Grace Victory #10 Minimalist Mothering, Maximum Camel Toe

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Scarlettmine said:
Oh, the coma strikes again.
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I was actually just coming to say, I feel like she actually seems to understand that this isn’t how things should be, and she genuinely does seem overwhelmed and out of her depth. Recognising that she’s using coping mechanisms eg online shopping that she obviously knows won’t be helping her. The thing is, you have to wonder what the therapy has been doing for her if she’s continuing to feel this way? And if she recognises that it’s not working, is she looking for alternatives? (And if not, why not? Those kids will not be distractable babies/toddlers forever and they will begin to notice her just wafting through life on clothes deliveries and takeaways and not caring about much else… except fobbing them off on whichever family member will take them.)
 
Missloaf said:
I was actually just coming to say, I feel like she actually seems to understand that this isn’t how things should be, and she genuinely does seem overwhelmed and out of her depth. Recognising that she’s using coping mechanisms eg online shopping that she obviously knows won’t be helping her. The thing is, you have to wonder what the therapy has been doing for her if she’s continuing to feel this way? And if she recognises that it’s not working, is she looking for alternatives? (And if not, why not? Those kids will not be distractable babies/toddlers forever and they will begin to notice her just wafting through life on clothes deliveries and takeaways and not caring about much else… except fobbing them off on whichever family member will take them.)
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There is no difference to her lifestyle before coma though, except now she uses coma as her excuse.
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The Yoko Ono of GY said:
There is no difference to her lifestyle before coma though, except now she uses coma as her excuse.
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Ok, I should have watched her story before posting this. After watching it, my comment is irrelevant.
 
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I also feel like she doesn't seem to acknowledge that having a child (children) changes you. You will never be the same person you were before.

Because she had her child at the same time as her coma she blames everything on the coma... Refusing to acknowledge that her life, body and brain has been inexplicably re_wired because she has had children.

My husband and I always say that having a child completely destroys everything you were before, and allows you to rebuild into something new and beautiful. If Grace just clings to this person pre-2020 she will never be happy, her life HAS changed and she needs to accept that.
 
Waste of money that therapist she had been seeing because clearly it's not helped at all.

She really needs to just buck up and get on with her life. Find alternatives to feel better (I.e see gp for antidepressants, find a better therapist etc) because she just keeps using the coma as an excuse for everything in her life. 4 years later - how long does she think she can play the blame game on it and actually not do anything to help herself. She clearly wants to wallow in self pity and enjoys it. Pathetic.
Anything but an 'influencer'
 
Maybe, just maybe the sugary diet causes the main part of the unhingedness. 😒
 

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Yes, I find this genuinely worrying and feel bad discussing tbh. I wish her all the best for future and would want her to get well for her and her family’s sake. If she goes quiet content wise then that’s hopefully for the best. She’s fortunate if she can work less as Lee is working more. Many women would be very grateful
 
I mean I’m finding it hard to be sympathetic because she’s just SO bleeping self absorbed and her holiday rundown has been her talking, once again, about herself.
Crying while she washes up is? Maybe it’s because you are a lazy self obsessed person and you simply cannot cope doing so much for others?
 
Littleoldmemischief said:
You'd think nearly dying would be a huge wake up call to move your life, stop moaning on the internet about how hard being alive is, how hard parenting is. I wish I could work less and be with my children more but unfortunately I don't have that luxury. I boils my piss how much she is so self absorbed and woo is me..
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I don’t think she has it in her to give up the easy pay cheque. As much as her current existence is detrimental to her mental health, only having to half arse a 1 min AD every now and again to cover the bills will never not appeal to Grace. She is LAZY through and through.
 
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