Grace Victory #8 Has the entire village raise her child, while she sits on the couch waiting takeaway

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She looks an absolute state
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As someone who has given birth I had no idea there’s such a thing as a ward tour and you can see room you gonna give birth etc. Is that a thing?
I mean… don’t wanna sound daft but room is a room no? They wheel you in, you have your bed and everything. Like what’s to tour about?
I understand you wanna bring your music/ comfort things, make it more comfy and relaxed but still.
Maybe just me.
 
UnderThePalmTree said:
As someone who has given birth I had no idea there’s such a thing as a ward tour and you can see room you gonna give birth etc. Is that a thing?
I mean… don’t wanna sound daft but room is a room no? They wheel you in, you have your bed and everything. Like what’s to tour about?
I understand you wanna bring your music/ comfort things, make it more comfy and relaxed but still.
Maybe just me.
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They offered it at my local hospital's midwife unit, but not when I gave birth as it was covid times. Although I ended up at the bigger hospital for other reasons so it would t have made much difference.

I also had to walk from my ward to the birthing room and even walked into the theatre where they gave me the epidural and I had my c-section. Wheeled would've been a luxury!
 
Snazzycat said:
I think that as she is heavily pregnant she would be exempt from wearing one, especially if she struggles to breath anyway.
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Potentially yes. However whenever she takes photos in hospital she never bothers to wear a mask. Considering she is heavily pregnant, and caught covid last time, it baffles me how relaxed she is.

also think it’s inappropriate to drag the child into a hospital too, could have easily left him at her mums (he practically lives there anyway)

I just find graces attitude selfish 😫
 
Hereforthehottea said:
And maybe he wouldn’t draw on the wall if he wasn’t bored! She’s confiscated the colouring pencils, absolute witch.
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My baby just turned 1. I like to colour in the evenings when my anxiety is up. My lil one ALWAYS found a random colour pencil and would proceed to make marks and random shapes in her books! So at 11 months I got her crayola washable 12+ months (she was 11months when doing so).

Even after my little girl had different coloured paper (thanks £1land)and pens, she was content. On day 3 though she tried the walls. I reinforced the paper and showed her. ( she did try again another 7 times and then gave up and now draws on the paper) This may change 🤣😂😂

**I am not advocating to do so with your own child. I am a nanny my self and previous room leader in a nursery.
 
Rambler92 said:
My baby just turned 1. I like to colour in the evenings when my anxiety is up. My lil one ALWAYS found a random colour pencil and would proceed to make marks and random shapes in her books! So at 11 months I got her crayola washable 12+ months (she was 11months when doing so).

Even after my little girl had different coloured paper (thanks £1land)and pens, she was content. On day 3 though she tried the walls. I reinforced the paper and showed her. ( she did try again another 7 times and then gave up and now draws on the paper) This may change 🤣😂😂

**I am not advocating to do so with your own child. I am a nanny my self and previous room leader in a nursery.
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Yeah that’s called redirecting their behaviour and it’s what’s actually recommended in gentle parenting. What Grace appears to be practicing is permissive parenting, which is allowing the child(ren) to do whatever they want and not asserting any boundaries that would benefit you, or them. Children love routine and boundaries so it’s a really bad method of parenting, but imagine it’s easy to fall into it if you only read the first slide of some Insta grid posts to share them on ur stories for clout rather than doing any reading or practicing any parenting 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
CoffeeMamma said:
No amount of redirection stopped my child drawing on the walls so we got water painting/magic painting and the “mess free colouring” from Crayola, so he could still have fun with art without me having a nervy b in our (rented) home she’s just bone idle
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My love that’s also a form of redirection! Sounds like you did amazingly, with no “nervy b” needed 😂❤️
 
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