfere and say no. If it's a difficult decision like myself, be better to have someone for guidance and sometimes take over, because she will become overwhelmed. And will make misjudgements. Because with a cp brain can often take longer to process information that I normal brain.
 
Celefind316 said:
People, I am going to come in and answer your questions about Hannah cp and the way they treat and behave around her. As I can understand why they do it from my cp and experience's of growing up with it. But before I continue, we don't know what mental or cognitive function issues Hannah has which are associated with her cp. As the family have probably been like me, told it's part of the cp and get on with it. As things with children disabilities 20 - 30 years old were different. Not like nowadays, with children with disabilities getting diagnoses for everything, when it's mental/cognitive function.

Firstly I understand, why they don't tell her about the activity as soon as they know, as Hannah cannot control her emotional side, she gets overwhelmed and excited. But her is the problem, when they do that she may be fine for the activity. But when it comes to the day of the activity, she might not be able to do it, due to her cp, aka tiredness, pain levels being high, or weather conditions aka hot or cold weather. Which can and will lead to a big downer for her. Because she doesn't want her disability to let people down. It's horrible.

Hannah is capable of making her own decisions, but I do think quite often she has to say yes, just to please Becky. But I do think that has come the norm to her. With her family too scared to interfere and say no. If it's a difficult decision like myself, be better to have someone for guidance and sometimes take over, because she will become overwhelmed. And will make misjudgements. Because with a cp brain can often take longer to process information that I normal brain.
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Thank you for that, it’s really helpful 😊
 
Yeah she has meltdowns and she doesn't understand the concept of certain things they've said that in the past, like she had a melt down over a change of hotel on their last Orlando holiday and they couldn't tell her the car was going in for a service or something as she wouldn't cope with knowing the car wasn't the same? they won't ever admit any issues as if she can't fully understand then the consent for her personal issues being all over social media isn't there and this their income now isn't it.
 
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CP covers a wide range. The person I’m close to with CP has capacity to make decisions but at the same time functions like a young child. They can be easily manipulated, and don’t process information like an adult would. They get the final say on things in their life but it’s led them into trouble and everything has to be handled carefully to try and help them make their true choice without outside influence or from people pleasing. Unlike Hannah they can talk and are more physically able but the more in-depth you go with them, the more you start to see their learning disability.

I remember Becky saying Hannah can’t be in the house when they give away an item as she thinks they are giving away everything they own. At the same time she says Hannah has no learning disabilities or issues. I understand them wanting people to treat Hannah the same as everyone else as I’m sure sadly people assume Hannah has no understanding. People make all kinds of horrible assumptions about disabled people.
 
Just back from Florida & they're straight into another gifted holiday 🙄. Yorkshire now, with the grandparents tagging on this time. The rest of us save to go on our holidays and pay full whack, meanwhile freebies are given out left, right & centre to virtual nobodies.
 
Guys that fake smile Becky is wining me up. She desperately needs, bringing down a peg or two

She used Hannah for all the freebies she can get, which is creeping closer to abuse of Hannah disability. It going to be interesting now, if they do anymore foreign holidays for the rest of the year, as there may be restrictions, on benefits Hannah gets. Or reductions to the council tax, for the house being adapted for Hannah needs. As they already had three one week holidays aboard this year. A fourth holiday may put them close to the limit, which I think is 28 days in one calendar year.

I hope Becky isn't going to used her elderly grandparents or the niece now, for the freebies parade.

Shame Becky parents haven't got the backbone to speak up to Becky and say enough is enough.

Ps has Lucy Becky girlfriend gave work up, as she seems to be on every holiday.
 
It used to like watching them when I first came across them on tiktok a few years ago. I get an odd vibe from Becky with how much she begs and all the freebies. It's very exploitative of Hannah. However, Becky and others wouldn't see it that way and will be justifying everything as they are 'famous,' and its expected to be given a holiday or three, or that it's fine as Hannah is getting to meet soandso or is getting this treat.


Becky seems to be making up for times where she maybe felt left out because of Hannah needing attention or care, since she can use Hannah for her personal gain and the status. Hannah has very much been the meal ticket for Becky for online fame as she wouldn't have gotten the same attention if it was just her posting.

I always feel a bit icky when people use their disabled siblings /children for content especially on tiktok. I get a strange vibe from it and I just feel it's very exploitative so they can get views even if they record a conversation that they are having them or showing text messages that a disabled siblings has sent them.
 
Celefind316 said:
Guys that fake smile Becky is wining me up. She desperately needs, bringing down a peg or two

She used Hannah for all the freebies she can get, which is creeping closer to abuse of Hannah disability. It going to be interesting now, if they do anymore foreign holidays for the rest of the year, as there may be restrictions, on benefits Hannah gets. Or reductions to the council tax, for the house being adapted for Hannah needs. As they already had three one week holidays aboard this year. A fourth holiday may put them close to the limit, which I think is 28 days in one calendar year.

I hope Becky isn't going to used her elderly grandparents or the niece now, for the freebies parade.

Shame Becky parents haven't got the backbone to speak up to Becky and say enough is enough.

Ps has Lucy Becky girlfriend gave work up, as she seems to be on every holiday.
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My daughter’s friend lost her PIP, and had to reapply, as she was in hospital for more than 28 days. I’m guessing they get round this by not being away on holiday for more than 28 days at a time?
 
So going by yesterday's story it sounds like Becky & gf might be moving house? Surely these 'influencers' can't get mortgages, how on earth can their future income be guaranteed? Although I could be wrong & they're just having a clear out 🤷‍♂️
 
She moving, but I thinks she privately rents a flat, her lease may be up or the landlord may want to sell the flat. But it's going to be interesting to see where they move to. And if they rent or buy somewhere.
 
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